What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives. |
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Sex, preferably with an understanding that sex in and of itself is enough.
That's just me though. I'm not into the thing of "good sex needs a deep spititual connection". To my mind, it doesn't. It just needs two people who want to have sex with each other. |
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Hoping?
You're feeling philosophical arent ya 
I'm not hopeful😆 It's a distraction and something to do when I'm bored. I joined thinking this was the place to find a fwb but as we know that's easier said than done. Stayed cos I discovered my exhibitionist side and enjoy the forum chats. |
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I like it all.
I like sex that feels like I've disappeared into an ocean of pleasure that can only be experienced by two people connecting just right.
I like feeling so overwhelmingly attracted to someone that I can't even speak in their presence and I want to do nice things for them.
I like the easiness of getting naked and laughing with my good friends
I like meeting a buddy for a shallow filthy fuck that leaves my body thrilled for days.
I want it all. I want to have the best sex I've ever had, every single time. |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives. "
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all. |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all. "
I'd say that's why there are so many looking for fwb. It's more than just a quick fuck for a lot of people on here. |
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"Hoping?
You're feeling philosophical arent ya
I'm not hopeful😆 It's a distraction and something to do when I'm bored. I joined thinking this was the place to find a fwb but as we know that's easier said than done. Stayed cos I discovered my exhibitionist side and enjoy the forum chats. "
Hello and how are you doing and would be interested in chatting please xxx John |
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I'm no longer interested in sex with someone I don't have a connection with. I need connection, caring, loving, touch,embraces and kisses.
I've found it a few times here, but it's rare.
I've tasted deep connection, heart opening love, and blissful states of being, so anything less is not worth it.
I'll wait. |
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I'm very new to this scene and nsa fun but I've discovered the chemistry is more important than anything else. I do need an instant physical attraction but it's what comes after that really keeps my knickers wet.
The sexy chats and banter are a must for me and I'd expect that to continue in between meets with an FWB |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all.
I'd say that's why there are so many looking for fwb. It's more than just a quick fuck for a lot of people on here. "
Exactly but it's really hard to make it happen, you might chat with someone for days feel really good connection, exchange facepics and everything then boom 💥 ghosted... it's really like a lotto, some of you win some of you don't, but we all try |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all. "
D U D E !!! For real.
You didn't really answer the question, but advertised yourself and your willingness to please all cultures and diversity equally. Fair Play to you..
My question was .
What's there after the orgsam? In those moments of no love that keeps you interested
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"I like it all.
I like sex that feels like I've disappeared into an ocean of pleasure that can only be experienced by two people connecting just right.
I like feeling so overwhelmingly attracted to someone that I can't even speak in their presence and I want to do nice things for them.
I like the easiness of getting naked and laughing with my good friends
I like meeting a buddy for a shallow filthy fuck that leaves my body thrilled for days.
I want it all. I want to have the best sex I've ever had, every single time."
👏 well said. This every time. But raw passionate wild sex sometimes is needed too. Just fuck and go. |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all.
D U D E !!! For real.
You didn't really answer the question, but advertised yourself and your willingness to please all cultures and diversity equally. Fair Play to you..
My question was .
What's there after the orgsam? In those moments of no love that keeps you interested
"
Well, thank you kind sir!! Wasn't selling myself on anything haha.. but I'll take that compliment. 😁😁 but i
Guess that's exactly what i answered haha..!! Even meeting someone for the first time you won't jump in bed with them just because you are horned up there will be a 3rd factor leading there, some attraction, how they treat you and how comfortable you feel around them, some small factor that makes them stand out from the rest of the people. The things that comes after the orgams clearly depends on all that. Could be a nice conversation and cuddles if you have that comfortness with someone or just roll to both ends of the bed and scroll your phones rethinking your life choices, post nut clarity is no joke haha.. choose your decisions wisely 🤭🤭 |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all.
D U D E !!! For real.
You didn't really answer the question, but advertised yourself and your willingness to please all cultures and diversity equally. Fair Play to you..
My question was .
