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only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Some of the most experienced cpls iv met have been the nicest n least intimidating.more experience doesnt mean its been all good for them.they are the 1s who have seen both sides like guys not being able to perform |
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over a year ago
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i do sometimes but you get over that pretty quick ive never been with more than 1 at a time so cant comment on that but im getting used to my nerves at this point. |
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the meets ive had only one was experienced. saying that it went well and was enjoyable. im definately not ready for the sex partys etc bit overwhelming i think. think i should meet few more before attempting to get aninvite to one of those wouldnt know where to look or start haha |
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"only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha "
I thank you for bringing up an interesting topic, and yes I would have to say I find more experienced people on here to be very intimidating and yes it would put me off meeting them as I worry about looking like an idiot.  |
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"only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha
I thank you for bringing up an interesting topic, and yes I would have to say I find more experienced people on here to be very intimidating and yes it would put me off meeting them as I worry about looking like an idiot. "
yea thats what im worried about lol im no stud by anymeans just joe average wouldnt want to be a let down but i guess if you dont at least give it a try you youll never know? but have to admit id feel alot more comfortable meeting newbies such as myself but i know that doesnt mean it will be a good meet all parties could be v nervous and be a bumbling disaster lol |
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"only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha
I thank you for bringing up an interesting topic, and yes I would have to say I find more experienced people on here to be very intimidating and yes it would put me off meeting them as I worry about looking like an idiot.
yea thats what im worried about lol im no stud by anymeans just joe average wouldnt want to be a let down but i guess if you dont at least give it a try you youll never know? but have to admit id feel alot more comfortable meeting newbies such as myself but i know that doesnt mean it will be a good meet all parties could be v nervous and be a bumbling disaster lol "
im a bumbling disaster in general, in fact i do wonder why i am on here sometimes! |
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"only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha
I thank you for bringing up an interesting topic, and yes I would have to say I find more experienced people on here to be very intimidating and yes it would put me off meeting them as I worry about looking like an idiot.
yea thats what im worried about lol im no stud by anymeans just joe average wouldnt want to be a let down but i guess if you dont at least give it a try you youll never know? but have to admit id feel alot more comfortable meeting newbies such as myself but i know that doesnt mean it will be a good meet all parties could be v nervous and be a bumbling disaster lol
im a bumbling disaster in general, in fact i do wonder why i am on here sometimes!"
ah reading your verifications i doubt you have anything to worry about rave reviews ! lol |
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"only having a few meets myself wondering are others intimidated meeting more experienced swingers ? i find i feel there are high expectations lol probably not the case as there are some really nice people on here. but just a topic for discussion besides fuck kiss etc ha
I thank you for bringing up an interesting topic, and yes I would have to say I find more experienced people on here to be very intimidating and yes it would put me off meeting them as I worry about looking like an idiot.
yea thats what im worried about lol im no stud by anymeans just joe average wouldnt want to be a let down but i guess if you dont at least give it a try you youll never know? but have to admit id feel alot more comfortable meeting newbies such as myself but i know that doesnt mean it will be a good meet all parties could be v nervous and be a bumbling disaster lol
im a bumbling disaster in general, in fact i do wonder why i am on here sometimes!
ah reading your verifications i doubt you have anything to worry about rave reviews ! lol "
well look at it this way, who is going to leave a bad review, and even if they did , who would show it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not all about experience, some of our best meets were with less experienced people and one or two of the worst were with more experienced.....hate using the word "chemistry" but it really does depend on how everyone "clicks" on the night.... |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
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"It's not all about experience, some of our best meets were with less experienced people and one or two of the worst were with more experienced.....hate using the word "chemistry" but it really does depend on how everyone "clicks" on the night...."
This says a lot about the whole thing
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"I find a lot of people on here intimidating in general, sexual dynamos/geniuses the way they go on lol.
Totally agree "
agree myself with that one. qhile you may be good for someone doesnt mean your good for everyone as everyone is different inwhat they like. always thought it was bit stupid to write that on profiles a bit immature too i think but alot have loads of meets so some must like the confidence lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most people feel a bit intimidated and/or nervous before meets....i would hate it to be mechanical or lose those flutters"
Flutters should never fade on meets I think otherwise they become boring and not worth the effort |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The more experienced people we have met have been fantastic. They have been relaxed friendly and fun. They put us at ease immediately. Nerves are contagious. |
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"I think most people feel a bit intimidated and/or nervous before meets....i would hate it to be mechanical or lose those flutters
Flutters should never fade on meets I think otherwise they become boring and not worth the effort"
i love the butterflies i get in my tummy before a meet.its part of the fun of it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"everyone intimidates us lol we lack confidence over our body shape and get very nervous but since coming on here we are starting to get more confidence  "
I hope you didnt feel that way about us. You guys have nothing to worry about |
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"everyone intimidates us lol we lack confidence over our body shape and get very nervous but since coming on here we are starting to get more confidence
I hope you didnt feel that way about us. You guys have nothing to worry about "
no its just before but when we get there it seams to disappear and we just be ourselves and see what happens yous are great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not all about experience, some of our best meets were with less experienced people and one or two of the worst were with more experienced.....hate using the word "chemistry" but it really does depend on how everyone "clicks" on the night....
This says a lot about the whole thing
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Yes well said artdog. I have met quite a few really nice people but if there is no buzz or chemistry between us, it doesn't go any further. I have been keen to expand my experience but lack the confidence I think to take it further. Baby steps for me lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think most people feel a bit intimidated and/or nervous before meets....i would hate it to be mechanical or lose those flutters
Flutters are gooood"
Lol absolutely   |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
Have to have pre meet butterflies its all part of the meet and if we play all the better but always no pressure to play makes for a better meet
no need to be intimated we all have our failings but we also have our positive side as well |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"The more experienced people we have met have been fantastic. They have been relaxed friendly and fun. They put us at ease immediately. Nerves are contagious."
couldent agree more very good topic this well worth exploring |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"The more experienced people we have met have been fantastic. They have been relaxed friendly and fun. They put us at ease immediately. Nerves are contagious."
Being relaxed is contagious to.everyone is nervous on and before a meet but it only takes 1 person to relax n start the flirting to put everyone at ease. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"The more experienced people we have met have been fantastic. They have been relaxed friendly and fun. They put us at ease immediately. Nerves are contagious.
Being relaxed is contagious to.everyone is nervous on and before a meet but it only takes 1 person to relax n start the flirting to put everyone at ease."
i agree i think everyone is nervous in verining degrees before a meet so one relaxed person is a bonus...surley iam right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The more experienced people we have met have been fantastic. They have been relaxed friendly and fun. They put us at ease immediately. Nerves are contagious.
Being relaxed is contagious to.everyone is nervous on and before a meet but it only takes 1 person to relax n start the flirting to put everyone at ease."
Absolutely true |
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By *ts artMan
over a year ago
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"It's not all about experience, some of our best meets were with less experienced people and one or two of the worst were with more experienced.....hate using the word "chemistry" but it really does depend on how everyone "clicks" on the night....
This says a lot about the whole thing
Yes well said artdog. I have met quite a few really nice people but if there is no buzz or chemistry between us, it doesn't go any further. I have been keen to expand my experience but lack the confidence I think to take it further. Baby steps for me lol
''I think most people feel a bit intimidated and/or nervous before meets....i would hate it to be mechanical or lose those flutters''"
nerves can be funny things and its no harm no foul if someone feels things are going to fast or want to take their time.
everyone should be able to take things at a pace thats comfortable for anyone feeling nervous |
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