"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about. "
There are plenty of members, men and women, who use fab as a hook up site.
You might not like it but it’s a simple fact and you don’t get to tell other people how to use the site. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about. "
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about. "
Fab is many different things to many different people and no one should be getting shouted down.
'Swinging' if you want to get pedantic about it is a couples activity. You can't be swinger if your single or cheating on your partner.
Seriously though there's plenty of people on fab that are riding all around them and don't give a fuck about the 'lifestyle'.
And if fab was defined by it's largest use it's a porn site.
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Fab is many different things to many different people and no one should be getting shouted down.
'Swinging' if you want to get pedantic about it is a couples activity. You can't be swinger if your single or cheating on your partner.
Seriously though there's plenty of people on fab that are riding all around them and don't give a fuck about the 'lifestyle'.
And if fab was defined by it's largest use it's a porn site.
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I have to agree about it being a porn site.
The site may have started as a swingers site, but as internet and apps have become more popular, it's expanded itself to include singles, the fab pic section and webcams. It probably had to, to stay relevant.
The amount of people on the webcams just watching is huge compared to those who actually broadcast. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about. "
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By *om TangoMan 3 weeks ago
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
How is OP using the site any differently to you? You're both single men and both here for the same thing. "
Oh please don’t think because I’m a single fella that I want to fuck lady’s like a piece of meat. I’m here getting involved in the community, going to socials, meeting new people, making new friends, being there to help others, making new connections and learning to grow within myself. I’ve build up some really good friendships over the pass year and at long last I’m loving life again. Please do not think as a single fella I’m here just for sex. I’m here to show respect and to earn respect within the wonderful community. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
How is OP using the site any differently to you? You're both single men and both here for the same thing.
Oh please don’t think because I’m a single fella that I want to fuck lady’s like a piece of meat. I’m here getting involved in the community, going to socials, meeting new people, making new friends, being there to help others, making new connections and learning to grow within myself. I’ve build up some really good friendships over the pass year and at long last I’m loving life again. Please do not think as a single fella I’m here just for sex. I’m here to show respect and to earn respect within the wonderful community. "
You make it sound as though it's only men who use the site to hook up.
There are lots of women and couples who have zero interest in networking, going to socials or even chatting for any length of time.
They are only here for sex and state it clearly on their profiles and in their forum comments.
Like I said above, this is not a lifestyle choice for me and I have no interest in being part of a community but that doesn't mean I treat anyone like a piece of meat.
Criticising those who don't aspire to your fab ideals really just highlights one of the reasons that many don't want to join a community that dictates their choices. |
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By *ustBoWoman 3 weeks ago
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
How is OP using the site any differently to you? You're both single men and both here for the same thing.
Oh please don’t think because I’m a single fella that I want to fuck lady’s like a piece of meat. I’m here getting involved in the community, going to socials, meeting new people, making new friends, being there to help others, making new connections and learning to grow within myself. I’ve build up some really good friendships over the pass year and at long last I’m loving life again. Please do not think as a single fella I’m here just for sex. I’m here to show respect and to earn respect within the wonderful community. "
And so what there are a lot of people on here of with genders who are the same as you and just as many who don't want to go to socials etc. The site is for whatever anyone wants it to be. Plenty of men don't use women on here as pieces of meat just because they don't get involved in social aspect means bugger all.
There are plenty of people who use fab as a hook up site and that is fine and not up to anyone else to dictate to others how they should use the site.
This isn't the first time you have gone after a single man posting a thread looking to meet someone. And to be honest it's not a good look to go on the attack all the time. And makes you look quite the opposite of what you claim you to be on here. Yes it's good you're enjoying your journey but maybe stop trying to dictate to others what they should be should according to you and let others enjoy their journey their own way.
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more. "
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive. "
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site."
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
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It's a fair suggestion. Maybe fab should have a better way of allowing people to tag their profile with how they categorise themselves and what they are looking for and allow searching on that basis |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site.
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
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I didn't see any explaining going on which is why a number of people have challenged what was said. Nothing odd about my response at all.
It was an aggressive dismissal of the op which was uncalled for and is the complete opposite of a welcoming inclusive lifestyle.
If fab we're to separate anything on here it would leave it very difficult for couples such as yourselves to meet any singles because obviously the definition of swingers does not cover singles and therefore they would only ever be allowed to hook up. |
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It really should be less complicated than it is sometimes.
1. Person or people are interested in some sexual activity or activities and want to find a person or people who want the same and they have an attraction to.
2. A swinger website allows people to advertise their sexual wants, physical descriptions and photos with a verification process for additional security.
3. Those people who are mutually attracted to each other and have same sexual wants contact each other directly and fulfil what ever they are comfortable doing together.
Who gives a shit if people want to be part of the community or do not want to be part of a community?
