So I have a preference to holding on to something while in the throes of passion, and I was looking into some kind of a harness for the lady that would be conductive to that kind of business.
Turns out, it is a form of so called soft bondage.
So, naturally, I turn to thee, the Gestalt being of sexual life in Ireland, for more input, sharing of experiences, further discussions, and perhaps having an opportunity to voice ones preferences in the lifestyle. |
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As an other search term, you'll want to look up "shibari", there'll be no shortage of online resources and tutorials, as well as physical books if you prefer. If you don't have one already, you might also want to get an account on fetlife. There's no shortage of rope enthusiasts, with resources and photos. Some harnesses are absolute works of art.
Then, since you're in Dublin, you're also in luck, pretty sure that DV8 have regular rope workshops. And I would really, really, strongly recommend that you do attend some. Rope play can very easily go wrong so you absolutely want to practice and be prepared. That includes proper bondage rope and a tool to cut the rope quickly if needed amongst other things. Self-learning is fine, but learning the ropes(!) from experienced practitioners is better. |
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To be honest, I took a liking to this wide leathet belt around the waist, legs, a pair of cuffs to boot for the arms...
Perhaps something similar on the top as well so one can have proper holding points, depending on the position and formation... |
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Oh, if you're talking leather harnesses, that's a lot easier and then you'll have plenty of options. Sex shops in Dublin will likely have a few. Miss Fantasia is a stonethrow away from St Stephen's Green for example.
Online, shein has a *vast* variety of faux-leather/PU harnesses too. and since they're all belt adjusted, they'll likely fit anyone. |
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"Oh, if you're talking leather harnesses, that's a lot easier and then you'll have plenty of options. Sex shops in Dublin will likely have a few. Miss Fantasia is a stonethrow away from St Stephen's Green for example.
Online, shein has a *vast* variety of faux-leather/PU harnesses too. and since they're all belt adjusted, they'll likely fit anyone."
Alas miss fantasias is no more
I have some of the shein ones and they are grand, being that they dont cost a fortune the quality of leather is a little less. There is a few other places around i got a great set in playblue in tallaght- Trouble |
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I hope the quality and endurance is up to scratch, the ones I seen are at least 4 inches wide around the waist...
I do tend to get carried away, and frequently have to stay in control not to tear up the various lingerie items that might be available at the moment in opportune locations... |
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