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By *om098 OP Couple 6 weeks ago
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Hi Fabbers,
So, when we joined we set my profile as "Bi curious " as I hadn't done much with girls, I've since had a meet with a girl and loved it.
Now I have no intention of being romanticly involved with a girl at all, but definitely enjoyed the sex.
Should my profile now say Bi sexual rather than curious?
Thanks in advance
Mollie xo |
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I think you could. After all you are bisexual not bi-romantic. I'm the same...sort of. I'm in a Het relationship and actually could see myself having a relationship with another female but right now I like the play partner model rather than a girlfriend (which my partner would support, if I wanted). But whatever you feel in your gut is right! |
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TBH , I think there isn't enough labels in the world to describe a person's sexuality or wants / needs ,
For me it's, stay away from labelling yourself, never put yourself in a box that can be catergorised, life is fluid in nature.
I know that's hard if your trying to put yourself outhere , but as long as your honest with prospectives I'm sure they will understand, if they don't they're not for you !@! |
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I think Op, if you did want to put a label on it, you could put bi sexual, I don't think it has to mean you would have relationships with girls. And fab being the site it is, sexual orientation is what people look at, initially if that is what they look for. If I would like to meet a woman, then no point chatting to the straight woman. |
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"Hi Fabbers,
So, when we joined we set my profile as "Bi curious " as I hadn't done much with girls, I've since had a meet with a girl and loved it.
Now I have no intention of being romanticly involved with a girl at all, but definitely enjoyed the sex.
Should my profile now say Bi sexual rather than curious?
Thanks in advance
Mollie xo"
I've always liked the Robyn Ochs definition of bisexuality: "The potential to be attracted — romantically and/or sexually — to people of more than one sex and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree."
As for where the line between the labels of bicurious and bisexual falls, that's an individual and deeply personal thing that only you can answer. Nobody else has the right to define your sexuality.  |
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"TBH , I think there isn't enough labels in the world to describe a person's sexuality or wants / needs , "
Yeah this is the thing. Sites like this can trick your brain into thinking that there are very clear and distinct lines between sexualities (and genders) when real life proves over and over again that people are so much messier than that. |
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By *dfabMan 3 weeks ago
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"Hi Fabbers,
So, when we joined we set my profile as "Bi curious " as I hadn't done much with girls, I've since had a meet with a girl and loved it.
Now I have no intention of being romanticly involved with a girl at all, but definitely enjoyed the sex.
Should my profile now say Bi sexual rather than curious?
Thanks in advance
Mollie xo"
Leave it as curious.
One swallow doesn't make a summer and the next bi encounter may not be so fabulous.
Also, fuck the labels!
You're just you.
A sexual person.
That's all  |
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"Hi Fabbers,
So, when we joined we set my profile as "Bi curious " as I hadn't done much with girls, I've since had a meet with a girl and loved it.
Now I have no intention of being
Leave it as curious.
One swallow doesn't make a summer and the next bi encounter may not be so fabulous.
Also, fuck the labels!
You're just you.
A sexual person.
That's all "
Well said, you're just you, enjoy the moments, don't worry about the labels.
Enjoy |
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