Life can be made alot more easier without the additional drama or what we say in the business, non value adds 👍 |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site.
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
I didn't see any explaining going on which is why a number of people have challenged what was said. Nothing odd about my response at all.
It was an aggressive dismissal of the op which was uncalled for and is the complete opposite of a welcoming inclusive lifestyle.
If fab we're to separate anything on here it would leave it very difficult for couples such as yourselves to meet any singles because obviously the definition of swingers does not cover singles and therefore they would only ever be allowed to hook up. "
Genuinely confused here, did you not say earlier that you are not part of any lifestyle yet you are now telling us what constitutes a welcoming and inclusive lifestyle?
A huge number of the single people on here are quite obviously part of the lifestyle and this is prove by their profile info and verifications. We are already fortunate to have met some.
Also separating hook up guys looking for singles would make life easier for us because it would stop them PM'ing us directly. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site.
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
I didn't see any explaining going on which is why a number of people have challenged what was said. Nothing odd about my response at all.
It was an aggressive dismissal of the op which was uncalled for and is the complete opposite of a welcoming inclusive lifestyle.
If fab we're to separate anything on here it would leave it very difficult for couples such as yourselves to meet any singles because obviously the definition of swingers does not cover singles and therefore they would only ever be allowed to hook up.
Genuinely confused here, did you not say earlier that you are not part of any lifestyle yet you are now telling us what constitutes a welcoming and inclusive lifestyle?
A huge number of the single people on here are quite obviously part of the lifestyle and this is prove by their profile info and verifications. We are already fortunate to have met some.
Also separating hook up guys looking for singles would make life easier for us because it would stop them PM'ing us directly. "
I can confirm that I'm not part of any fab or swinging related lifestyle but if you want people to join any lifestyle you don't start by telling them that anyone not in the lifestyle or don't attend socials are just here to treat people like pieces of meat.
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site.
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
I didn't see any explaining going on which is why a number of people have challenged what was said. Nothing odd about my response at all.
It was an aggressive dismissal of the op which was uncalled for and is the complete opposite of a welcoming inclusive lifestyle.
If fab we're to separate anything on here it would leave it very difficult for couples such as yourselves to meet any singles because obviously the definition of swingers does not cover singles and therefore they would only ever be allowed to hook up.
Genuinely confused here, did you not say earlier that you are not part of any lifestyle yet you are now telling us what constitutes a welcoming and inclusive lifestyle?
A huge number of the single people on here are quite obviously part of the lifestyle and this is prove by their profile info and verifications. We are already fortunate to have met some.
Also separating hook up guys looking for singles would make life easier for us because it would stop them PM'ing us directly.
I can confirm that I'm not part of any fab or swinging related lifestyle but if you want people to join any lifestyle you don't start by telling them that anyone not in the lifestyle or don't attend socials are just here to treat people like pieces of meat.
Sounds very judgemental to me. It's simple. Nothing to be confused about. "
Who said that people in the lifestyle want single guys looking for hook ups with single girls to join?
Bizarre assumption to make given that you are not part of this lifestyle and have no wish to be. |
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
Not the first time you've said that. I've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle.
This is a hobby, nothing more.
FabSwingers is a community space designed for swingers, fine if you personally don't describe yourself as a 'swinger' but that's why a huge number of couples and singles have signed up and pay their membership.
There are plenty of other sites for horny singles looking to hook up with similar singles.
If someone is singles and successfully use the site to meet other singles then good for them but nobody can say that Fabs main purpose is not aimed at the swingers community.
The problem here is that many of these guys will be sending messages to couples profiles, 100% directed at the female, ignoring their profile preferences and sometimes being abusive.
I'm struggling to understand where I made any suggestion otherwise?
Every time a thread starts about what it means to be a swinger, the vast majority of responses from single men and women and quite a few couples also is that they would never describe themselves as swingers.
I've no wish to join any other site regardless of what it may offer. I've been on fab for many years and I've no plans on changing my approach because over all those years most of the people I've met and chatted to have exactly the same opinion as my own.
I'm also part of a fab couple and the same rules apply. As a couple, we have zero interest in networking or in telling others how they should be using the site.
You literally said "i've no wish to educate myself about the lifestyle or to take part in any lifestyle", that's absolutely fine.
But it's kinda odd that you should reply like that to a guy who is explaining to a single hook up guy what fab is here for.
Fine, we get it, you are not in the so called lifestyle, you are not swingers but many of us pay our membership to be part of fabsswingers community.
Maybe Fab should separate hook up /singles from swingers lifestyle members.
I didn't see any explaining going on which is why a number of people have challenged what was said. Nothing odd about my response at all.
It was an aggressive dismissal of the op which was uncalled for and is the complete opposite of a welcoming inclusive lifestyle.
