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For us we joined fab in 2011 for the cam rooms , we always enjoyed watching others , then we progressed to putting on out own little shows once a month or so , that went on up till 2020 , we were ready to join a party and see what happened then covid hit , lockdown after lockdown we eventually went to our first party 2021 , never looked back since |
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By *evin86Man 4 days ago
South Dublin |
I know I'm a single guy so some would say in that case I can't be a swinger, but I've always had an interest in the lifestyle and never liked the idea of only having sex with one person for the rest of your life.
I had a long 10 year relationship from a young age, in which I was faithful to her. But since breaking up I've realised that my sex life has been vanilla at best and I craved so much more excitement.
Now I think I'd like to eventually find a partner who is into swinging🤞 |
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I met someone new who had been swinging in a previous relationship. I liked the idea of an adventurous lifestyle. Also we are both Bisexual so it's a way of playing with others to fulfil that side of us. I haven't been able to get on board with full swap with Het couples so we are still baby steps even after just over a year in.
Mrs |
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"I met someone new who had been swinging in a previous relationship. I liked the idea of an adventurous lifestyle. Also we are both Bisexual so it's a way of playing with others to fulfil that side of us. I haven't been able to get on board with full swap with Het couples so we are still baby steps even after just over a year in.
Mrs"
that's why we took our time and just used the cam rooms for years , we wanted to make sure this was for us , that it wouldnt damage our relationship with jealousy etc took us years to get to where we are |
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We chatted after watching porn and I (ben) said i wanted to try a mff. My better half agreed only if I'd do a mfm with her. I didn't like the idea but was mad to try a mff. So agreed. Couldn't believe how much I then enjoyed sharing her and she enjoyed it too.... We have been playing on and off ever since.... |
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By *aughty MilfCouple 4 days ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"We chatted after watching porn and I (ben) said i wanted to try a mff. My better half agreed only if I'd do a mfm with her. I didn't like the idea but was mad to try a mff. So agreed. Couldn't believe how much I then enjoyed sharing her and she enjoyed it too.... We have been playing on and off ever since...."
something similar only Tony said I bet you wouldn't do that lol and here we are . Jane
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A few years ago, most Irish sites to meet women charged men about 30 quid a month to meet possibly the 10 women in Ireland on the site who had joined for free. One of the women there suggested I try out Fabswingers   |
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"Snooping on our neighbours and fell into the world of fab and did you find them.on here after all ? Lol"
yes we did shocked to find out what was going on only a few doors away 🤣😂🤣😂 going off the verifications they have been on and off the site since but ya thank god we were nosey neighbours
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"Snooping on our neighbours and fell into the world of fab and did you find them.on here after all ? Lol yes we did shocked to find out what was going on only a few doors away 🤣😂🤣😂 going off the verifications they have been on and off the site since but ya thank god we were nosey neighbours "
lol did you ever run into them at a party or event
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By *ettaManMan 4 days ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
I matched with a woman on tinder and in my bio I had down that I am polyamorus. I asked her if she had seen that (as many hadn't read my bio) and she said she had and that she was on "fabs".
I asked her what "fabs" was and so here I am
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"Taking pictures and looking for somewhere to post them. We joined here and its been an eye opening experience. in a good way we hope "
Yes for the most part it's been really enjoyable thank you  |
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"One day I woke up and said why not, now I’m here for 8 years, I think it’s my middle age crisis brought me here. I had up and downs here like everyone else, still enjoying the fab. "
plenty of ups and downs here  |
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An unexpected girl on girl fun in the backseat of our car as we were giving a friend a lift home, himself was driving and needless to say almost crashed the car when he spotted what was happening in the rear view mirror
The rest is history…..
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"Snooping on our neighbours and fell into the world of fab and did you find them.on here after all ? Lol yes we did shocked to find out what was going on only a few doors away 🤣😂🤣😂 going off the verifications they have been on and off the site since but ya thank god we were nosey neighbours lol did you ever run into them at a party or event "
no they don't know we are on fab they haven't been on in a long time
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An article in a Sunday World got me snooping online and here I am. It painted a very seedy underworld hobby that we should be ashamed off at the time. Reporters used to try sneak into socials at the time with camera hidden in bags |
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Both - A threesome sounds hot. Let's find a sexy friend to play with!
Him - Yeah, a man so you get more attention at the same time!Plus, you know... 
