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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity " very good!   | |||
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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. 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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. 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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity " Sorry, could you repeat that!??  | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity " come see my CHUFF !! lol | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity " Ok U can't beat em join em some ring Guinness book of records i think this is going go be big | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity come see my CHUFF !! lol " is it in your aviary ty x | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity come see my CHUFF !! lol " Woohooo!!..... CHUFF time!! | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity " I think that just about covers everything | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything "Yep, it certainly does!!..... What ya think CJ?? | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything
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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything
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"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything
Yep, it certainly does!!.....
What ya think CJ??
Duno think he forgot superhero
Nice day today though, isn't it? "Yep, not to bad here in the midlands! Might even get out in the garden today for a little 'garden maintenance' | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything
Yep, it certainly does!!.....
What ya think CJ??
Duno think he forgot superhero
Nice day today though, isn't it?
Yep, not to bad here in the midlands!
Might even get out in the garden today for a little 'garden maintenance'
"I need my grass cutting the thoughts of it. . | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity I think that just about covers everything
Yep, it certainly does!!.....
What ya think CJ??
Duno think he forgot superhero
Nice day today though, isn't it?
Yep, not to bad here in the midlands!
Might even get out in the garden today for a little 'garden maintenance'
I need my grass cutting the thoughts of it. . "Mmm lady garden going wild | |||
"SWINGING TERM Definition AC/DC See bi-sexual. ACCOMMODATE (can) Swingers willing to invite others to their home for sexual activities. ADULT Euphemism for pornographic. ANAL Sexual activity involving the rectum. ANALINGUS See RIMMING. BACK-DOOR This is a slang commonly used by swingers for anal sex. BAREBACK Intercourse without a condom. BBC Big Black Cock. Or Big Bouncy Couple or Big Beautiful Couple. BBW Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM Bondage, discipline/domination, sadism masochism. BELL END The head of the penis. BI-CURIOUS Interested in having a same sex experience but not tried yet. BI-PLAYFUL Enjoys same sex encounters as a part of group sexual activities, but not interested in forming a same sex relationship. BI-SEXUAL A person seeking both same sex and heterosexual experiences and/or relationships. Bi-sexuals do not neccesarily have an equal attraction to both genders. Some bi-sexuals have a preference for one gender over the other and may also vary in their preferences over a period of time, while others have preferences that remain fairly static throughout their sexual active life. BJ/BLOWJOB Sucking of the penis. Also known as Fellatio. BLUE PILL A common slang term for viagra. BONDAGE Sexually arousal caused by being restrained or being subject to corrective treatment by another. BOOBIESEXUAL Tongue-in-cheek term used to refer to women who identify primarily as straight but who enjoy touching and fondling women's breasts with no particular interest in same sex genital contact. The fondling may or may not be sexual in nature, depending on the individual. BUKKAKE A Japanese word that literally translates as "Splash" or "Shower". In sexual terms it means showering a receiving (female) with the sperm of several or many men. CAMMING Using Web cams via the Internet, often in a sexual manner. CHUFF Slang name for the vagina. CIALIS Cialis is an advancement from viagra. The active ingredient, Tadalafil has a longer half-life (17.5 hours) compared with Viagra and Levitra (4-5 hours). This longer half-life (the time taken for the drug's effect to lessen by 50%) results in a longer duration of action and is, in part, responsible for the Cialis nickname of the "weekend pill." Cialis comes in the form of a yellow tablet, in 5, 10 and 20mg dosages. CLITORIS A seldom found part of the female anatomy. CLOSED SWINGING Couples who prefer to be in separate rooms when they have sex with another man or woman. COCK RING A cock ring or cockring is a ring that is placed around a man's penis, usually at the base, primarily to slow the flow of blood from the erect penile tissue, thus maintaining erection for longer. Cock rings can be worn around just the penis or penis and scrotum, or just the scrotum alone, though this is usually called a testicle cuff. COCK SHOT A close up photo of the male genitals, often found on swingers adverts. CONDOM A barrier form of contraception covering the penis. CPL Abbreviation for Couple. CREAM PIE A vagina that's had a load of semen shot into it. Note - semen ON a vagina is NOT a cream pie. Cream pies have cream on the INSIDE. A vagina that merely has semen ON it is just a messy vagina. Cream must be injected! CROSS DRESSER A man who wears for example, feminine underwear or lingerie, but dresses outwardly as a male. CUCKOLD While the originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband whose wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition. CUNNILINGUS Licking of the vagina, labia, and clitoris. DENTAL DAM Barrier device used to perform "Safe" oral sex. DICK Slang name for the penis. DILDO An artificial facsimile of the penis. In contrast to a vibrator, a dildo is generally not an