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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they're a supporting member and you can't transfer that to a new profile. Maybe they want to get their moneys worth. If they explain it on the profile I wouldn't see it as a problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people dont want to delete the profile as they will lose veris then. If it states on the profile that they are no longer together it is not really that dishonest is it? Better than pretending he/she still exists until the point of meeting! |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"I think people dont want to delete the profile as they will lose veris then. If it states on the profile that they are no longer together it is not really that dishonest is it? Better than pretending he/she still exists until the point of meeting!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some times the other half is completely aware and just doesn't want to play any more. They have veris and friends and are established.
I'd have no problem if it was stated in the profile.
But in all honesty, i don't judge others on their marital status, in fact i don't care what it is. I am meeting the person not their life, the less about their life i know the better as far as i'm concerned.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"some times the other half is completely aware and just doesn't want to play any more. They have veris and friends and are established.
I'd have no problem if it was stated in the profile.
But in all honesty, i don't judge others on their marital status, in fact i don't care what it is. I am meeting the person not their life, the less about their life i know the better as far as i'm concerned.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lovely people in admin  very kindly changed my single lady profile to a couples one so I could add A on without losing verifs or supporter time.
The "now playing as a couple" bit was a pain in the arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since its free on this site is easy to set up a single profile. ..
use that and keep old cpl profile if people would like to see our till you get varied that's what I did  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home.
i never know wether to take you serious or not...   "
I thought chicks wud dig that shit.but I forgot about the married 1s.now I dont kno wat to say..
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home.
i never know wether to take you serious or not...
I thought chicks wud dig that shit.but I forgot about the married 1s.now I dont kno wat to say..
..I love puppies "
World peace and all children to be happy is always a good one as well. The whole "puppies" thing could be misconstrued here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home."
I feel you pain pal but it wasn't my parents it was the ex wife doing all the affairs 
But that's life and I'm over it..
So here to new beginnings |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home.
I feel you pain pal but it wasn't my parents it was the ex wife doing all the affairs
But that's life and I'm over it..
So here to new beginnings "
Well ur in the rite place.good luck.
Altho im a cuckold at heart so my wife having affairs is wat I love.im sure dr.phil would say the 2 things are connected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home.
I feel you pain pal but it wasn't my parents it was the ex wife doing all the affairs
But that's life and I'm over it..
So here to new beginnings
Well ur in the rite place.good luck.
Altho im a cuckold at heart so my wife having affairs is wat I love.im sure dr.phil would say the 2 things are connected"
I hear ya Hal, I like to be cucked sometimes too hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There you go. The previous post explained exactly what they should do. It's nothing to do with their marital status, it's a misleading profile."
maybe they dont know the profile can be changed like tht!surely if its stated on the profile tht the other half of the cpl is no longer playing or they have split up they arent really misleading anyone are they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats cuckold???"
cuckold is when a cpl get another guy and kinda use him as a slave,the female has sex with the cuck guy and her partner has to watch and then clean up his mess lol ,i think thts it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not quite. The husband/partner is usually the sub. He is quite often required to clean up with his tongue when the bull has finished with his wife/partner. I have even heard of the male partner being required to get the bull hard & insert him into the lady. Needless to say, it's a bit of a mind-bender! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There you go. The previous post explained exactly what they should do. It's nothing to do with their marital status, it's a misleading profile.
maybe they dont know the profile can be changed like tht!surely if its stated on the profile tht the other half of the cpl is no longer playing or they have split up they arent really misleading anyone are they?"
Yes, I think they are. We may have blocked singles but under the guise as a couple they can contact us.
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer"
Well then it wasn't cuckold was it. That sounds like good sex. Cuckold means it has to fit within certain parameters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer
Well then it wasn't cuckold was it. That sounds like good sex. Cuckold means it has to fit within certain parameters."
I think he knows what he is and doesn't need to be told lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer"
It is different for everyone indeed, some people like to eat the cum and do clean up after, not really my thing at all. I like the mindfuck of it all, nothing hornier for me!   |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry"
Hal I don't think you need to justify what you call you own experiences, you were there and you know what happened! Sounds hot and if you enjoy it then who is anyone else to tell you what is and what isn't cuckold |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer
Well then it wasn't cuckold was it. That sounds like good sex. Cuckold means it has to fit within certain parameters.
