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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh the Moral High Grounders are going to stand on each others shoulders on this topic to climb to the tippy top of the Hill.
How about this piece of Advice
"Don't judge me cos my sins are different to your sins"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh the Moral High Grounders are going to stand on each others shoulders on this topic to climb to the tippy top of the Hill.
How about this piece of Advice
"Don't judge me cos my sins are different to your sins"
Thought for today "
ahh another married guy
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Im not married; but I don't judge if people are
Can I ask a question and please don't jumo down my kneck.
If its cheating you go on about. .
If you partner knows you swing or have a couple profile. .
What is that then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not married; but I don't judge if people are
Can I ask a question and please don't jumo down my kneck.
If its cheating you go on about. .
If you partner knows you swing or have a couple profile. .
What is that then. "
That's sharing a fun hobby! 
This is not me being judgemental at all - whatever tickles your pickle, it makes no difference to me/us. but your question seems pretty obvious.. there are clear differences. the term cheating implies lying/hiding the truth and the partner being hurt if they found out. |
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"Im not married; but I don't judge if people are
Can I ask a question and please don't jumo down my kneck.
If its cheating you go on about. .
If you partner knows you swing or have a couple profile. .
What is that then.
That's sharing a fun hobby!
This is not me being judgemental at all - whatever tickles your pickle, it makes no difference to me/us. but your question seems pretty obvious.. there are clear differences. the term cheating implies lying/hiding the truth and the partner being hurt if they found out. "
I just wondered a lot of couples say it's wrong to met married men.
I don't care personally I just wanted to know
If your partner knows is that not lying cheating. Well not lying cause they know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the OP If that happens tell the caller no you haven't and now will not.
For all the high horse people
GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE
If you don't want to meet married people then don't but meet them
Just give morals a rest on the site and don't try and force your morals on anyone else. If someone cheats on their spouse/partner that is their problem and their relationship they are risking not yours
OP a separate phone for swinging will help with this problem too Then if the GF/BF keeps calling you just change your swing number and your family and friends would be none the wiser
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we are married and don't count it as cheating as we both agree with the lifestyle and don't want a monogamous relationship but this is our view and don't have to be yours |
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I get what your coming from.
Im saying I don't think im explaining myself well the people that are throwing the old its wrong card that our couples
Its s little hypocritical.
If I had s partner I would find ita turn on too.i do get the life style of swinging .
Just think some people don't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy  
call me sick and twiisted too!  "
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!"
now you're talking! we should set up a website too - where other sick and twisted people can check eachother out and perve on pics and organise meets... Oh and there should be some kind of forum where we can all go and debate the most commonly accepted number of cock pics that should be on a profile! ......... oh no, wait. think it's been done already? 
In terms of the married debate - It's a personal choice and it's been said before... if you don't like it, don't meet them. simples 
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"Ten cock pics, I think it was? 
One of them has to be cupping the penis over the toilet bowl, oh how I love those ones  "
ohhh yuck I had a picture sent I actually think they had gone to toilet before took picture..not a pleasant sight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
now you're talking! we should set up a website too - where other sick and twisted people can check eachother out and perve on pics and organise meets... Oh and there should be some kind of forum where we can all go and debate the most commonly accepted number of cock pics that should be on a profile! ......... oh no, wait. think it's been done already?
In terms of the married debate - It's a personal choice and it's been said before... if you don't like it, don't meet them. simples
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Hehe, ya know I think it has been done once or twice!
Yep totally agree there, I'm not about to go telling someone what a disgusting human they are for something that is none of my business , it's not like any of us are so holy we can preach to anyone! |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"For the OP If that happens tell the caller no you haven't and now will not.
For all the high horse people
GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE
If you don't want to meet married people then don't but meet them
Just give morals a rest on the site and don't try and force your morals on anyone else. If someone cheats on their spouse/partner that is their problem and their relationship they are risking not yours
OP a separate phone for swinging will help with this problem too Then if the GF/BF keeps calling you just change your swing number and your family and friends would be none the wiser
PS
we are married and don't count it as cheating as we both agree with the lifestyle and don't want a monogamous relationship but this is our view and don't have to be yours"
couldent agree more we haven't had a monogamous relationship for years we are only concerned with our relationship no one eles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had the pleasure of receiving texts from an angry soon to be ex girlfriend of a "single" guy I had be chatting to. Not a nice experience at all!"
We've had this too, the gf of a guy on here phoning in the early his hiving off about her bf sending text messages. Safe to say he was quickly told never to contact us again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ten cock pics, I think it was?
One of them has to be cupping the penis over the toilet bowl, oh how I love those ones ohhh yuck I had a picture sent I actually think they had gone to toilet before took picture..not a pleasant sight "
don't say the toilet hadn't been flushed.gross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ten cock pics, I think it was?
Do Ten pics of a 5" cock = Five pics of a 10" cock?? "
you need the full 10 woodster (pics that is - not inches ) if you're gonna catch it from every conceivable angle and also you need a few with household objects to give an idea of scale. sky remote and/or coors bottles are ideal - or so I'm lead to believe
you don't need to worry tho - anyone who hasnt actually seen urs in the flesh will at least know someone who has!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ten cock pics, I think it was?