electrically powered device. DISCIPLINE These are disciplinary actions intended to arouse the sexual desires. It can range from mild spankings to painful beatings. (B & D) DOGGING Seeking sexual encounters (actively or voyeuristically) in parks, car parks & secluded areas, often in cars or wooded areas. DOGGY A sexual position where the female kneels and the male mounts her "from behind". Doggy Fashion. DOMINATRIX A professional dominatrix, or mistress, is a woman who is usually paid to act out an S/M, BDSM and / or Dominance and Submission scenes with a client. DOUBLE ENDER A dildo or vibrator designed to penetrate 2 people at the same time. DP Double penetration where typically 2 men penetrate a woman's rectum & vagina simultaneously though vibrators and dildo's may also be used. EROGENOUS ZONE A part of the body that excites sexual feelings when touched or stimulated. Also called erotogenic zone. EXHIBITIONISM An individual's desire to show off their sexuality/nudity to others. FANTASY PLAY Fantasy play involves people symbolically acting out their sexual fantasies. Acting out a scene broadens or enhances the sexual experience by including intellect and emotions that may not be stimulated during ordinary sex. FELCHING Sucking semen out of a persons rectum or vagina then passing orally to them, or to another partner . FELLATIO Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH Sexual arousal caused by a non-sexual subject, situation or object, or in some cases a fixation with a particular type of sexual partner, or part of the anatomy. FF Sex involving 2 ladies. FFM Sex involving 2 ladies and a man. FISTING Insertion of the hand into the vagina or in extreme cases the anus. FLAGELLATION Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking. FOURSOME Sex involving four persons, generally two couples. Group sex. FRENCH CULTURE Oral-genital sexual activity; (see Fellatio, Cunnilingus). FRENCHING Old fashioned and little used word meaning oral sex. FRENUM PIERCING A frenum (or frenulum) piercing is a type of male body piercing located on the underside of the shaft of the penis. A series of parallel frenulum piercings is known as a frenum ladder. Frenulum piercings are almost always pierced horizontally on the shaft of the penis. They may be pierced through the frenulum that connects the head of the penis to the shaft, or anywhere further down the shaft of the penis. Less commonly, frenulum piercings may be pierced along the top or even the sides of the shaft of the penis. Frenulum piercings generally require from two to five weeks to fully heal. Both barbells and rings can be worn in frenum piercings, as initial jewelery and on an ongoing basis. Sometimes, when rings are worn, the diameter of the ring is specifically chosen so that the ring can be worn encircling the penis. FUCK-BUDDY A friend who you meet primarily for the reason of sex. Often in the swinging scene used to refer to a swinging partner that is not your marital partner. Together with your fuck buddy you form a "couple" to meet and swap with other couples. FULL SWAP Swingers who engage in full sexual intercourse with persons other than their own partner. FUN AND GAMES Euphemism for sexual activity. GANG BANG Sex involving one woman with multiple (usually 4 or more) men. GREEK A little used slang word used for anal intercourse. GROUP SEX Sexual activity involving more than two persons. G SPOT The Gräfenberg Spot named after the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg - A small area on the front wall of the vagina, reported to produce exceptionally high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms when stimulated. The existence of the G Spot is not universally accepted by medical science, though it is widely accepted by swingers who obviously know far better! GSOH An abbreviation often found on swinger's adverts. Good Sense Of Humour. GUSH The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina during orgasm. GUSHER A woman who gushes. Also known as a Squirter. HARD SWINGING Meeting with couples and singles for full sexual intercourse. HEAD Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" (see French Culture). HEDONIST An individual who lives only for pleasure. HETEROFLEXIBLE An individual who primarily identifies as Heterosexual, but who may indulge in same sex acts during group play, without any particular interest in same sex relationships. HETEROSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. HORNY Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HOT WIFE A sexually uninhibited married woman with both the freedom and inclination/desire to enjoy sex with both her husband and other men. HUNG A man with a large penis. Well hung. JIZZ Slang term for semen. JOHNNY Condom. KAMAGRA A genric form of viagra, containing the same active ingredients but not manufactured Pfizer, the inventors of viagra. Kamagra is cheaper and has much the same effect, though some report it also has harsher side effects. KINKY General term for someone who is sexually adventurous. LESBIAN A homosexual woman. LIFESTYLE A commonly used alternative word for swinging. Often referred to as "The Lifestyle". MAGIC WAND An extremely powerful mains powered vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. There are three common attachments including a curved G-Spot finder and a beaded attachment. There is also an optional power boost adapter which gives 20% more vibe, though even on standard low power setting this device is well capable of persuading most women to crawl up the walls, as long as you can get them near enough to a mains socket! If you intend to purchase one make sure you also get a 110V adapter as these are intended for the american market. MALE COMFORTABLE A heterosexual guy, who is not overly concerned by stray contact from other guys during group play, as could accidentally occur for example during a 3sum with a woman, or deliberately occur when performing acts such as Double Penetration. MASOCHISM Sexual gratification through receiving pain or humiliation from others. MEET FOR PLEASURE Will meet for swinging sex; no