I think he knows what he is and doesn't need to be told lol."
I don't believe I told anyone they were anything. If I say I have done bukkake but all I did was let a guy cum on my face then I haven't done bukkake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer
Well then it wasn't cuckold was it. That sounds like good sex. Cuckold means it has to fit within certain parameters.
I think he knows what he is and doesn't need to be told lol.
I don't believe I told anyone they were anything. If I say I have done bukkake but all I did was let a guy cum on my face then I haven't done bukkake. "
Theres a lot more to cuckold than what you have specified that is all I am saying. Bukkake is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry"
The name itself means it's got to be about the invited bull/s, the cuckold name is taken from the behaviour of the bird Cuckoo, who replaces the partners young with his own.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
This is a pet hate of mine (you know who you are!). Often they are single men, so when you have single men filtered out they can still message you... which is annoying.
God loves a trier of course..Just a few to many chancers for my liking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer
It is different for everyone indeed, some people like to eat the cum and do clean up after, not really my thing at all. I like the mindfuck of it all, nothing hornier for me! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry
The name itself means it's got to be about the invited bull/s, the cuckold name is taken from the behaviour of the bird Cuckoo, who replaces the partners young with his own. "
The definition of cuckold is simply a man whose wife commits adultery.
All the 'extras' like bi, humiliation, bdsm etc has been sorta tacked on by individuals but in terms of 'parameters' well there are lots more cuckolds on here than you'd think!
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry
The name itself means it's got to be about the invited bull/s, the cuckold name is taken from the behaviour of the bird Cuckoo, who replaces the partners young with his own.
The definition of cuckold is simply a man whose wife commits adultery.
All the 'extras' like bi, humiliation, bdsm etc has been sorta tacked on by individuals but in terms of 'parameters' well there are lots more cuckolds on here than you'd think!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont think there is set parameters.reason I called it cuckoldry was it was all about her.she spent weekends in our bed with hot 20 somethings and I woyld b bringin them food n drinks and jump in if called upon.I was 100 percent monogamous, wouldnt have looked at another woman.to me thats cuckoldry
The name itself means it's got to be about the invited bull/s, the cuckold name is taken from the behaviour of the bird Cuckoo, who replaces the partners young with his own.
The definition of cuckold is simply a man whose wife commits adultery.
All the 'extras' like bi, humiliation, bdsm etc has been sorta tacked on by individuals but in terms of 'parameters' well there are lots more cuckolds on here than you'd think!
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you always say it best bes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its different for every couple.the bi element doesnt have to b there.for me it was all about my partner havin sex with a very hot guy n lovin it.simple as that.and it wasnt just bein a voyuer.she was constantly textin guys n on fone to them and on here.it went way beyond bein a voyuer
It is different for everyone indeed, some people like to eat the cum and do clean up after, not really my thing at all. I like the mindfuck of it all, nothing hornier for me!
Hunmmm "
and ill add a hummina hummina to that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to there own but comin from a broken home where affairs was the norm I cudnt help but think of a persons family and life at home.
i never know wether to take you serious or not...
I thought chicks wud dig that shit.but I forgot about the married 1s.now I dont kno wat to say..
..I love puppies "
I like to help old ladies cross the road on my days off from charity! |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Do you not find the cuckolding humiliating or is that the point?"
Ye being cucked is humiliating.a guy comin nfuckin ur woman, hopefully fuckin her good, is humiliating.thats humiliating enough for me, others often go more into that side of things like forcin hubby to suck cock n clean up, but thats not for me really.altho a true cuck doesnt really say wats for him, he just aims to please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?"
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?"
Ur thread wasnt really hijacked if thats wat ur getting at by repostin and repostin ur original post.its just the way the conversation went.theres a difference. |
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?
Ur thread wasnt really hijacked if thats wat ur getting at by repostin and repostin ur original post.its just the way the conversation went.theres a difference.
No. There's not.
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?
Ur thread wasnt really hijacked if thats wat ur getting at by repostin and repostin ur original post.its just the way the conversation went.theres a difference.
