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Have you ever paid for it
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" No. Without mutual attraction and lust why would anyone? Not for us." 100% agree with you guys. Not for us either. | |||
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"I never have never paid for it but came close to it a few times while in an unhealthy marriage. Therefore I don’t judge anyone that would pay for it. At the time all I wanted was to be held, hugged and kissed. Didn’t need the sex part. So I guess it would have been like going into a chip shop and asking for a salad. " That's exactly why I went for the Tantra massage I explained that I hadn't been held / touched in 8 years and that's what I missed most | |||
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"For me it would be company or physical contact like the previous poster said..." The problem I have is , how do you know the person hasn't been trafficked or forced into prostitution. It's not about a business transaction between two adults, it's the fact that it isn't between two adults, their are sinister forces behind it. | |||
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"For me it would be company or physical contact like the previous poster said... The problem I have is , how do you know the person hasn't been trafficked or forced into prostitution. It's not about a business transaction between two adults, it's the fact that it isn't between two adults, their are sinister forces behind it. " I would hope I would notice the difference between a terrified, dxxgged or broken person and a person who was sex positive and happy in their work. Abolishing outlawing policies and eradicating societal shanee would go a long way towards helping the trafficked souls. | |||
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"I've always held a bit of a fantasy to be paid for it.. 🫣 that someone would "own" me for a time & I would have to succumb to their every desire is hor AF to me. But have never had the balls to pursue the fantasy... But realise I'm in a privileged position & acting that scenario would be much different than if I were forced die to trafficking or hardship. Delilah 😚" My male partner has a fantasy that I rent his ass out as a Domme. Although he'll accept me renting his mouth out as well. We did seriously look into it but it's so hard to set up safely. | |||
"I've always held a bit of a fantasy to be paid for it.. 🫣 that someone would "own" me for a time & I would have to succumb to their every desire is hor AF to me. But have never had the balls to pursue the fantasy... But realise I'm in a privileged position & acting that scenario would be much different than if I were forced die to trafficking or hardship. Delilah 😚" Similar fantasies here! | |||
"In a controlled legal environment I'm all for it. I think people would be far more mentally and physically healthier if they got the odd ride. I also think people with disabilities would benefit too. I'm not talking about the vulnerable in our communities I'm taking about safe, sane and consensual sex between adults. Everyone has needs. Intimacy is important. " Well said. This  | |||
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"I've always held a bit of a fantasy to be paid for it.. 🫣 that someone would "own" me for a time & I would have to succumb to their every desire is hor AF to me. But have never had the balls to pursue the fantasy... But realise I'm in a privileged position & acting that scenario would be much different than if I were forced die to trafficking or hardship. Delilah 😚 Similar fantasies here!" Oh... let me know if u ever manage to fulfill it. | |||
"I've always held a bit of a fantasy to be paid for it.. 🫣 that someone would "own" me for a time & I would have to succumb to their every desire is hor AF to me. But have never had the balls to pursue the fantasy... But realise I'm in a privileged position & acting that scenario would be much different than if I were forced die to trafficking or hardship. Delilah 😚" I used to have a fantasy of a woman running up to me on a nude beach while calling my name and giving me a hug  | |||
"As the saying goes…… “The cheapest ride, is the one you pay for”" Could be the most expensive ride too!!!
And No!! | |||
"I've always held a bit of a fantasy to be paid for it.. 🫣 that someone would "own" me for a time & I would have to succumb to their every desire is hor AF to me. But have never had the balls to pursue the fantasy... But realise I'm in a privileged position & acting that scenario would be much different than if I were forced die to trafficking or hardship. Delilah 😚 I used to have a fantasy of a woman running up to me on a nude beach while calling my name and giving me a hug "Ahhh.... imagine someone doing that 😀😆😀 & may I say, ur a lovely hugger 🤣😂🥰 | |||
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"I’ve always wanted to be payed (but I know it will never happen) just something kinky and slutty that I love mrmmm " Expect million messages lol | |||
"I’ve always wanted to be payed (but I know it will never happen) just something kinky and slutty that I love mrmmm Expect million messages lol " Says the first person to message 👀 | |||
"I personally never have but it's something that has crossed my mind ..if there was a situation like some country's that have leaglaised prostitution. Or a independent person that was not being exploited ...loneliness As single male is tough...just wondering what people's thoughts are feel free to dm .." I was offered money to get her pregnant | |||
...it was in the days of fit ladies on the streets of Dublin.. I'm sure there's a few fantasies around the whole idea | |||
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 I've never had to pay for it. Mr. Couple uncut gets rewards if he's a good boy but no money is exchanged, only body fluids  | |||