pretence of social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. MENAGE A' TROIS Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex involved in a group sexual activity. (See THREESOME, TRIAD) METROSEXUAL A well groomed straight guy who is in touch with his feminine side and has the financial resources to dress in the top brand names. He probably uses 3 separate products on his hair (and actually calls them 'products') confuses his male friends with his sexuality and makes them jealous with his success with women. MILF Abbreviation - A Mother I'd Like To Fuck. MM 2 men MMF 2 men, one woman in a sexual liason. MORESOMES Generally refers to more than four people in a swinging interaction. Threesomes, Foursomes and Moresomes. (See GROUP SEX) NEWCOMERS/NEWBIES New people in swinging; First-timers. NIPPLE CLAMPS BDSM tool designed to cause pain to the nipples without causing much damage. NYMPHOMANIA A term used for women who have an insatiable appetite for sex. Often abbreviated to "Nympho". OFF PREMISES A party, club or location where swingers meet socially but are not allowed to partake in sexual intercourse. They may of course leave the party and go elsewhere to continue the evening with couples or singles they have met. OMNISEXUAL See Pansexual. ON PREMISES A party, club or location where sexual intercourse is allowed . OPEN RELATIONSHIP A relationship in which participants are free to take other partners. They may or may not be a polyamorous couple, may or may not be a swinging couple. If the couple is married they may describe themselves as having an open marriage. OPEN SWINGING Swinging activity where partners swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORGY Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room, with a complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex. PANSEXUAL Relating to, having, or open to sexual activity of many kinds. Pansexuals may be attracted to various different forms of romance, and may be aroused by various different acts of sex on a carnal level. Pansexuality does not refer to an attraction to other human beings, but rather a more carnal attraction to sexual acts irrespective of gender. Pansexuals are in general bisexual people with no real preference for either gender. PARTIES These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PARTY CLOTHES Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-around and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PASSIVE (1) Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. (2) Docile and submissive in swinging or sex. PHOTO COLLECTOR Person (usually male) often found on swinging websites who makes the pretence of wishing to meet with other swingers, whilst in reality is only interested in obtaining raunchy pictures. Often these individuals will present themselves as couples when in fact they are single males. PHOTOGRAPHY Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. PLAY A very commonly used swingers term meaning to indulge in sexual activity. POLYAMORY The practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Many decline to allow that swinging is part of PolyAmory, though the basic definition still applies. However in swinging the relationship between participants tends to be sexual rather than loving. You will find, though, that there are as many definitions of PolyAmory as there are people practicing it. PRINCE ALBERT A male genital piercing where a ring or stud enters through the base of the Glans (head of the penis), and exits through the Urethra. The Prince Albert is one of the more common male genetal piercings, it heals relatively quickly and the ring or stud may be left in place during sexual activity which is often reported to produce hieghtened states of arousal in females. PRINCESS ALBERTINA Princess Albertina is a female genital body piercing, where a ring enters the urethra and exits through the top of the vagina. This is a relatively rare piercing, as placement is difficult and the potential for urinary tract infections may be increased by this piercing. This piercing requires the bearer to have a large enough urethra for it to be viable. This piercing can be extremely sexually stimulating, as its presence stimulates the nerves of the urethra during intercourse or masturbatory activities. Like many genital piercings this piercing heals quickly if properly taken care of. RABBIT A type of vibrator that consists of two main components: a shaft and a clitoris arouser. The clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft is generally designed in the shape of bunny ears, hence the name. There are also more complex constructions. The most remarkable innovation is the insertion of rotating beads inside the shaft. The beads can be made of plastic or metal, and rotate after turning the device on which helps to stimulate the erogenous zones more intensively. Some rabbit vibrators' shafts are covered with spikes, bumps or ribs to create a similar effect. ROMAN Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RIMMING Licking of the anus RUBBER (1) Condom means of contraception; (2) Sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SADISM The infliction of pain or discipline with the intention of increasing sexual arousal. SAFE A person who has undergone medical sterilization, it does not mean the person is healthy; it just means they cannot get pregnant or impregnate someone. SAFE SEX Sexual intercourse with a condom or other barrier method. SAME ROOM The preferred form of sexual activity by most swingers, where all persons involved stay in the same room. S&M or S/M Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). S&M CLOTHES Fetish clothing often involving the use of leather, rubber, pvc and metal studs/chains. Not to be confused with M&S clothes which are more likely to involve tanktops, cardigans and corduroys! SBF Single Bi Female (alternatively meaning a Single Black Female). To avoid confusion a single bi female is sometimes referred to as SBiF. SCAT Sexual stimulation involving the use of faeces (poo). SEPARATE ROOM Swinging where those involved will go