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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're a novice couple who live apart,and we're still deciding if the lifestyle is for us.
Because of the distance between us we have decided that we set up one night a week to discuss all things fan - who messaged/winked/fabbed us and who to reply to. Separately we use the site as much as we like (she uses the chatroom more than me, I use the forums more than her) bit together we only discuss it once a week. The reason we do this is because the lifestyle Can get overwhelming (I'm guilty of being very enthusiastic about it) and if you talk about it everyday you can lose focus In the relationship.
Its also why we may not reply or wink back straight away.
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) im in Cork and he is in Laois and we spend every weekend together and a nite during the week but that will change soon , we both use fab on mobile every day and we both could answer a mgs or wink etc .
As a site supporter we can view the conversation in mail that has taken place if the other wasnt online at the time mails were sent , we would also let the other know if people sent us pics so we could view them and take it from there if we liked them or not for us ,but we both know what we are looking for here and have a good sense of what is real or fake . So we find it good for us even thou we are apart som of the time , it works for us. 
