"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia?"
why should any of us have any preferences at all ?? We should all get together ans have a 10000 person orgy , no rules no preferences etc ..........,(sarcasm fully intended)
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By *og-ManMan 11 hours ago
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"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia? why should any of us have any preferences at all ?? We should all get together ans have a 10000 person orgy , no rules no preferences etc ..........,(sarcasm fully intended) "
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"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia? why should any of us have any preferences at all ?? We should all get together ans have a 10000 person orgy , no rules no preferences etc ..........,(sarcasm fully intended)
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By *og-ManMan 11 hours ago
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"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia?"
First of all everyone has preferences so there's that
Then some people have all the statistics to show bi men are dirty feckers riding anything with a hole
Then there's some people that just don't like big men but say they're not homophonic
And others just don't like bi men
You just have to find the ones that like or don't mind bi men
That's the fun of fab
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"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia?"
Homophobia is the hatred of people who are attracted to people of the same sex. That's not what this is.
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By *ustBoWoman 8 hours ago
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Ye it must be a homophonic if someone doesn't want to shag someone who is bi on here. If it's not that then it has to one of the many "ists" that people come out with on here when they aren't getting shagged on here.
Can't possibly be the fact they have a choice in who they want to meet just like everyone else on here for whatever reason. And it is a lot easier if people just move on and concentrate on those who they have a chance of meeting,rather than taking false offense at those who don't want to meet them.
If it is stated on their profile op than you know from the start it is going to go nowhere. So it's easy to just move on.
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People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!  |
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing! "
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis. |
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis. "
I do agree with this, but I've long since given up encouraging people here to dig more deeply into the reasons for this particular preference.
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis. "
Talking to a gay male last week and trying to explain how Fab is to him. I said it's not that Queer friendly and there is a double standard of expecting women to be Bi while still finding Bi men unacceptable.
I wish the users of this site were less heteronormative but there you go. There's not really a viable alternative.
We are both Bi and I'd also say even more aware of safe sex than the plethora of married people on here who don't even have a programme of testing. We also test every three months even if we have only shared oral with others.
I actually had a Bi-curious guy say to me that any male who uses the gay sauna was riddled. I know any in my circle who use the sauna are testing, and I'd guess the person coming out with this BS has never tested.
I just wish they'd let me in at the Gay Sauna. Watching gay guys play is one of my favourite things to do.
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis. "
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis.
Talking to a gay male last week and trying to explain how Fab is to him. I said it's not that Queer friendly and there is a double standard of expecting women to be Bi while still finding Bi men unacceptable.
I wish the users of this site were less heteronormative but there you go. There's not really a viable alternative.
We are both Bi and I'd also say even more aware of safe sex than the plethora of married people on here who don't even have a programme of testing. We also test every three months even if we have only shared oral with others.
I actually had a Bi-curious guy say to me that any male who uses the gay sauna was riddled. I know any in my circle who use the sauna are testing, and I'd guess the person coming out with this BS has never tested.
I just wish they'd let me in at the Gay Sauna. Watching gay guys play is one of my favourite things to do.
V (f)"
I agree with the above three posters and i've said before that I don’t believe it's simply a 'preference' in most cases despite people's protestations.
Gay/bi guys is my favourite porn category and hopefully some day I'll get to experience my first MMF. A woman can dream! Mrs |
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis.
Talking to a gay male last week and trying to explain how Fab is to him. I said it's not that Queer friendly and there is a double standard of expecting women to be Bi while still finding Bi men unacceptable.
I wish the users of this site were less heteronormative but there you go. There's not really a viable alternative.
We are both Bi and I'd also say even more aware of safe sex than the plethora of married people on here who don't even have a programme of testing. We also test every three months even if we have only shared oral with others.
I actually had a Bi-curious guy say to me that any male who uses the gay sauna was riddled. I know any in my circle who use the sauna are testing, and I'd guess the person coming out with this BS has never tested.
I just wish they'd let me in at the Gay Sauna. Watching gay guys play is one of my favourite things to do.
V (f)
I agree with the above three posters and i've said before that I don’t believe it's simply a 'preference' in most cases despite people's protestations.
Gay/bi guys is my favourite porn category and hopefully some day I'll get to experience my first MMF. A woman can dream! Mrs "
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"Just curious why so many women have "no bi men" in their profiles? Is it just homophobia?"
It's funny the ones that put that on the profile and you look at the veris to see that there are men you know are Bi there. |
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"People always get defensive when you point out that yes it is in fact prejudiced to rule out people because of who else they might have sex with. It might be "just a preference" but it is one born of biphobia and some people will never do the work to try to unpack that. Society as a whole is very hard on men who deviate from the heteronormative, and it is a lifelong process to try to unlearn the things you've internalised.
But having said that it goes both ways (lol). A lot of queer folks on here, myself included, won't meet men who aren't at least bicurious because we find heterosexuality (or worse, the pretense of it) a huge turn off.
The most important thing is to identify yourself as honestly as you can and accept the fact that this is going to narrow your net quite a bit. Try to see that as a positive thing!
Fully agree. Biphobia towards men is rampant on here while bi women are put on a pedestal.
Preferences are fine but when you dig down, a lot of the reasons people say they don’t want to meet bi men is because they’re afraid they’ll try to touch the male half (you’re not that irresistible love) or that they think bi men are riddled with stis.
Talking to a gay male last week and trying to explain how Fab is to him. I said it's not that Queer friendly and there is a double standard of expecting women to be Bi while still finding Bi men unacceptable.
I wish the users of this site were less heteronormative but there you go. There's not really a viable alternative.
We are both Bi and I'd also say even more aware of safe sex than the plethora of married people on here who don't even have a programme of testing. We also test every three months even if we have only shared oral with others.
I actually had a Bi-curious guy say to me that any male who uses the gay sauna was riddled. I know any in my circle who use the sauna are testing, and I'd guess the person coming out with this BS has never tested.
I just wish they'd let me in at the Gay Sauna. Watching gay guys play is one of my favourite things to do.
V (f)
I agree with the above three posters and i've said before that I don’t believe it's simply a 'preference' in most cases despite people's protestations.
Gay/bi guys is my favourite porn category and hopefully some day I'll get to experience my first MMF. A woman can dream! Mrs
I highly recommend"
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Because they dont want to. Simple really. At the end of the day we all have sexual and bodily autonomy in deciding who we do or dont sleep/share bodily fluids with etc. Their reasons are entirely their own and even if those reasons are as people have called them prejudiced, biphobic, bigoted, they are still entitled to decide who they want to sleep with and they dont have to explain/justify them to anyone including strangers on the interwebs. There are plenty who do want to meet bi men so concentrate on those. At the end of the day on Fab there is someone for everyone and not everyone is going be your cup of tea and vice versa. Just my rambling two cents |
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