into separate rooms for sexual activities with persons other than their partner. SEX SWING Sex Swings are made of fabric, leather, or wood and are generally suspended from the ceiling or a frame apparatus. Sex swings appear to be an ancient eastern invention designed for ultimate sensual pleasure. SEXTACY A combination drug, Viagra and an amphetamine (such as ecstacy) mixed together, used for recreational purposes. SOCIAL A party, dance or other gathering, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no sexual activity at a social, but privately arranged activities may follow a social. SODOMY Generally refers to anal intercourse with either an opposite sex or same sex partner, however can refer to any sexual act that is not penile-vagina penetration. SOFT SWINGERS Couples who indulge in sexual activities such as foreplay, oral sex and masturbation with others, but who only have full sexual intercourse with their own partner. SOFT SWINGING The term used to describe a form of same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples is some form of soft swinging. SPORTSMANS DOUBLE A threesome involving a mother and daughter. SQUIRTER A woman that can ejaculate fluid from the vagina during orgasm, though some women claim to squirt before orgasm. STD Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many which interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STRAIGHT / STR / STR8 Generally refers to a person who is not interested in engaging in homosexual activity or alternatively a person who does not use drugs; confusingly this term is also occasionally used by swingers to denote non-swinging people. STRAIGHTISH A term to jokingly refer to a guy who is 'Male Comfortable'. It has been said that this term accurately describes about 90% of the 'straight' guys on the swinging scene! SUBMISSIVE Passive, wishes to be dominated (see Passive). SWAPPING The exchanging of partners by two couples. SWF Single White Female. SWINGING An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners though single men and women are sometimes also involved. THREESOME Three persons in a sexual encounter, normally two men and a woman (MMF) or two women and a man (FFM). TRAVEL (can) Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. TRANSEXUAL See TS. TRANSVESTITE A man who dresses in public as a lady for spiritual or psychological reasons and/or for sexual fulfillment. TRIAD Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome which is purely a group sexual activity.. TRIOLISM Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD). TRIPLE CROWN A cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm, the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body. TRISEXUAL (or TRYSEXUAL) Totally open minded sexually.... Try Anything Once. TS A Transexual, a man who has undergone or is in the process of undergoing surgery and/or hormonal treatment to become a woman, or vice versa TV See Transvestite. UNDERCARRAIGE GROOMING Common term for the shaving of the pubic hair on both males and females, a practice which is pretty much the norm amongst swingers. UTOPIAN SWINGER A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VANILLA Common swingers term for non-swinging persons. e.g. "Vanilla Friends - acquaintances who do not swing", "Vanilla Party - an ordinary non-swinging party" VCH A type of female genital piercing. The ring or stud passes Vertically through the Clit Hood (hence the abbreviation). In a vertical hood piercing, the clitoral hood is usually pierced in a manner that causes the jewelry to rest directly on the clitoris, often enhancing sensation during sex and masturbation. VIAGRA Sildenafil citrate, sold under the names Viagra, Revatio and under various other names, is a drug primarily intended to treat male erectile dysfunction (ED or impotence). Many healthy males on the swinging scene use Viagra recreationally, as it tends to give stronger and longer lasting erections as well as a reported increased ability to control orgasms thus prolonging sexual intercourse. Viagra comes in blue diamond shaped tablet form, with dosage of 25, 50 and 100mg. The recommended dose is 50mg, taken 40 minutes before intercourse however the effects last for 4hrs or more. Viagra gives best effects when taken on an empty stomach, excessive alcohol consumption lessens the effect. VIBRATOR Electrical vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. VOYEURISM Observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. WATERSPORTS This is a form of sexual stimulation usually involving urinating on other persons, but may also in extreme cases refer to vomiting. WEEKEND PILL See Cialis. WIFE SWAPPING An old fashioned term for swinging. XENOPHILE Someone who has a profound sexual attraction to strangers. Many swingers find sex with strangers gives them a massive "buzz", while others prefer to form more long lasting relationships and friendships and purport that sex improves with familiarity come see my CHUFF !! lol is it in your aviary ty x" it is bill but sometimes it flys free lol | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ?" some seriously dim people making comments on here get educated hun | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ? some seriously dim people making comments on here get educated hun " | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ? some seriously dim people making comments on here get educated hun "No cumming out of anywhere. No glove no love. | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ? some seriously dim people making comments on here get educated hun
No cumming out of anywhere.
No glove no love. "Oooh Fiery Crack has a glove fetish!! | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ?" sure it would probabley be just as risky anally!u can catch stds just as easily thru anal contact! | |||
"like the sound of cuming out of the ass...not sure about cuming out of her pussy...would be too risky ? sure it would probabley be just as risky anally!u can catch stds just as easily thru anal contact!" Totally! | |||
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