If fab we're to separate anything on here it would leave it very difficult for couples such as yourselves to meet any singles because obviously the definition of swingers does not cover singles and therefore they would only ever be allowed to hook up.
Genuinely confused here, did you not say earlier that you are not part of any lifestyle yet you are now telling us what constitutes a welcoming and inclusive lifestyle?
A huge number of the single people on here are quite obviously part of the lifestyle and this is prove by their profile info and verifications. We are already fortunate to have met some.
Also separating hook up guys looking for singles would make life easier for us because it would stop them PM'ing us directly.
I can confirm that I'm not part of any fab or swinging related lifestyle but if you want people to join any lifestyle you don't start by telling them that anyone not in the lifestyle or don't attend socials are just here to treat people like pieces of meat.
Sounds very judgemental to me. It's simple. Nothing to be confused about.
Who said that people in the lifestyle want single guys looking for hook ups with single girls to join?
Bizarre assumption to make given that you are not part of this lifestyle and have no wish to be. "
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This whole debate seems crazy if you arent interested in single men block them, same with single women or couples.
Having been in both single profile and couple profile yes there are messages that are vile but am I the only one that's gotten some of my worst messages from couples? I highly doubt I am
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"This whole debate seems crazy if you arent interested in single men block them, same with single women or couples.
Having been in both single profile and couple profile yes there are messages that are vile but am I the only one that's gotten some of my worst messages from couples? I highly doubt I am
Live and let live, fab and let fab "
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The site owners are the ones that decide who can or cannot join.
Site members/subscribers have no control over who can participate other than to use the filter/reporting/blocking tools available on the site.
Fabswingers is mearly a website and is open to all adults as long as they obey the site rules. Despite its title is not a "club" the use of which is exclusively confined to swingers.
Eliminating singles and or cheaters would immediately make it more difficult if not impossible for couples to find that elusive unicorn.
If someone wishes to use the site as an exclusive "swingers only" platform the existing filters allow them to do so.
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I've had a bit of a learning curve. I did think it was a Swingers site. It's generally known that it is a swingers site. Also it has the word Swinger in it.
So with a lot of naivety I went in thinking that everyone here was also a swinger, that they were ethical, in open relationships/poly/enm OR if single, genuinely Divorced, Separated or between committed relationships.
Seeing the massive amount of clearly married but cheating men is really disappointing.
This should not be a hook up site. But it is used as such. And it won't be stopped. All those silver and gold memberships are too valuable to the owners.
So the onus is on each individual user to curate who they interact with.
I've developed a bit of a Fab 'thick skin'. The messages from single men that used to leave me distressed no longer upset me. It HAS made me quite defensive though and then when someone genuinely good comes in to the inbox, I am not always as welcoming as I would once have been. Which is off putting for them. So a catch 22.
But still I'm of the opinion now that it's up to individual users to navigate this and block and use filters to help them. FabSwingers is a tool, not the lifestyle itself.
I do consider myself a Swinger and I do involve myself at community level (but don't consider that as an essential step to be a swinger) and I hope to enjoy the lifestyle as long as these bones hold me up. I'll maybe find some old codger in the nursing home to feed little blue pills to. He'd be a widower by then, so at least actually single!
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I've been on a bit of a learning curve also. Ive always been very swinger-focussed on here, but this place is more are more also about singles (married and unmarried). I've definitely more sympathy now with those who are looking to find what they perhaps can't get at home. |
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"I've been on a bit of a learning curve also. Ive always been very swinger-focussed on here, but this place is more are more also about singles (married and unmarried). I've definitely more sympathy now with those who are looking to find what they perhaps can't get at home."
I'm afraid I don't. I can't support cheating in any capacity. But I will filter that out myself. |
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By *ingetMan 2 weeks ago
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"Is a swingers site for real swingers that understand the lifestyle. Not a hook up site for a quick fuck. Try educating yourself what the lifestyle is about.
There are plenty of members, men and women, who use fab as a hook up site.
Well said.
You might not like it but it’s a simple fact and you don’t get to tell other people how to use the site. "
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Says a guy, who has status that "looking for FWB" isn't that the same thing I just said in here? That's a little hypocrite to say my forum post is wrong but its alright having same thing written on the profile as status ... just saying |
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"Says a guy, who has status that "looking for FWB" isn't that the same thing I just said in here? That's a little hypocrite to say my forum post is wrong but its alright having same thing written on the profile as status ... just saying "
You have opened a can of worms with this thread OP. You will find the forums can sometimes be a bit daunting. Good luck to you buddy.  |
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"I guess this is the wrong thread to ask if anyone fancies bein my valentine 🤣🙏
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I think it's all fair game in here. Go for your life mate, what's the worst that can happen ? |
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