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When you were happiest?
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For me it's right now. Had a great time through my teens,20,30sand 40s. Now I'm appreciating how life has been so good . I'm not rich, but can go on 3 or 4 holidays a year seeing places I could only dream of when younger. |
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My early twenties, house bought, loads of money, travelled loads, plenty of sex, no stress. 30s were the complete opposite but I feel I’m just back to the early twenties feel again now I’m through my divorce, and illness, and have good people around me again. Life is looking good |
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My 20's were exciting. Got married, travelled, had my kids, built our house.
30's kids were my priority
40's I was able to concentrate on my career.
50's kids grown up and left home, family caring duties.
Late 50's to date I am feeling most contented now. As the Badger says - No work stress, no financial worries, family sorted.....and still having fun.
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I lost my teens and 20s to being closeted, alcoholic, and suicidally depressed.
Today I'm sober, I have a roof over my head, and I'm living out and proud as a woman. I haven't got two pennies to rub together but I wake up grateful to be alive every morning. I'm happier than I've ever been by a long shot.  |
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I don't know the answer..
At the age of 19/20 life was carefree and most of the people I had known and loved all my life were all still alive. Sex was plentiful and everything about adult life was new, exciting and full of potential.
Now in my late fifties, a lot of people I loved are gone but new people that I love have appeared so it has balanced out.
No, I can't really say when I've been happiest. That bacon and egg roll a few minutes ago was spectacular though. |
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"I lost my teens and 20s to being closeted, alcoholic, and suicidally depressed.
Today I'm sober, I have a roof over my head, and I'm living out and proud as a woman. I haven't got two pennies to rub together but I wake up grateful to be alive every morning. I'm happier than I've ever been by a long shot. "
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I honestly don't care about happiness, we can't be happy all the time. What I try to focus on is being content and I'm at a point in life where I'm the most content I've been in a long time.
If your content the happy moments will come. |
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Different stages of happiness in my life
Birthdays,marriage,kids,work
I'm going to pick a day just for me that doesn't involve family
February 20th 1995
I was driving home roaring crying and then smiling after a meeting
20 years of hurt and pain and I started the fight back
I always said I'd try to do it before I was 30 and it was the day before my 30th birthday
Fuck me I was so happy that day
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What is happiness?
I think we have have points in our life when we happy. Don't think a person can be happy all the time.
I turned 50 last year and I finally feel content in my life, for the first time I'm learning to love myself as I am, not who I should be for other people.
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Different types of happiness. Momentary happiness of seeing your children's achievements or getting a promotion or payrise at work. Then there's longer term happiness you think back on when life was less pressured, going out not knowing or caring how you'd get home. Long days in the pub with friends you don't even get to see anymore. I remember a Summer approx 1995 living in the sticks and setting off thumbing with my friend every Friday and Saturday evening. We must have walked 200 or 300 miles that Summer hoping for lifts that often never came but I look back now and think how happy we were not having to be anywhere in particular. |
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By *astello OP Woman 3 days ago
Far far away |
It's amazing to recollect vividly those moments of happiness. It's important to connect with, even if it's fleeting. Some of the moments here are lovely thanks for sharing. Also being brave and acknowledging the good and the bad.
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By *evin86Man 3 days ago
South Dublin |
In an unexpected twist of fate, I encountered a woman who seemed to embody every quality I had ever hoped to find in a partner. Her beauty was captivating, her humor infectious, and her kindness touched my heart. Despite my previous skepticism about love at first sight, our meeting felt nothing short of magical.
I hadn't been actively seeking a relationship, yet we connected instantly and effortlessly. Our conversations flowed seamlessly for hours, covering a myriad of topics. The chemistry between us was palpable, extending to an intimate connection that felt truly special.
Although our time together lasted only two weeks, the impact of our brief encounter lingers. Even now, I find myself grappling with the emotions stirred by this fleeting yet profound experience. |
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No special era that stands out , totally enjoyed all my decades tbh ,always absolutely blessed to have the parents l had ,had a great childhood & growing up years , loved school, love my occupation, love my kids & healthy in mind & body , the 3 " H's " ... Healthy, Happy ,Horny ... everything else is a bonus. |
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Full of magic mushrooms walking through the woods one night , looking at the trees and the night creatures. Never even came close to it since. Although when your horse comes in up that Cheltenham hill, it's pretty close. |
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"In an unexpected twist of fate, I encountered a woman who seemed to embody every quality I had ever hoped to find in a partner. Her beauty was captivating, her humor infectious, and her kindness touched my heart. Despite my previous skepticism about love at first sight, our meeting felt nothing short of magical.
I hadn't been actively seeking a relationship, yet we connected instantly and effortlessly. Our conversations flowed seamlessly for hours, covering a myriad of topics. The chemistry between us was palpable, extending to an intimate connection that felt truly special.
Although our time together lasted only two weeks, the impact of our brief encounter lingers. Even now, I find myself grappling with the emotions stirred by this fleeting yet profound experience."
You say it was everything you ever wanted ..found it without really looking for it...& You say it only lasted 2 weeks ...was there a reason for that ..if it's ok to ask ? |
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"In an unexpected twist of fate, I encountered a woman who seemed to embody every quality I had ever hoped to find in a partner. Her beauty was captivating, her humor infectious, and her kindness touched my heart. Despite my previous skepticism about love at first sight, our meeting felt nothing short of magical.