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"Always gonna be a subject that everyone has different takes on it , 2 scenarios .. Scenario 1 l know a guy who took this stunner out , taxi , meal ,drinks , nightclub , more drinks,taxi back ,walked her to her part door ..got a peck on the cheek & goodnight..over all cost him a few euro for a peck on the cheek , didn't get laid Scenario 2 , a guy goes online ,scazzing through a certain website , sees an independent stunner , makes a phone call , everything sorted , has a brilliant time in everyway, & cost way less than the guy in Scenario 1. So ? ..in the general run of things which do you think had the better scenario ?..🤔🤔" That would depend on expectation wouldn't it? If he expected sex with someone just because he had plied her with drinks all night and fed her I would be questioning his attitude. I've no issue with scenario 2. | |||
"Always gonna be a subject that everyone has different takes on it , 2 scenarios .. Scenario 1 l know a guy who took this stunner out , taxi , meal ,drinks , nightclub , more drinks,taxi back ,walked her to her part door ..got a peck on the cheek & goodnight..over all cost him a few euro for a peck on the cheek , didn't get laid Scenario 2 , a guy goes online ,scazzing through a certain website , sees an independent stunner , makes a phone call , everything sorted , has a brilliant time in everyway, & cost way less than the guy in Scenario 1. So ? ..in the general run of things which do you think had the better scenario ?..🤔🤔" Just because your friend in scenario 1 spent money taking a girl out, doesn't mean that the girl is obliged to pay him back with sex. Many men will try to pay for everything specifically in order to make her feel like she owes something. Also I wonder was he truthful about just wanting sex, or was there some hope on her side that this might be dating with a mind to begin a relationship. This is where fab is great because both people can be upfront that they are looking for sex without manipulation or pretending to be looking for a relationship in order to get their hole. In scenario 2 at least he is honest about his expectations from the girl, but he really has no way of knowing if she has been coerced or forced into these services, and is having to give up the lions share of the money to a pimp who is arranging for her to have sex with 20men each day in return for protection / drugs he got her hooked on / transport to here from eastern Europe. I know that's not the case for everyone, but how can a guy really know. This is an ethical minefield. | |||
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"I knew some guys in Spain that befriended some South American h@#kers that worked in the local knocking shop. Those guys brought the girls for dinner and drinks regularly and had all the benefits of paying customers but just by treating the ladies well. The sex part after dinner happens organically,it's part of the dance. People flirt ,have a few drinks and get ti know each other. If it happens it happens. A good restaurant and a few drinks will cost you more that a visit to one of the sex workers , but you get something else , and are only guaranteed a date. . . This cavan man drives up to a street walking h@#ker on Benburb street , winds the window down and asks "how much for a handjob?" The lady says , "€25, do you want one?". To which he replies, "nah, I just wanted to know how much money I save every time I do it myself". " She’s on the brown 25€ is to cheap | |||
"Always gonna be a subject that everyone has different takes on it , 2 scenarios .. Scenario 1 l know a guy who took this stunner out , taxi , meal ,drinks , nightclub , more drinks,taxi back ,walked her to her part door ..got a peck on the cheek & goodnight..over all cost him a few euro for a peck on the cheek , didn't get laid Scenario 2 , a guy goes online ,scazzing through a certain website , sees an independent stunner , makes a phone call , everything sorted , has a brilliant time in everyway, & cost way less than the guy in Scenario 1. So ? ..in the general run of things which do you think had the better scenario ?..🤔🤔 Just because your friend in scenario 1 spent money taking a girl out, doesn't mean that the girl is obliged to pay him back with sex. Many men will try to pay for everything specifically in order to make her feel like she owes something. Also I wonder was he truthful about just wanting sex, or was there some hope on her side that this might be dating with a mind to begin a relationship. This is where fab is great because both people can be upfront that they are looking for sex without manipulation or pretending to be looking for a relationship in order to get their hole. In scenario 2 at least he is honest about his expectations from the girl, but he really has no way of knowing if she has been coerced or forced into these services, and is having to give up the lions share of the money to a pimp who is arranging for her to have sex with 20men each day in return for protection / drugs he got her hooked on / transport to here from eastern Europe. I know that's not the case for everyone, but how can a guy really know. This is an ethical minefield." Scenario 1 was he probably thought ,as you rightly pointed out , that she owed him something, l think he had a hidden agenda, but obviously she had no interest in him , maybe she just took him for what he could give materialistic , either way it didn't happen , hopefully the lesson was learned, l personally think if a lady is gonna fuck you she doesn't need to be wined & dined, there's a connection that all the wining & dining will never reach . | |||
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"I personally never have but it's something that has crossed my mind ..if there was a situation like some country's that have leaglaised prostitution. Or a independent person that was not being exploited ...loneliness As single male is tough...just wondering what people's thoughts are feel free to dm .." I've never paid for it yet... but what will happen in the future 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ who knows... never say never | |||
