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By *adrq OP Man 2 weeks ago
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Just putting it out there has anybody have problems with attachment style problems in there personal life , i am suffering a lot from it, Would be very greatfull for imformation . as far as i know there is 4 types of attachment styles secure ambivalant avoident an disorganise |
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The theory is everyone has an attachment style, one is viewed as a healthy style and the other three are not. The only suggestion I can give you is that counselling is the only solution, to identify the childhoods trauma, discuss it and hopefully heal. Some therapies can provide coping mechanisms to help with particular behaviours which result from the childhood experiences. Good luck, I hope this is of some help |
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"Recently looked into this..
If you Google The Attachment Project there is a great quiz and some very interesting info there.
I'll take it. For science!
I'm sure mine is pretty fucked up 😂"
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"Recently looked into this..
If you Google The Attachment Project there is a great quiz and some very interesting info there.
I'll take it. For science!
I'm sure mine is pretty fucked up 😂
Seems accurate "
Yeah I found it very useful info. 😳
It's all about self learning and self care. The more you know the more you can be kinder to yourself. I wish I'd made more effort to learn about me before now 🤣 |
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The library with have books to borrow on attachment.
Google scholar has articles to
The origins of attachment theory: John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth
Attachment theory is the joint work of John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth (see Ainsworth and Bowlby, 1991). Drawing on concepts from ethology, cybernetics, information processing, developmental psychology, and psychoanalysis |
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"The book Polysecure has a lot of info about attachment styles and non monogamy. Swingers could find it useful as there's not many books that deal with non mono in particular. "
Thank you for that 👍💜 |
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"The book Polysecure has a lot of info about attachment styles and non monogamy. Swingers could find it useful as there's not many books that deal with non mono in particular.
Thank you for that 👍💜"
If you have Spotify and have premium the book is in audio format there |
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"The book Polysecure has a lot of info about attachment styles and non monogamy. Swingers could find it useful as there's not many books that deal with non mono in particular.
Thank you for that 👍💜
Found it and start listening tomorrow
If you have Spotify and have premium the book is in audio format there "
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"The book Polysecure has a lot of info about attachment styles and non monogamy. Swingers could find it useful as there's not many books that deal with non mono in particular.
Thank you for that 👍💜
Found it and start listening tomorrow
If you have Spotify and have premium the book is in audio format there "
Also available on audible |
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