I hadn't been actively seeking a relationship, yet we connected instantly and effortlessly. Our conversations flowed seamlessly for hours, covering a myriad of topics. The chemistry between us was palpable, extending to an intimate connection that felt truly special.
Although our time together lasted only two weeks, the impact of our brief encounter lingers. Even now, I find myself grappling with the emotions stirred by this fleeting yet profound experience.
You say it was everything you ever wanted ..found it without really looking for it...& You say it only lasted 2 weeks ...was there a reason for that ..if it's ok to ask ? "
The price of mutton went up so off to the abbatoir she had to go.
#goodwhileitlasted
#ahsurelook  |
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"In an unexpected twist of fate, I encountered a woman who seemed to embody every quality I had ever hoped to find in a partner. Her beauty was captivating, her humor infectious, and her kindness touched my heart. Despite my previous skepticism about love at first sight, our meeting felt nothing short of magical.
I hadn't been actively seeking a relationship, yet we connected instantly and effortlessly. Our conversations flowed seamlessly for hours, covering a myriad of topics. The chemistry between us was palpable, extending to an intimate connection that felt truly special.
Although our time together lasted only two weeks, the impact of our brief encounter lingers. Even now, I find myself grappling with the emotions stirred by this fleeting yet profound experience.
You say it was everything you ever wanted ..found it without really looking for it...& You say it only lasted 2 weeks ...was there a reason for that ..if it's ok to ask ?
The price of mutton went up so off to the abbatoir she had to go.
#goodwhileitlasted
#ahsurelook "
Ya just ruined it now |
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"In an unexpected twist of fate, I encountered a woman who seemed to embody every quality I had ever hoped to find in a partner. Her beauty was captivating, her humor infectious, and her kindness touched my heart. Despite my previous skepticism about love at first sight, our meeting felt nothing short of magical.
I hadn't been actively seeking a relationship, yet we connected instantly and effortlessly. Our conversations flowed seamlessly for hours, covering a myriad of topics. The chemistry between us was palpable, extending to an intimate connection that felt truly special.
Although our time together lasted only two weeks, the impact of our brief encounter lingers. Even now, I find myself grappling with the emotions stirred by this fleeting yet profound experience.
You say it was everything you ever wanted ..found it without really looking for it...& You say it only lasted 2 weeks ...was there a reason for that ..if it's ok to ask ?
The price of mutton went up so off to the abbatoir she had to go.
#goodwhileitlasted
#ahsurelook
Ya just ruined it now "
"That sheep was just resting in my account!" |
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By *evin86Man 3 days ago
South Dublin |
She was only out of a long term relationship, and I guess I just caught her on the rebound and after a few weeks she realized she was still hurting and was not ready for a relationship. I probably tried too hard to make it work, we're still friends now but nothing more 😔 Apologies for bringing the happiness thread to a low point, I almost regret posting my story now🙈 |
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"She was only out of a long term relationship, and I guess I just caught her on the rebound and after a few weeks she realized she was still hurting and was not ready for a relationship. I probably tried too hard to make it work, we're still friends now but nothing more 😔 Apologies for bringing the happiness thread to a low point, I almost regret posting my story now🙈 "
Not at all
It goes to prove that one man's happiness is another fabbers misery |
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By *ustBoWoman 3 days ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I honestly don't know probably early twenties when life was carefree for a while I didn't realise then how great it was though.
Life has many ups and downs. I've had great days and some awful ones too like everyone else. But to try and cherish the good days helps the bad ones go faster. Well hopefully anyhow I'm probably talking a load of rubbish as I'm tired . 😁 |
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Happiest when I crushed my enemies, seen them driven before me, and heard the lamentations of their women...
Nope, just kidding 
Happiest...
Dunno, careless summers spent lazing away on the morning sun, lying next to the sea gurgling between the rocks, smell of the pine trees, the background noise of hundreds of crickets... With a random sheep crossing across the blue fields of the sky...
The first gasp and splitter and cry of my first child?
The full moon in the sky surrounded by rutting deer?
Who knows... |
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For me 18-24…. Just everything was fun.. an adult but not really… fearless little responsibility and I had the most amazing sexually adventurous GF… we got up to all sorts… exciting and thrilling…
I’d love to rewind time and go there for a week….and enjoy every second of it x |
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If honest probably from 28 I started to feel happy. I was happy having my children before , but not happy with my life . Thr day I moved to Ireland I can honestly say I was happy. Everything chsmged that day |
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"Is there an era when you remember being the happiest? It was the noughties.
Prob my early 30s. Travelled extensively. Had money. Lots of laughter and no major stress.
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Guess it’s now
Travelled
Married
Built family home before things swirled otta control
Kids
Happy with job choices
Able to enjoy life now
Some people are under severe financial pressure due to the price of living
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By *om TangoMan 2 days ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
Think from my mid 20’s to 35 was at my happiest. Major down turn after that. Today I find myself single again and loving going to socials and meeting friends and new people. But I feel as if there is still something missing. I know what it is but if I’m honest I’m too afraid of going after it and I know I’m not ready to go after it. |
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