What's there after the orgsam? In those moments of no love that keeps you interested
Well, thank you kind sir!! Wasn't selling myself on anything haha.. but I'll take that compliment. 😁😁 but i
Guess that's exactly what i answered haha..!! Even meeting someone for the first time you won't jump in bed with them just because you are horned up there will be a 3rd factor leading there, some attraction, how they treat you and how comfortable you feel around them, some small factor that makes them stand out from the rest of the people. The things that comes after the orgams clearly depends on all that. Could be a nice conversation and cuddles if you have that comfortness with someone or just roll to both ends of the bed and scroll your phones rethinking your life choices, post nut clarity is no joke haha.. choose your decisions wisely 🤭🤭"
I agree, but what I'm trying to get to the bottom of is , the wild ones, the ones where passion and lust had gotten you so far, you've both blown your loads, hopefully serial times, and the aftermath, what do you require or want to wish for in these moments? |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all.
D U D E !!! For real.
You didn't really answer the question, but advertised yourself and your willingness to please all cultures and diversity equally. Fair Play to you..
My question was .
What's there after the orgsam? In those moments of no love that keeps you interested
Well, thank you kind sir!! Wasn't selling myself on anything haha.. but I'll take that compliment. 😁😁 but i
Guess that's exactly what i answered haha..!! Even meeting someone for the first time you won't jump in bed with them just because you are horned up there will be a 3rd factor leading there, some attraction, how they treat you and how comfortable you feel around them, some small factor that makes them stand out from the rest of the people. The things that comes after the orgams clearly depends on all that. Could be a nice conversation and cuddles if you have that comfortness with someone or just roll to both ends of the bed and scroll your phones rethinking your life choices, post nut clarity is no joke haha.. choose your decisions wisely 🤭🤭
I agree, but what I'm trying to get to the bottom of is , the wild ones, the ones where passion and lust had gotten you so far, you've both blown your loads, hopefully serial times, and the aftermath, what do you require or want to wish for in these moments? "
Just after a wild impulsive one?? With no prior connection? Well if things go as you say just a good sleep after the exhaustion and a handshake before we part. |
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"What does it mean to you?
Obviously, most of us are here for sex. It's not that difficult to get someone to have sex with you.
What I'm trying to understand is, what's the thing you're hoping to find, is it peace, conversation, friendship, pain, suffering, longing?
I know sex isn't the answer, but I'd be interested in people's perspectives.
Well if you want just sex there's other options where you can pay and just do the deed and leave.
Some people like myself likes to have a connection and have a bit of laugh and understanding. Sex can be more fun and exciting when you can have a nice time with someone before and after, engaging in meaningful conversations getting to know eachothers culture and interests. As long as both parties agree they need the same things there's no problems at all.
D U D E !!! For real.
You didn't really answer the question, but advertised yourself and your willingness to please all cultures and diversity equally. Fair Play to you..
My question was .
What's there after the orgsam? In those moments of no love that keeps you interested
Well, thank you kind sir!! Wasn't selling myself on anything haha.. but I'll take that compliment. 😁😁 but i
Guess that's exactly what i answered haha..!! Even meeting someone for the first time you won't jump in bed with them just because you are horned up there will be a 3rd factor leading there, some attraction, how they treat you and how comfortable you feel around them, some small factor that makes them stand out from the rest of the people. The things that comes after the orgams clearly depends on all that. Could be a nice conversation and cuddles if you have that comfortness with someone or just roll to both ends of the bed and scroll your phones rethinking your life choices, post nut clarity is no joke haha.. choose your decisions wisely 🤭🤭
I agree, but what I'm trying to get to the bottom of is , the wild ones, the ones where passion and lust had gotten you so far, you've both blown your loads, hopefully serial times, and the aftermath, what do you require or want to wish for in these moments? "
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I've met a few people here. They have all been great. But after 2 or 3 meets and I don't feel the chemistry then the meets stop. There definitely has to be a connection for me. Someone with a good sense of humor and can hold a good conversation, very hard to find on here. But this thread shows they are out there. |
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For me even to have sex with a guy there has to be an attraction or a spark, of its not there nothing will happen. So it's been a while
When I joined i had an fwb and it was great while it lasted. He met someone and became a couple.
Last while I've lost hope lol.so now just here for the socials and a laugh. |
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