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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one  |
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Yip i'm having the same problem 
Okay joking aside, but i know for some women they need lots of foreplay and need to be in controlling position while having sex to be able to cum.
Might be even worth watching some porn on your own getting near that magical point.... STOP!!! and transfer your fingers for cock 
Listen! what the hell would i know, just disregard everything i said  |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Yip i'm having the same problem
Okay joking aside, but i know for some women they need lots of foreplay and need to be in controlling position while having sex to be able to cum.
Might be even worth watching some porn on your own getting near that magical point.... STOP!!! and transfer your fingers for cock
R u sure ur not female as u seem to know a bit
Listen! what the hell would i know, just disregard everything i said "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
mmmm sounds like a job for solo |
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly  "
you can pay me in orgasms!!! |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one mmmm sounds like a job for solo "
Is that an offet of kind help there , is there something u can show me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe that different positions can also help big time crazy, that and adding pillows under the hips add a different sensation along with lots of foreplay from experience    |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly "
Mmmm what am i missing here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to go out with a girl who had never came before, first step was ann summers for a rabbit lol. It took a while for her to get comfortable with it and I still remember her calling me while I was in work in hysterics that she had came haha. Soon we worked that into the bed which was fun after a while we exchanged the ears for fingers while the shaft was still there which eventually worked.
From that we bought the ears on there own which were great for her while I was inside then went from that to just to her fingers. I feel sorry for her tho having to be such a hardcore clit flicker to cum. In previous experiences anal play helps loads. A small but plug isn't too daunting but when your doing it doggy my current playmate never has an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It aint what you do but the way that you do it, stimulation and slow rockin slowly deepening each time, total teasing, and it seems to wotk for me."
Oh yummmmm |
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
You've sure come to the right place for advice ! and my advice would be keep going till u find a cock that does it for you,,, |
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
Ok. Here we go.
Yes, I think it's more common than you think, and secondly, I'm not sure that it's a "problem" as such. If you couldn't have an orgasm I'd consider it a problem. I'd be inclined to say just enjoy the ones your having, and don't worry about what way your achieving them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of us don't need different positions, pillows replaced fingers with cock or any of that
Bit unnecessary  "
think you misunderstood. Wasn't meant in a bad way. |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one
Ok. Here we go.
Yes, I think it's more common than you think, and secondly, I'm not sure that it's a "problem" as such. If you couldn't have an orgasm I'd consider it a problem. I'd be inclined to say just enjoy the ones your having, and don't worry about what way your achieving them.
I feel a few slaps coming my way already "
Oh i do enjoy them alot , i love clit stimulation , its sooo erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of us don't need different positions, pillows replaced fingers with cock or any of that
Bit unnecessary
think you misunderstood. Wasn't meant in a bad way."
just found it an odd thing to post when someone is looking for advice with a genuine problem is all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put it this way. Over complicate things and you'll get no where. Relax and not stress itll come naturally (no pun intended)"
I agree to an extent but everyone is built differently, can take trying a few ideas to open the floodgates so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly "
Why am I intrigued. ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
I'm no expert. But - sounds more psychological than physical !
Letting go of control can be so difficult !
Early morning sex - when your just awake and not laid down with a mind full of a days worries can be a 'more relaxing' time to try.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put it this way. Over complicate things and you'll get no where. Relax and not stress itll come naturally (no pun intended)
I agree to an extent but everyone is built differently, can take trying a few ideas to open the floodgates so to speak"
now harm in them but i believe in the k.i.s.s
keep it simple stupid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a women can cum only when playing by herself then she should use the show and tell method. Sit the man down and show him while explaining what she is doing. It takes two to get it right and being a man I will tell a women if it's right or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Put it this way. Over complicate things and you'll get no where. Relax and not stress itll come naturally (no pun intended)
I agree to an extent but everyone is built differently, can take trying a few ideas to open the floodgates so to speak
now harm in them but i believe in the k.i.s.s
keep it simple stupid "
lol fair enough, whatever works for ya! nothing stupid about this chick though! |
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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago
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"If a women can cum only when playing by herself then she should use the show and tell method. Sit the man down and show him while explaining what she is doing. "
Which says a lot about the dynamics of the relationship. A friend of mine never once had an orgasm with her late husband and she puts that down to a controlling relationship. Nowadays, when effectively she is calling the shots, she has no problems at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a women can cum only when playing by herself then she should use the show and tell method. Sit the man down and show him while explaining what she is doing.
Which says a lot about the dynamics of the relationship. A friend of mine never once had an orgasm with her late husband and she puts that down to a controlling relationship. Nowadays, when effectively she is calling the shots, she has no problems at all."
Seems to be if women would open there mouths and speak |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Did u try having someone inside you and somebody else massaging your clit slowly with their tongue?? Just a suggestion"
Thats hot and its on our to do list mmmmmmmmmmmmmm i feel my clit pulsating at the thoight of it mmmmm |
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"If a women can cum only when playing by herself then she should use the show and tell method. Sit the man down and show him while explaining what she is doing.
Which says a lot about the dynamics of the relationship. A friend of mine never once had an orgasm with her late husband and she puts that down to a controlling relationship. Nowadays, when effectively she is calling the shots, she has no problems at all."
How did he die ?,,,,  |
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly
Why am I intrigued. ..... "
ah nothing much to be intrigued about! Hardy pays me to pay him compliments in public!! Lol |
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By *razy-Cpl OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Have you tried a vibrating cock Ring ! If its your clit that gets you there then maybe that will help good luck hun xx "
We have just bought some lol , would also love to know where exactly a womans g spot is as i think that may help us too , thanks everyone xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
same here!its very common actually!most women dont orgasm just by penetration alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of us don't need different positions, pillows replaced fingers with cock or any of that
Bit unnecessary
think you misunderstood. Wasn't meant in a bad way.
just found it an odd thing to post when someone is looking for advice with a genuine problem is all."
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly
Why am I intrigued. .....
ah nothing much to be intrigued about! Hardy pays me to pay him compliments in public!! Lol"
Thanks for bringing me back down to earth, Holly... could have done without the sudden stop tho |
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"Trust me crazy he knows what he is talking about!!! One of the few magical (single) males here on fab!!
Private Message:::::: Jesus how much do i owe you for that errmmm..... Holly
Why am I intrigued. .....
ah nothing much to be intrigued about! Hardy pays me to pay him compliments in public!! Lol
Thanks for bringing me back down to earth, Holly... could have done without the sudden stop tho "
ah you should know by now thats how I like to do things!! =P |
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" Just putting it out there and see who else is having the same prob as me or is it more common than i think.
Here it goes.
I can only orgasm if i play with myself having
Sex , i cant cum when a guy is in me , it only ever happened once in my life , just wish i knew how to change that as id love to cum when my partner is having sex with me and he going at the natural way without giving him a hand to make me cum ! Any thoughts any one "
Heres another practical idea for you,It might be worth having a guy with stubble and a moustach go down on you, the extra friction could do wonders.
p.s. im available all weekend,,,,, |
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