Her - Nah, a woman so you get more shapes to enjoy! Plus, you know...
Both - Maybe one of each then? Now how/where would we find interested parties? Hmmmmmh... |
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My wife and I used have dinner with friends the atmosphere was getting more charged everytime we had dinner with them. But they were good friends that we didn't want to loose.we realised we weren't the jelous type and said let's give it a go. Several sites later and 15 years in here we are. Well I am herself still plays but taking a break from fab for a bit. |
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"Both - A threesome sounds hot. Let's find a sexy friend to play with!
Him - Yeah, a man so you get more attention at the same time!Plus, you know...
Her - Nah, a woman so you get more shapes to enjoy! Plus, you know...
Both - Maybe one of each then? Now how/where would we find interested parties? Hmmmmmh..."
That's brilliant and hot at the same time  |
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Always had sexual thoughts about other woman. My go to porn was girl on girl so we decided to visit a club in the UK. Had my first girl on girl experience and it sparked a fire inside of me. Visited lots of clubs and joined here. We love our journey and I love my girl on girl fun |
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A friend recommended it as I hadn't been with anyone in about 8 years. So i joined, deleted, joined deleted again, can't stay away as I enjoy the socials, enjoyed hosting a few socials, made some great friends and my social life is fab socials.
As for the swinging side it's non existent but I've accepted defeat there. |
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"A friend recommended it as I hadn't been with anyone in about 8 years. So i joined, deleted, joined deleted again, can't stay away as I enjoy the socials, enjoyed hosting a few socials, made some great friends and my social life is fab socials.
As for the swinging side it's non existent but I've accepted defeat there."
never accept defeat , keep up the fight |
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I was fairly naive and was told about FAB by a male friend after my marriage fell apart. It was an amazing experience for a newly single middle aged man. I have to say though that meeting at parties is great and I enjoy the social side as much as the naughty side. |
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A chance bit of fun in cap d'age 10 yrs ago prompted us to join the other site which we wasted a couple of yrs on,discovered FAB and have enjoyed it but even though we are fit and able probably wrong side of 55? |
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"A chance bit of fun in cap d'age 10 yrs ago prompted us to join the other site which we wasted a couple of yrs on,discovered FAB and have enjoyed it but even though we are fit and able probably wrong side of 55?"
Only for those that have their filters set at max 55
Those of us of a certain age can still admire ye |
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"For us we joined fab in 2011 for the cam rooms , we always enjoyed watching others , then we progressed to putting on out own little shows once a month or so , that went on up till 2020 , we were ready to join a party and see what happened then covid hit , lockdown after lockdown we eventually went to our first party 2021 , never looked back since "
Was in Spain and went to Club Aditi and it was great! |
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"A chance bit of fun in cap d'age 10 yrs ago prompted us to join the other site which we wasted a couple of yrs on,discovered FAB and have enjoyed it but even though we are fit and able probably wrong side of 55?
Only for those that have their filters set at max 55
Those of us of a certain age can still admire ye "
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"A chance bit of fun in cap d'age 10 yrs ago prompted us to join the other site which we wasted a couple of yrs on,discovered FAB and have enjoyed it but even though we are fit and able probably wrong side of 55?
Only for those that have their filters set at max 55
Those of us of a certain age can still admire ye "
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By *aven41Couple 17 hours ago
Kells |
Missus selling a bridesmaids dress on done deal a good few years back. Pictutes of her wearing it were up online, not provocative but lets just say best assets were on display. She got some messages from a guy who claimed he wanted to buy it for his girlfriend.
He asked about the size of the dress and what's your bra size etc. I could see where it was going but we played along with him anyway.
Prior to this swinging or anything other than a monogamous sex life had never crossed our mind. But it kind of triggered something in us and led us to check out various online sites (with this being far and away the best, of course!).
We had some online fun with him (with no actual physical contact) but the whole thing fizzled out over time especially after him sending us some strange photos. |
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By *D24Couple 4 hours ago
Dublin |
We met here 14 years ago as singles. I'm bi so a long time since I'd been with another woman. Himself would bring it up now and again, big laugh all around and then move on. In the last 12 months, I had been getting intense urges for women. Spoke to the husband about it, and of course he was happy for me to explore, I'm happy for him to play with others, and to do it together. And here we are. We're still very new so finding our boundaries and comfort levels but it has been fun |
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