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Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
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"All I know is the term "daddy" gives me a cold shiver down my spine when I hear it.
Same here, real turn off tbh"
This! Don't get it at all. Last thing I want to be hearing about when we're up to no good 😂 |
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"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
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Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...  |
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Had a couple of messages last night from a lady giving out that I ripped into the OP with my comment. This lady who doesn't post in forums was in full Helen mode giving out about the forums and people who post. |
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"Had a couple of messages last night from a lady giving out that I ripped into the OP with my comment. This lady who doesn't post in forums was in full Helen mode giving out about the forums and people who post."
Is it not a Karen...never heard of a Helen |
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This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role and for the sub allows transferral of most power and decision-making and so can be very effective for sub play. It's not really what most people fear it is. |
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"Had a couple of messages last night from a lady giving out that I ripped into the OP with my comment. This lady who doesn't post in forums was in full Helen mode giving out about the forums and people who post.
Is it not a Karen...never heard of a Helen "
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This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.
This...
For me....with no parental issues or trauma... it's a recognition of their guiding hand, experience and my respect of them, when used in a power exchange relationship. I've had beautiful relationships in the past where I've consulted my "Daddy" on my career, professional development, relationship and life goals. My "Daddy" is usually mature, professional, extremely well educated and knowledgeable and its his life experience that lends me to affectionately call him "Daddy"
Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.
It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.
Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.
So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related
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"This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.
This...
For me....with no parental issues or trauma... it's a recognition of their guiding hand, experience and my respect of them, when used in a power exchange relationship. I've had beautiful relationships in the past where I've consulted my "Daddy" on my career, professional development, relationship and life goals. My "Daddy" is usually mature, professional, extremely well educated and knowledgeable and its his life experience that lends me to affectionately call him "Daddy"
Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.
It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.
Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.
So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related
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By *j47Man 3 days ago
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"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten... "
So how much are we talking 
Asking for a friend  |
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"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...
So how much are we talking
Asking for a friend "
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"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...
So how much are we talking
Asking for a friend "
Would depend on how hot daddy was 😂😂😂 |
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I’m a submissive with a Daddy Dom- but I’m also more kinkster than swinger. Probably not something that most swingers are really into. There is nothing as sexy as asking “Daddy, fill me”. Now the Marilyn Monroe documentary did give me the ick hearing her say Daddy all the time TBH, but she had Daddy issues. |
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As in my profile name I do love a bit of being called daddy. Not about an age thing at all it is just a very hot thing to hear. I like to gently be in control and let the boundaries look after themselves. |
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By *j47Man 2 days ago
limerick |
"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...
So how much are we talking
Asking for a friend
Ah howya daddy! "
Now that reminds me of Ash |
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By *j47Man 2 days ago
limerick |
"Term Daddy
Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.
Term Sugar daddy
a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.
And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build
Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...
So how much are we talking
Asking for a friend
Would depend on how hot daddy was 😂😂😂"
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"This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.
This...
For me....with no parental issues or trauma... it's a recognition of their guiding hand, experience and my respect of them, when used in a power exchange relationship. I've had beautiful relationships in the past where I've consulted my "Daddy" on my career, professional development, relationship and life goals. My "Daddy" is usually mature, professional, extremely well educated and knowledgeable and its his life experience that lends me to affectionately call him "Daddy"
Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.
It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.
Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.
So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related
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I had the same views about this as most here that dont understand it.
People think this is something it most definitely isn't.
I have experienced this lately and have to say when I knew before I did it and understood what it is about I really enjoy it.for me its a protective role minding and making sure she enjoys and get what she is looking for out of the situation. Its mostly built on trust.it is just two people in a dom sub relationship where the Dom is called Daddy instead of Sir and the punishment is less severe.
Maybe people should look it up and understand better before they kink shame and Diss what others are into.
Thank for reading my opinionated shite...
Lot of Love
Daddy xxx
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In BDSM/kink community a D/s relationship (Dom/sub) is very common and some are part time (kept in the bedroom only) or when the couple are together alone or within understanding arenas for example at kink events and socials. Some D/s is full time 24/7 and this is often called TPE (Total Power Exchange).
There is a sliding scale of types of discipline and styles. At its harshest the dynamic is baddie owner and willing degraded sl-ve. At its most caring it is Pleasure Dom and Princess. And everything in between.
Daddy fits in to that probably one up from Pleasure Dom. A Daddy (or even a MommyDom) will be a caring figure who puts their Sub at the centre of play. It is often Male Dom and Female Sub but not always. There may be an element of DDlg in it. Daddy Dom/little girl. This is age play but not to be confused with the 'p..o' word. Everyone has discussed and consented.
There is no coercion or abuse of a sub, because they really hold the power. They want to be submissive. They want to give up the adulting. They want someone to make them hot chocolate and change the tyre and put up with them acting in a bratty way that will get them spanked. They want the spanking.
Bratting is a whole sub category. The opposite of bratting is being good, compliant and well behaved. Some Doms are Brat Tamers, they love the back and forth challenge of a bratty sub, and they make firey couples who are a lot of fun to hang out with.
And all any person has to do is say 'stop' (or an agreed safe word) and it comes to an end.
Communication is key in D/s. Much deeper exploration of wants, desires, limits and boundaries than there is in vanilla relationships.
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Some women have no interest or knowledge of kink or Dom/sub dynamics at all and just like to say Yes Daddy when told their beimg a good girl because it's hot for them.
It's just another vibe. In my experience it's the more common one too but I'm not engaged with the the kink scene at all.
'Who's your daddy' is a joke with an edge that's very much in the mainstream and I think while it all has it's roots in kink it's come to the wide world via American porn.
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I don't think you necessarily need knowledge and understanding of BDSM in order to get that subby thrill that some get from this kind of thing. Oftentimes people don't really understand their own urges and just go with what feels good without the analysis. I think it's often rooted in the same stuff though |
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"I don't think you necessarily need knowledge and understanding of BDSM in order to get that subby thrill that some get from this kind of thing. Oftentimes people don't really understand their own urges and just go with what feels good without the analysis. I think it's often rooted in the same stuff though "
I agree that to start with you can with what feels natural. But then I think it's a good idea to do some research because it will be good inspiration and maybe even open the doors to more possibilities.
I also think it's good to know about certain red flags and how to learn to negotiate properly. But that can come in time if the couple wants to go down that route.
Fet is full of 22 year old Masters and fake Doms who say subs shouldn't have any boundaries. So education is important too.
Also D/s is generally within the context of a relationship and not pick up play due to the amount of trust needed. |
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I have a couple of suger babies who are in their mid twenties. We chat and I mentor them, buy them gifts etc and we are intimate, always on their terms. I really enjoy it, and presume they do too (or they wouldn't stay in touch). We have great fun. Well worth it! |
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