No. There's not.
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Its called a conversation.is that wat ud do if u were out chatting to ppl.when the convo flows a bit in a different direction u just insist it stays on topic? Strange.hijacking is when people deliberately go in tangents n rip the piss |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"And that happens on most threads on here but a few that seem to do it all the time "
Im guilty of that myself.alot.but some threads are made to b hijacked.and sometimes it gets out of hand.but this was just a conversation that flowed in a certain way.thats all.no piss takin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
It's their own business whether they do it or not.
Just like it is your business whether you meet them or not. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?
It's their own business whether they do it or not.
Just like it is your business whether you meet them or not."
Its there own business if they meet as a couple or not but if u advertise urself as a cpl u should b a couple.not a single guy.or a guy who used to b in a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this?
It's their own business whether they do it or not.
Just like it is your business whether you meet them or not.
Its there own business if they meet as a couple or not but if u advertise urself as a cpl u should b a couple.not a single guy.or a guy who used to b in a couple."
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Some one send curvey a n idiots guide to swinging terms. The site actualky has an index to different terms lol"
Sure thats wat friends are for.altho id love to take curvy by the hand and show her the world of swinging personally |
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"Some one send curvey a n idiots guide to swinging terms. The site actualky has an index to different terms lol
Sure thats wat friends are for.altho id love to take curvy by the hand and show her the world of swinging personally "
but hal an idiots guide?? that makes me sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I came across a single female profile yesterday. On reading it (yes I actually read them!). I discover that the lady is now only meeting as a couple. There were no details of who the male was and I mean none at all. No height, straight/bi/curious, smoker?, age....nothing. I thought of this thread. Is it cheating? After pondering it. I realised, we all have the choice. To jog on to the next fab experience or go with it and maybe contact the user. I personally jogged on. I suppose what I'm saying is; we all have a choice. It's up to us what path to persue or not. So don't waste anymore of your own time thinking about it or worrying. Just keep fabbing |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Some one send curvey a n idiots guide to swinging terms. The site actualky has an index to different terms lol
Sure thats wat friends are for.altho id love to take curvy by the hand and show her the world of swinging personally
but hal an idiots guide?? that makes me sad "
I didnt say an idiots guide hun.I was quoting an earlier post.an idiots guide is just an expression after the series of books by same title hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was rereing to the series of books. Not you curvey. Sorry if misunderstood
im very sensitive today.
Mmmmm would you like a nice soothing massage? "
yes i would please |
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"It was rereing to the series of books. Not you curvey. Sorry if misunderstood
im very sensitive today.
Mmmmm would you like a nice soothing massage?
yes i would please"
That's something we'll need to arrange me thinks I feel a road trip coming up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No its not. There is also the control aspect over your wife whereby you may have arranged the guy and told him what to do with her.. its different to each person. |
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"It was rereing to the series of books. Not you curvey. Sorry if misunderstood
im very sensitive today.
Mmmmm would you like a nice soothing massage?
yes i would please
That's something we'll need to arrange me thinks I feel a road trip coming up!"
oh i likey likey |
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"It was rereing to the series of books. Not you curvey. Sorry if misunderstood
im very sensitive today.
Mmmmm would you like a nice soothing massage?
yes i would please
That's something we'll need to arrange me thinks I feel a road trip coming up!oh i likey likey "
Mmmmm daytime in cavan yum yum xx |
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"I'm noticing more & more 'couple' profiles who are now saying they are no longer with their advertised partner but they're still looking for meets with the couple profile. Does anyone else think they shouldn't be doing this? "
y if your a couple then split would people not just delete the couple acc and make a new singles acc dont make much scence if ur meeting as a couple and wat do u say he or she aint there at a meet some freeks about like wtf aint really safe #freeks
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"No its not. There is also the control aspect over your wife whereby you may have arranged the guy and told him what to do with her.. its different to each person."
U didnt quote wat u were refering to rose but if its cuckoldry id hav to disagree. In my case and in most true cuckoldry cases the hotwife is in control and she would call all the shots.maybe her and the bull would have control but the cuck definitely wudnt |
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