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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over....   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One lad mails me everyday same thing I have told him thanks but no thanks
I get have u changed mind yet.
Noooooo I ain't soooo stop. "
Make that 116 mails and they wonder why they get blocked then!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really dont think so when i get messages tellin me how gorgeous i am when i dont even have a pic on display and have never sent them a pic... obviously they havnt even looked at my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over.... "
Block, block, block and move on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a block button use it.. sorry two mails is my limit and if the first is a caveman attitude there is no twice..block block and block.. easy as...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its copy and paste and they don't even bother to adjust for no pic displayed etc. I occasionally send a follow up mail but normally leave it a fortnight or more. All this spam mail makes it harder for the genuine guys and girls to chat with each other and reduces time wasted deleting pointless messages |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over....
Block, block, block and move on!"
You can also ask for a specific subject title to be used at the bottom of your profile. if they dont use it delete.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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With so many mails there now i just want to delete the whole lot of them and not read any. Thats where the genuine guys get lost when that happens. So should i just block anyone that keeps mailing who i dont want to meet? I think im too soft to do that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With so many mails there now i just want to delete the whole lot of them and not read any. Thats where the genuine guys get lost when that happens. So should i just block anyone that keeps mailing who i dont want to meet? I think im too soft to do that.."
think the block button or adjust your mail settings to change ages sex etc |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Hot holly was a nice name but as suggested some thing int he title line will at least let U know they have read ur profile but may I suggest U put it in the text rather than the end its to easy skip to the bottom to see if U have asked for this to be done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its copy and paste and they don't even bother to adjust for no pic displayed etc. I occasionally send a follow up mail but normally leave it a fortnight or more. All this spam mail makes it harder for the genuine guys and girls to chat with each other and reduces time wasted deleting pointless messages"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hot holly was a nice name but as suggested some thing int he title line will at least let U know they have read ur profile but may I suggest U put it in the text rather than the end its to easy skip to the bottom to see if U have asked for this to be done "
Aww cj you read my profile!!! Yeah but its still easy for guys to keep putting that in the title line. Oh i dunno!!! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Hot holly was a nice name but as suggested some thing int he title line will at least let U know they have read ur profile but may I suggest U put it in the text rather than the end its to easy skip to the bottom to see if U have asked for this to be done
Aww cj you read my profile!!! Yeah but its still easy for guys to keep putting that in the title line. Oh i dunno!!!"
Mmm holly lots of times check ur who's looked at me
Le sigh I am to old  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not a site supporter cant see who has looked at me. Hot holly is still there i just cant log into it. And age preferences never stop the majority of people messaging me. But i must thank you for respecting my preferences. Not many like u cj. |
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"Im not a site supporter cant see who has looked at me. Hot holly is still there i just cant log into it. And age preferences never stop the majority of people messaging me. But i must thank you for respecting my preferences. Not many like u cj."
Ah no, we all like cj!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Im not a site supporter cant see who has looked at me. Hot holly is still there i just cant log into it. And age preferences never stop the majority of people messaging me. But i must thank you for respecting my preferences. Not many like u cj."
Aww but we are here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not a site supporter cant see who has looked at me. Hot holly is still there i just cant log into it. And age preferences never stop the majority of people messaging me. But i must thank you for respecting my preferences. Not many like u cj.
Ah no, we all like cj! "
hot holly meets posion ivy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not a site supporter cant see who has looked at me. Hot holly is still there i just cant log into it. And age preferences never stop the majority of people messaging me. But i must thank you for respecting my preferences. Not many like u cj.
Ah no, we all like cj! "
i don't know him too well but he does seem a nice guy. Bit harsh there Roxie lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"its a bummer when you cant see the who looked I gave in and had to get it!!"
