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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you class as passing judgement?"
if someone is bi or married or anything really. we are all here to have fun
people judge all the time for others sexual interests |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes its easy to pass judgement and pontificate on others than to take an honest look at yourself that can be scarey "
or some that get rebuffed and wont leave it alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thou I don't really pass judgement on people on here and they say why there on here etc and I say no thanks.it turns from awhh hi sexy till your an ugly slag no wonder your on here type msgs
I really should start judging lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Human nature?
I agree, every time you meet or talk to someone you make a judgement"
I suppose it depends on whether those judgments are based on stereotypes or prejudices ....I sometimes find it strange that people with such an alternative lifestyle as swinging can be so narrow minded with other peoples preferences, each to there own I say
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you get abusive messages from guys that can't take no for an answer just report and admin will deal with them.
I've been lucky, most guys I say no thanks to reply with no probs and thanks for the reply. |
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I suppose there are different types of judgement really. Some people think that expressing a preference is akin to casting judgement, but we all have preferences of some sort. Actually, I don't think there's any point to what I'm saying. Cider. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think having a conflicting opinion is the same as passing judgement though, I would say it only becomes judgemental if you direct insults or abuse at someone because you don't agree with their views. It's good to have healthy debate, it's just not possible on this particular forum lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose there are different types of judgement really. Some people think that expressing a preference is akin to casting judgement, but we all have preferences of some sort. Actually, I don't think there's any point to what I'm saying. Cider. "
i cant stand people passing judgement on what is after all a voluntary adult sex site....now imagine drinkin cider at ur age michael..wtf that all about...would you not try to progress to a nice merlot, or a gin and tonic..soooo.teenager..ffs...terrible!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose there are different types of judgement really. Some people think that expressing a preference is akin to casting judgement, but we all have preferences of some sort. Actually, I don't think there's any point to what I'm saying. Cider.
i cant stand people passing judgement on what is after all a voluntary adult sex site....now imagine drinkin cider at ur age michael..wtf that all about...would you not try to progress to a nice merlot, or a gin and tonic..soooo.teenager..ffs...terrible!!!!"
What bout posh Cidre? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good idea for a thread...whats ur tipple?? i can do it coz i done 2 and i will be getting hate mail again...lol
anyway im an alcho and will drink just about anything..!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose there are different types of judgement really. Some people think that expressing a preference is akin to casting judgement, but we all have preferences of some sort. Actually, I don't think there's any point to what I'm saying. Cider.
i cant stand people passing judgement on what is after all a voluntary adult sex site....now imagine drinkin cider at ur age michael..wtf that all about...would you not try to progress to a nice merlot, or a gin and tonic..soooo.teenager..ffs...terrible!!!!
What bout posh Cidre?"
 C'ést Cidre, not Cider! Mmmm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all make judgement , we can't help ourselves. We all have our own morals and standards and anyone not matching those,we judge
Does that make us bad people? I think not. Rather its like a wee internal filter that keeps us safe in ourselves
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all make judgement , we can't help ourselves. We all have our own morals and standards and anyone not matching those,we judge
Does that make us bad people? I think not. Rather its like a wee internal filter that keeps us safe in ourselves
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Nah, you're wrong nippy!!! Oooops was that me being judgemental?? lmao  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all make judgements. We are all wrong in the eyes of some and in the eyes of others saints.
live life to what you know is right for you...if you are on this site and judgemental you truly are in the wrong place.
not one single person on here applies to the 'norms' of society..remember this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We all make judgements. We are all wrong in the eyes of some and in the eyes of others saints.
live life to what you know is right for you...if you are on this site and judgemental you truly are in the wrong place.
not one single person on here applies to the 'norms' of society..remember this"
So can we make judgement or not?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Although i'm just repeating others......everybody is judgemental, just that some are more vocal and harsh about it
I think for me I'm happy enough as I know what kind of person I am and if people on the internet want to think I'm a bitch/faker/asshole whatever then fair play to them, it doesn't really matter to me, only people who I know and care about , they are the ones whose view of me I would take to heart
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very sound reasoning ya have there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well.......this sight kind of is all about judging. like whom fits my preferences. whom is ok. and whom is not in a million years...like the famous judgement"oh sorry you are not my type" and so on. keeping that in mind, a lot of people can't help but take it personal as is it is a judgement on the person themselves. just comes down to how the individual handles it. so within this culture here on fab it is a natural progression to judge someone's preferences. but....it really boils down to one thing......self control. if you do not like what you see in what the person wants or does not want. take it on the chin..man/woman up and move on. there are no need for personal attack. or public ridicule for personal choices. |
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