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toughest question ever
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think all are important - there has to be a physical attraction but mental stimulation is an extreme turn on and trust in this situation is paramount... no real answer there, sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"think all are important - there has to be a physical attraction but mental stimulation is an extreme turn on and trust in this situation is paramount... no real answer there, sorry "
Sums it up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the ladies are chasing that ever evasive mr perfect..... hes a myth
no such thing as perfect thinks its more we know wat we want..."
My mother says I'm perfect lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence"
Simple for me --- personality and discretion! Only fuck the ugly feckers on here haha
So take it as a compliment of your good looks, guys, when no chemistry is found
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision.  "
It would have to be personality and discretion....I'm usually blindfolded you know.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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must admit we r shallow looking for a hot guy for our fantasies but we are not after long term friendships just meet play and go not into a social scene with anyone (ie nights out drinks etc)but others are so everyones different |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Surely attitude to sex comes in to it too i.e. a good healthy sexual appetite and openness. No point in being hot if you just aren't sexually appealing? "
thought that was a given |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Which is most important looks of a meet or personality and discretion. I want choice and rationale behind your decision. "
just not possible to make that choice for us its deff both |
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Personally, I don't believe that attraction can be defined that easily. If it could, we'd have no need for phrases like "je ne sais quoi". That may be putting myself on the fence, but such is life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The chat and flirting start the ball rolling so to speak. Personality is very important and a sense of humour is vital. tbh looks do matter as well to a degree because if I don't be physically attracted to a guy I cudnt fek him. I always meet for a coffee first and no matter how well the chats etc went, if there is no attraction, it will go no further.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The chat and flirting start the ball rolling so to speak. Personality is very important and a sense of humour is vital. tbh looks do matter as well to a degree because if I don't be physically attracted to a guy I cudnt fek him. I always meet for a coffee first and no matter how well the chats etc went, if there is no attraction, it will go no further. "
Ah balls!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The chat and flirting start the ball rolling so to speak. Personality is very important and a sense of humour is vital. tbh looks do matter as well to a degree because if I don't be physically attracted to a guy I cudnt fek him. I always meet for a coffee first and no matter how well the chats etc went, if there is no attraction, it will go no further. "
right there with you on that one and also not into pretty boys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence"
And where do you get that fence from. We look upon anyone we meet as a package, looks and personality all come into that. If that's a fence, howdy partner ! ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own ..... |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Which is more important looks or personality and discretion a mixture isnt an answer its sitting on the fence
And where do you get that fence from. We look upon anyone we meet as a package, looks and personality all come into that. If that's a fence, howdy partner ! !"
agree 100% might meet ye on that fence someday lol |
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"What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own ....."
so what your saying is your preference is to fuck anyone looks personality dont matter.
I have to be sexually attracted to them I don't want to date them or blooming Marry them I am well aware this is a swinging site dont mean I have to screw anything that breaths with a personality of a wet fish |
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"What i was planning to achieve by posting this thread is that its just sex. Yes looks may help but personality does also.unfortunately ladies tom cruise brad pitt or whoever floats your boat dont have profiles on here.its just sex not coffee lunch dinner night out dating or marriage.i have met girls who im not attracted too but its just sex i basically just wanna fuck your brains out and leave it at that. Where there is attraction their comes emotion. Obviously we need some sort of emotion to fuck but it shouldnt always be based on looks but each person their own ..... so what your saying is your preference is to fuck anyone looks personality dont matter.
I have to be sexually attracted to them I don't want to date them or blooming Marry them I am well aware this is a swinging site dont mean I have to screw anything that breaths with a personality of a wet fish "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why should you have to choose one or the other? I've got a cracking little hottie with a great personality and descretion. He's the business!"
explains your name  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why should you have to choose one or the other? I've got a cracking little hottie with a great personality and descretion. He's the business!
explains your name "
lol fantastic |
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"Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all"
I think it's equal fur me That my opinion.. So if after chatting in here and u met someone and the personality is not what u imagined and was not attracted what would you do than ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Be honest tell them your attracted to them but you dont get their personality instead of basing it on how they look without giving personality a try. Its like judging a book by its cover......like susan boyle in x factor.... awful i know |
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"Be honest tell them your attracted to them but you dont get their personality instead of basing it on how they look without giving personality a try. Its like judging a book by its cover......like susan boyle in x factor.... awful i know"
if I like the cover if the book I want to read the first chapter before I go any further
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Discretion is paramount given the nature of the site.
Attraction if all you want is a meet/sexual contact and leave.
Personality if you want to engage with the other person(s)
In that order.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if I was after a relationship personality is more important than looks but for swinging not very as its hi how are u get that cock out shag then thanks bye! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are people on here members for ages no meets they are either waiting for the ever evasive mr right or just think they wanna swing but will never go through with it aka timewasters or deluded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all"
but u said u just wanna fuck them and thts it so why care about their personality then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not saying id fuck a barbers floor or someone with the personality of a dead seagull. What im saying is people are quick to ask for face pics which i have no prob in sending for the record.but i think that personality and trust are more important than looks.i could be shit hot but have no personality and vice versa.i just think that personality is important that is all"
u just said u think personality is important didnt u |
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I'm a greedy bitch, I want it all and our most recent meets have been "sexy", "up for" a good laugh and definitely our cup of "T". Anyone that knows me (Mrs S) knows that I enjoy a bit of banter and so does Mr when we meet. We also need to be attracted to those we play with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are people on here members for ages no meets they are either waiting for the ever evasive mr right or just think they wanna swing but will never go through with it aka timewasters or deluded"
Some people just use the site for chats and forum....nothing wrong with that |
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