Its great but what's shocking is the amount of men view my profile if I was bi id have a ball or two but all jokes aside can make it easier to pick those U wish to mail especially if U see they have vied more than once over a period of time |
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Most these guys that mail like that are fake .... What about unverified guys only being allowed a certain amount of mails per day ... Still gives new genuine guys a chance ... But also makes the .hi do u want to fuck guys think about who they mail and may make more of an effort ... Just a thought ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a bummer when you cant see the who looked I gave in and had to get it!!
Its great but what's shocking is the amount of men view my profile if I was bi id have a ball or two but all jokes aside can make it easier to pick those U wish to mail especially if U see they have vied more than once over a period of time "
And that's not even counting the ones that have perved your profile in stealth mode |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"its a bummer when you cant see the who looked I gave in and had to get it!!
Its great but what's shocking is the amount of men view my profile if I was bi id have a ball or two but all jokes aside can make it easier to pick those U wish to mail especially if U see they have vied more than once over a period of time
And that's not even counting the ones that have perved your profile in stealth mode"
Won't even bear to think of that but for a guy it best to let them see ur looking might spark a wink and its amazing what a wink can do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"its a bummer when you cant see the who looked I gave in and had to get it!!
Its great but what's shocking is the amount of men view my profile if I was bi id have a ball or two but all jokes aside can make it easier to pick those U wish to mail especially if U see they have vied more than once over a period of time
And that's not even counting the ones that have perved your profile in stealth mode
Won't even bear to think of that but for a guy it best to let them see ur looking might spark a wink and its amazing what a wink can do "
ah yes no telling where a wink will lead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list "
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic "
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With so many mails there now i just want to delete the whole lot of them and not read any. Thats where the genuine guys get lost when that happens. So should i just block anyone that keeps mailing who i dont want to meet? I think im too soft to do that.."
I had to filter out all single men because of the persistence of some of them (and manky messages..) so annoying. I hated having to do it though because plenty of lovely genuine ones around too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol "
I think we probably all have!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With so many mails there now i just want to delete the whole lot of them and not read any. Thats where the genuine guys get lost when that happens. So should i just block anyone that keeps mailing who i dont want to meet? I think im too soft to do that.."
YES!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being a site supporter so when u have somebody looking at your profile a lot you can mail them.mmmm your watching me if they unaware that you can see they looked it freaks them out "
i do enjoy that weekly message from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being a site supporter so when u have somebody looking at your profile a lot you can mail them.mmmm your watching me if they unaware that you can see they looked it freaks them out "
i do enjoy that weekly message from you |
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
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"Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over.... "
You're only looking for people in a narrow age range but anyone can mail you. Suggest set some filters here:
http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
You can block anyone outside age range, non-verifieds, newbies etc.
Admin x |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I like being a site supporter so when u have somebody looking at your profile a lot you can mail them.mmmm your watching me if they unaware that you can see they looked it freaks them out
i do enjoy that weekly message from you "
Sure id be perving sexy daily |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks admin will do.. and to everyone else i shall begin to block block block!!! I only have 2 on my blocked list!! Lol lets get blocking!!! And you dont have to be a site supporter to hide while creepin other profiles!! Some like it to be known tho!!! |
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"I like being a site supporter so when u have somebody looking at your profile a lot you can mail them.mmmm your watching me if they unaware that you can see they looked it freaks them out
i do enjoy that weekly message from you
Sure id be perving sexy daily "
cj I can see u looking at me.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I like being a site supporter so when u have somebody looking at your profile a lot you can mail them.mmmm your watching me if they unaware that you can see they looked it freaks them out
i do enjoy that weekly message from you
Sure id be perving sexy daily cj I can see u looking at me. "
Me no never just reading profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over....
You're only looking for people in a narrow age range but anyone can mail you. Suggest set some filters here:
http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters
You can block anyone outside age range, non-verifieds, newbies etc.