Do Ten pics of a 5" cock = Five pics of a 10" cock??
you need the full 10 woodster (pics that is - not inches ) if you're gonna catch it from every conceivable angle and also you need a few with household objects to give an idea of scale. sky remote and/or coors bottles are ideal - or so I'm lead to believe
you don't need to worry tho - anyone who hasnt actually seen urs in the flesh will at least know someone who has! "
Hmmmmmmm you know I recommended Kick Ass? Change that to Kick YOUR Ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!"
I totally agreed with you and I am going to say something that I have never seen on the forums before....it is as bad for a married woman to be on here without her hubby knowing as it is a married man without his wife knowing. Opps did I really say that? lol
I am married and if someone doesn't want to meet me because of that....that's fine I wont loose sleep over it tbh.
Just remember.....everyone has their own reasons for being on Fab...judge not and you shall not be judged!!! lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't put this on for people to judge. I received a phone call on Monday night from some bloke asking if I met there gf. I put this up as a reminder that some don't like receiving a phone call. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't put this on for people to judge. I received a phone call on Monday night from some bloke asking if I met there gf. I put this up as a reminder that some don't like receiving a phone call. "
Most posts seem to turn into a judging session at some stage. But I agree with you about phone calls, I never give my number out at all now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!"
can I join the dirty club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
can I join the dirty club "
You're on the board of directors miss Lisa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
can I join the dirty club
You're on the board of directors miss Lisa "
Women directors!! They'll be giving women the vote next at this rate
Tie them all to the bed, I say and give them a good seeing to........the dishes can wait til the morning lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
can I join the dirty club "
this club is shaping up nicely!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
I totally agreed with you and I am going to say something that I have never seen on the forums before....it is as bad for a married woman to be on here without her hubby knowing as it is a married man without his wife knowing. Opps did I really say that? lol
I am married and if someone doesn't want to meet me because of that....that's fine I wont loose sleep over it tbh.
Just remember.....everyone has their own reasons for being on Fab...judge not and you shall not be judged!!! lmao "
Indeed Ali, I think people are far too quick to jump down other peoples throats on fab, thinking they are in some way better than others. Sure whatever keeps them going eh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it count if I like Jay to meet alone? lol, call me sick and twisted but it does make me rather randy
call me sick and twiisted too!
woo lets start a club!
On a more serious note though, what gets my goat about this whole subject is that married men always slated but married women doing the same thing get no grief at all. I see it in the chatroom all the time and it stinks to high heaven of hypocrisy!
I totally agreed with you and I am going to say something that I have never seen on the forums before....it is as bad for a married woman to be on here without her hubby knowing as it is a married man without his wife knowing. Opps did I really say that? lol
I am married and if someone doesn't want to meet me because of that....that's fine I wont loose sleep over it tbh.
Just remember.....everyone has their own reasons for being on Fab...judge not and you shall not be judged!!! lmao
Indeed Ali, I think people are far too quick to jump down other peoples throats on fab, thinking they are in some way better than others. Sure whatever keeps them going eh!"
If you like... Message... If you don't then let them do as they please it's not your lookout. Makes sense to me... Maybe I'm wrong |
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I agree with the last couple of posts, but you could say that as a married man, well I would say that, wouldn't I? Whatever floats your boat, I guess. I think a bigger issue is people saying that they're one thing or other when they're not, and that can relate to the marriage issue or not. I'm married, but I understand perfectly why some people wouldn't want to meet me, and I respect their position on that. Others might be ok with that aspect but not want to meet because of my political views, and that's perfectly understandable as well, and I can respect that, as long as people are honest about these things. I don't see the need to fall out with people over such things. Live and let live.
Damn, I got a bit carried away there  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I agree with the last couple of posts, but you could say that as a married man, well I would say that, wouldn't I? Whatever floats your boat, I guess. I think a bigger issue is people saying that they're one thing or other when they're not, and that can relate to the marriage issue or not. I'm married, but I understand perfectly why some people wouldn't want to meet me, and I respect their position on that. Others might be ok with that aspect but not want to meet because of my political views, and that's perfectly understandable as well, and I can respect that, as long as people are honest about these things. I don't see the need to fall out with people over such things. Live and let live.
Damn, I got a bit carried away there "
Hey who are U what have U done with micheal |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Did I overdo it? "
Haha no Micheal
But as U say each to their own we can have opinions on every thing but some times its best keep then to ourselfs and that's what I am doing on this one cause U never know where ull find ur self tomorrow next week or ten years time we all have our reasons for doing the things we do
Oh yes I am married check my profile there's reference to that fact there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with the last couple of posts, but you could say that as a married man, well I would say that, wouldn't I? Whatever floats your boat, I guess. I think a bigger issue is people saying that they're one thing or other when they're not, and that can relate to the marriage issue or not. I'm married, but I understand perfectly why some people wouldn't want to meet me, and I respect their position on that. Others might be ok with that aspect but not want to meet because of my political views, and that's perfectly understandable as well, and I can respect that, as long as people are honest about these things. I don't see the need to fall out with people over such things. Live and let live.
Damn, I got a bit carried away there "
Michael....I get carried away lots of times and its soo much fun. Sure lets get carried away together |
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