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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wouldnt understand why people would say their something their not....waste of time and energy tbh"
If it gets them a shag, many would claim anything they think might help.
To OP -The reality is you can never be 100% but go with your instincts. There are plenty of genuine single guys out there alongside the attached ones. This guy is just acting up as you turned him down. He doesn't know if the people you've met are attached or not any more than you do.
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You are defineatly not naive, dont be put off by pushy people who pretend to be single and are cheating, it is a pain when people cant be who they say that they are, not everybody is like that either though. |
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol"
I dont think your a fool, I think he was an arsehole for abusing you tho' lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ask to meet them somewhere very public, that usually puts the attached guys off
Yep. That's one of the things I usually do. And I usually only meet guys that can accommodate. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is probably a fair amount of married men playin away from home on here and ladies too. If you want some NSA fun then these sites are probably the place to be. However I have the opposite issue. I am recently out of a 15 year relationship yet I still feel like I am doing something wrong been on this site.Ironically I kinda have the guilty conscience but not the wife whereas with the cheaters they have the wife but none conscience. Think I just confused the hell outa myself. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol
I dont think your a fool, I think he was an arsehole for abusing you tho' lol" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol"
well im single so nope lol |
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol"
Ah your not a fool hun, There's lots of us genuinely single guys on here,
I couldn't cheat even if i had an other half i feel guilty even meeting attached women so mostly stick to couples ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"If they have can't accom on profile and a bit suspect about giving mobile number out chances are married u can normally spot em a mile off"
..especially if they have "married" on their profile. That's a dead giveaway! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they have can't accom on profile and a bit suspect about giving mobile number out chances are married u can normally spot em a mile off
..especially if they have "married" on their profile. That's a dead giveaway! "
Lol morning Michael how's your weekend been |
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"If they have can't accom on profile and a bit suspect about giving mobile number out chances are married u can normally spot em a mile off
..especially if they have "married" on their profile. That's a dead giveaway!
Lol morning Michael how's your weekend been "
Morning squire! My weekend was peaceful and quiet, and more is the pity! ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There r some genuine single guys out there but u can usually spot the married or attached ones after a while!
On the other hand there is NO excuse for abuse in any shape or form here! We all here for some NSA fun... Not hassle & abuse. ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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Believe it or not, some of us are actually single, for various reasons and twists in life.. The problem with being honest, in my case, as regards my age is that I am barred from contacting couples and ladies (including lady who initiated this post)due to age filter. Have been advised over and over to change my age, but refuse to do so, as it would mean I would be starting off dishonestly.
Guess you could say I am fooling myself, but it does seem that genuine guys in mid fifties are seen as "over the hill"! |
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"Believe it or not, some of us are actually single, for various reasons and twists in life.. The problem with being honest, in my case, as regards my age is that I am barred from contacting couples and ladies (including lady who initiated this post)due to age filter. Have been advised over and over to change my age, but refuse to do so, as it would mean I would be starting off dishonestly.
Guess you could say I am fooling myself, but it does seem that genuine guys in mid fifties are seen as "over the hill"!"
Why would you want to meet people who don't want to meet people of your age? |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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"Believe it or not, some of us are actually single, for various reasons and twists in life.. The problem with being honest, in my case, as regards my age is that I am barred from contacting couples and ladies (including lady who initiated this post)due to age filter. Have been advised over and over to change my age, but refuse to do so, as it would mean I would be starting off dishonestly.
Guess you could say I am fooling myself, but it does seem that genuine guys in mid fifties are seen as "over the hill"!
Why would you want to meet people who don't want to meet people of your age? "
Ah Michael.. You are wise on here, thought you would know!.. To discuss current affairs, global warming, the Budget, and Kerry Football of course! Lol!
Anyway, take no notice of me...monday morning blues!!!! |
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Why would you want to meet people who don't want to meet people of your age?
Ah Michael.. You are wise on here, thought you would know!.. To discuss current affairs, global warming, the Budget, and Kerry Football of course! Lol!
Anyway, take no notice of me...monday morning blues!!!!"
Yeah, but they have their filters set up for a reason, presumably? It disappoints me sometimes as well, but we all have our preferences, and that's the way the world turns, I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol"
there is sum single guys on here but most of them are in realionships but say their single |
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"To think that there are single men here? A married guy recently abused me when I said that I don't meet attached people. He said I was a fool to think that any of the guys I've met are single. Just wondering if I am as big a fool as he says. Lol
there is sum single guys on here but most of them are in realionships but say their single"
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