Admin x"
Ah here - give the newbies a chance ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it ever just sometimes get to people on here? At the moment i have 114 mails unread. Just simply cause i didnt have time or have told them no before. I do check mails from guys i chat to regularly. I have at least 8 mails waiting from the same guy. Does he not get the hint. Another let down yesterday with a bullshit excuse... why????? Sorry rant over.... "
i usually just luk at the profiles first,if i dont like the luk of them i dont bother reading the message,i dont even bother deleting them anymore either lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i usually just luk at the profiles first,if i dont like the luk of them i dont bother reading the message,i dont even bother deleting them anymore either lol"
on a completely separate issue, hey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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filters are great....they have vastly reduced my mail. I just delete any cut and paste messages. If they can't be bothered reading my profile, I cant be bothered reading their messages more than once. Am I harsh? Nooooo way. My motto in life is.........build a bridge and get over it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"filters are great....they have vastly reduced my mail. I just delete any cut and paste messages. If they can't be bothered reading my profile, I cant be bothered reading their messages more than once. Am I harsh? Nooooo way. My motto in life is.........build a bridge and get over it! "
I may take on your ideas also ali... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jayus going to have get night classes going on how to use the site
Sofia how do U look in a school teachers atire "
It's been over ten years since I've been in school teachers attire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol "
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol
Yep "
I hate not knowing ive been perved on sometimes I feel so lonely like my profile smells or something  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Jayus going to have get night classes going on how to use the site
Sofia how do U look in a school teachers atire
It's been over ten years since I've been in school teachers attire "
Mmm bet U can still pull it off though
The sexy school teacher look I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol
Yep
I hate not knowing ive been perved on sometimes I feel so lonely like my profile smells or something "
Awh poor pat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"stealth mode???? must be green behind the ears how does this happen??
As a site supporter U can opt not to show on peeps who looked list
Unless you do something silly like fab a pic
ah so I have been perved on unknown to myself lol
Yep
I hate not knowing ive been perved on sometimes I feel so lonely like my profile smells or something
Awh poor pat "
sob sob sob lol I could always turn to Canada I always found them very horny ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a gr8 meet |
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a gr8 meet"
Feck that! She might miss your one, but she'll also miss my 47 messages. That's not right at al. #gutted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a gr8 meet
Feck that! She might miss your one, but she'll also miss my 47 messages. That's not right at al. #gutted "
You cutting back Michael? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a gr8 meet
Feck that! She might miss your one, but she'll also miss my 47 messages. That's not right at al. #gutted
You cutting back Michael? "
he just uses 2 or 3 different accounts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a
gr8 meet"
I did point out somewhere along the thread about missing out on the good guys cause of all the other silly messages.. and mr mc carthy im waiting!!!! |
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a
gr8 meet
I did point out somewhere along the thread about missing out on the good guys cause of all the other silly messages.. and mr mc carthy im waiting!!!!"
note to self copy and paste 30 emails to foxie in the hope 1 will be read |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a
gr8 meet
I did point out somewhere along the thread about missing out on the good guys cause of all the other silly messages.. and mr mc carthy im waiting!!!!"
Dam mc carthy and his donkey is in again |
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"I think sometimes women overlook some guys (me) on here that dont give a chance to cuz of age or some other reason tho i can understand why yas dont like some guys sending loads of messages. I send one or two if no reply i move on. But cuz you got 114 messages u prob wont read them all and i could be the one message u miss out on and could be a
gr8 meet
I did point out somewhere along the thread about missing out on the good guys cause of all the other silly messages.. and mr mc carthy im waiting!!!!
Dam mc carthy and his donkey is in again "
You are just going to have to be quicker next time cj |
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I did point out somewhere along the thread about missing out on the good guys cause of all the other silly messages.. and mr mc carthy im waiting!!!!"
Well the least I could do at this stage is say hello! This is the first one. 46 more to go. It's a bit like a Séamus Heaney poem.. 47 messages, a message for every year! Next you're going to tell me you've never seen the poem in question? Oh dear! |
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though this was a typo first.. 