Matching how they describe themselves in there profile.
Obvious compatibility between each other.
An attempt to check is the other partner is happy or comfortable.
Concern for the safety of their partner.
No attempts to push or convince the other do to something.
Both enthusiastic about swinging.
They are actually a couple and not just pretending to be to get an invitation.
No signs of jealousy or coercion.
Not talking negatively about each other. |
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"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half "
This is frustrating for us having only one pic of him and it's a dick pic, and loads of pics of her.
I appreciate photos of couples together, even if they are dressed like date night or holiday photos. That's our green flag. |
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Nice mix on the photos , but at least one where they are together.
When the content is clear about both there goals , singularly and jointly.
Also like when they make clear who your chatting to straight away .
Mr here , Ms here , or both.
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Some photos of the M half. And not dick pics.
A profile text that gives a little something about who they are and what they're after.
And if they're the ones getting in touch with us, an actual message instead of "Hi, how are ye?". 🙄 |
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"Matching how they describe themselves in there profile.
Obvious compatibility between each other.
An attempt to check is the other partner is happy or comfortable.
Concern for the safety of their partner.
No attempts to push or convince the other do to something.
Both enthusiastic about swinging.
They are actually a couple and not just pretending to be to get an invitation.
No signs of jealousy or coercion.
Not talking negatively about each other."
I think this is why a social meet is important and one of the things I look out for is how much is a couple on the same page about everything. How they interact and how playful and comfortable they are within their relationship |
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Equal amounts of photos of them both and together.
A little about their relationship, if they are in a LTR, married or fuck friends who have put a profile together.
Links to single accounts, especially if they meet separately.
I always like to know who is running things and messaging me. I prefer to talk to the female firstly and I like it when it's her I'm talking to when establishing those first connections. That's my favourite green flag when it comes to couples.
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"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half
What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷♀️"
I suppose then women won't know what attraction they might have with the male half then. |
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Couples profiles with pictures of the male and pictures of them together.
Unlikely to engage with those that don't. We don't for one second buy the "man is shy" or doesn't like taking photos" etc.
A short concise profile, keep it on point.
The ones with big long paragraphs of demands are off-putting for sure.
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"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half
What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷♀️"
I'd say it's acceptable if he's not looking to actively participate. In my mind, it's a bit of a step up than having a single profile saying "I'm actually a couple and he's always going to be involved in the play" |
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"The actual couple and not just 20 photos of the female half
What if the male half doesn't like taking pictures 🤷♀️
I'd say it's acceptable if he's not looking to actively participate. In my mind, it's a bit of a step up than having a single profile saying "I'm actually a couple and he's always going to be involved in the play" "
If he's gonna be in the room then I'd want to know what he looks like. The vibe is important to me. |
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"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it  "
It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. |
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By *rxmrsCouple 3 days ago
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"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it
It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them."
a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier |
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"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it
It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier "
Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern |
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A couple openly willing to meet for a coffee and chat to see if there's any sparks/vibes that there into both parties and not taking one for the team as such openly talking about what they want to get from fab and even beyond are they just looking a 1 and done or are they looking to make it a regularish thing like a few meets over the year and the biggest green flag for us is a couple who is ok with meet not just at a weekend |
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By *rxmrsCouple 3 days ago
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"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it
It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier
Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern "
maybe they don't like blurring ud still be hiding half the body wouldn't u  |
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"I'm only asking a question i didn't mean anything by it
It's a good question, I suppose what does my opinion matter in this regard if you're only looking for a couple or woman. Delectable made a good argument. I know I'm not a big fan of taking photos but I'd never get anywhere on here without them. a lot worry about tattoos and someone noticing them i should have said that earlier
Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern maybe they don't like blurring ud still be hiding half the body wouldn't u "
I would be very wary and pass on a profile where the guy was unwilling to even try and post pics of himself. |
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Reply to forum post "Couples Green Flags" from a contributor
...Its a case of blurring all tattoos if it's a concern...
I've always thought that there are two types of people on Fab. Those that want/need privacy of their Fab life from their "normal" life, and those that don't want/need any distinction between the two. I know that sounds simple but this is the basis of all content that someone(s) will post to their profile.
I don't see it as an immediate red flag if a couple have few photos or fewer photos of one partner. I ask them about it in conversation.
It would, however, be a major red flag if both were not willing to attend a social meet ahead of potential play. |
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