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When do you give up on your kink ?

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city

As you know people enjoy certain stuff and usually not everyone else does here , just curious if you have ever given up on a fetish just from lack of interest from others ? And just got to get over it

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen

I haven't as yet because I found a different place that I find more suited to actually finding like minded people into all aspects of the kink lifestyle and there's no kink shaming there also.

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By *obshortMan 5 weeks ago

Cork

Personal I find people will chat about such things, very openly. Once they see that there's no judgement. Have meet with some very open minded people on here.

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By *og-ManMan 5 weeks ago

somewhere

Presume it's to do with shoes

Are there more specific sites than fab that you'd have better luck in finding any or have you tried them

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen

Yes bog I have found one that has socials regularly and classes aswell

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple 5 weeks ago

Galway

We're lucky enough to share those kinks with each other and have been able to explore these over the years. But even then, it's only recently that we started engaging with the wider kink community and it has been an amazing experience. Highly recommend it if you feel like opening up to others about it. Munches are pretty friendly socials in public venues, and some newcomer friendly events such as Nimnhneach will be eye-opening as to the beautiful diversity of the scene.

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city

Kinda tired them all lol. And if you get anyone interested usually UK based or Dublin only.

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city

Reply was meant for you below !

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city


"We're lucky enough to share those kinks with each other and have been able to explore these over the years. But even then, it's only recently that we started engaging with the wider kink community and it has been an amazing experience. Highly recommend it if you feel like opening up to others about it. Munches are pretty friendly socials in public venues, and some newcomer friendly events such as Nimnhneach will be eye-opening as to the beautiful diversity of the scene."

Thank you for the kind details, yeah seems trying to branch out at much seem to be the best thing to do. Go together spilt up and enjoy fetishes we want to expore personally

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen

Totally agree with the munches some great ones In Belfast, Dublin, Sligo and Derry.havent been brave enough to goto the club nights yet.

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By *njco64Man 5 weeks ago

Waterford

Never give up there’s always someone who will enjoy it with you it’s finding the person that’s the issue

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen


"We're lucky enough to share those kinks with each other and have been able to explore these over the years. But even then, it's only recently that we started engaging with the wider kink community and it has been an amazing experience. Highly recommend it if you feel like opening up to others about it. Munches are pretty friendly socials in public venues, and some newcomer friendly events such as Nimnhneach will be eye-opening as to the beautiful diversity of the scene.

Thank you for the kind details, yeah seems trying to branch out at much seem to be the best thing to do. Go together spilt up and enjoy fetishes we want to expore personally "

Think there's a cork scene aswell but don't hold me to that.

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple 5 weeks ago

Galway

The scene is very heavily Dublin-centric, though the North has its own. In Cork there's at least one club, LUST, which runs kink events (as well as some swinging ones). It's on our list, but we haven't visited it yet so couldn't tell what it's like.

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city


"The scene is very heavily Dublin-centric, though the North has its own. In Cork there's at least one club, LUST, which runs kink events (as well as some swinging ones). It's on our list, but we haven't visited it yet so couldn't tell what it's like."

Thank you will definitely look for maybe a Dublin trip in the future.

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen


"The scene is very heavily Dublin-centric, though the North has its own. In Cork there's at least one club, LUST, which runs kink events (as well as some swinging ones). It's on our list, but we haven't visited it yet so couldn't tell what it's like.

Thank you will definitely look for maybe a Dublin trip in the future. "

Dv8 in Dublin has many different theme nights maybe you should have a look at them see if any of them fit for what you seek.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple 5 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I think the best way is to assume that 99% of people are not into the same thing youre into, and understand that finding that 1% is going to take time and effort and being able to take an awful lot of rejection. The real question is if that is worth it to you or not

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen


"I think the best way is to assume that 99% of people are not into the same thing youre into, and understand that finding that 1% is going to take time and effort and being able to take an awful lot of rejection. The real question is if that is worth it to you or not"

Very true and very wise

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city


"I think the best way is to assume that 99% of people are not into the same thing youre into, and understand that finding that 1% is going to take time and effort and being able to take an awful lot of rejection. The real question is if that is worth it to you or not"

It definitely feels worth it but by God the constant rejection is hard lol

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city


"I think the best way is to assume that 99% of people are not into the same thing youre into, and understand that finding that 1% is going to take time and effort and being able to take an awful lot of rejection. The real question is if that is worth it to you or not

Very true and very wise "

Thank you x

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By *ittycouple4funCouple 5 weeks ago

stillorgan


"As you know people enjoy certain stuff and usually not everyone else does here , just curious if you have ever given up on a fetish just from lack of interest from others ? And just got to get over it "

Gerbilling unfortunately. The pet shops refused to sell them to me anymore! 😔

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By *edro50Man 5 weeks ago

enniskillen


"As you know people enjoy certain stuff and usually not everyone else does here , just curious if you have ever given up on a fetish just from lack of interest from others ? And just got to get over it

Gerbilling unfortunately. The pet shops refused to sell them to me anymore! 😔 "

No comment but slightly smirking,won't kink shame ❤️

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By *uphoria21. OP   Couple 5 weeks ago

cork city


"As you know people enjoy certain stuff and usually not everyone else does here , just curious if you have ever given up on a fetish just from lack of interest from others ? And just got to get over it

Gerbilling unfortunately. The pet shops refused to sell them to me anymore! 😔 "

God give and take way .. x prayers

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By *eus17Man 5 weeks ago

belfast

I havent had sex in over a year and a half and to be fair im defo losing the kink,which is weird as im usually very kinky and have a very dirty mind full of fetishes but i dont seem to be bothered anymore.

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By *irishladMan 5 weeks ago

North County Dublin

Remember the sellotape!

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By *ey hows it goingMan 5 weeks ago

Terenure

Ya I recently decided to stop sleeping with teenage girls.

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