I think they should be taken with a pinch of salt. It's frustrating that a lot of them are similar but having written them I can see how there's only so many things you can write about a coffee meet that went well. It proves that the person has been active in the scene. It's interesting to see if they are into the bigger party scene or not. For single profiles it can indicate who is really single or not. |
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I read veris in terms of the writer rather than the person being verified. I think it reflects the well on them if they make the effort to write something unique about the person/couple. If they tend to do this with multiple veris for different people then i take this as a really good sign.
Conversely when I read the same drivel written over and over and with clichés galore, I don't feel it reflects very well in the writer. But I try not to judge when I haven't met them in person. Mrs. |
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Doesn't really matter what your opinion is on veris , some parties just won’t let unverified people onto guest list , simple as that.
But at the same , guys can be complete dicks at an event yet still get a decent veri so take them with a grain of salt |
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Verifications are like every other part of the fab journey. The first step is the hardest.🚶♂️
They are also like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are going to get. 🍬
And like socks and jocks you can never have enough nice ones.🧦
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I like to read them. Often what isn't said speaks volumes. And lots are just for show anyway. It is difficult to write them when you hardly met a person and sometimes harder if you know the person too well. |
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By * VaWoman 1 day ago
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"I read veris in terms of the writer rather than the person being verified. I think it reflects the well on them if they make the effort to write something unique about the person/couple. If they tend to do this with multiple veris for different people then i take this as a really good sign.
Conversely when I read the same drivel written over and over and with clichés galore, I don't feel it reflects very well in the writer. But I try not to judge when I haven't met them in person. Mrs."
Gotta mention the graveyard right? |
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Haven't seen a verification yet that encouraged me to meet someone but I've seen lots that have put me off.
The content is irrelevant but who they are written by has more significance and helps me avoid the Fab Amateur Dramatic Society.
Over the years I've seen people verified as lovely, amazing, trustworthy and friends for life by others who have warned me off them claiming in private they are hideous, dangerous and not to be trusted.
It's all part of the sleight of hand. |
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Well , it’s a little like vanilla checkup . It’s an island where everyone could be anyone’s cousin if you are not a foreign blow in . If you meet someone in vanilla life everyone checks up what sort of mutual acquaintances you have or even relatives to evaluate what you can tell without fear the story comes back to you enriched from an unexpected corner
If you are lucky to have a party invite there is a mutual checkup of those veris to see whether there are mutual acquaintances . And if so it builds confidence and trust into the party attendees that matters will be treated with discretion.  |
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I think they put me off more than anything. If I see someone with 108 veris I wouldn’t go near them. If they are mostly social veris, they aren’t for me as I’m here for sex not a new bestie, and then if the people who give them veris are people I don’t really like then I won’t meet with them because of their choice of fuck mate. Just my opinion, don’t come for me please  |
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I got a fantastic verification from someone I never met, let alone danced the night away with. We were at the same social event but we never so much as seen each other. I blocked them.
I like reading verifications. I think they can help with the bigger picture about the type they're attracted to or their friend circle or if they're currently meeting/socialising and the type of experience they like ie coffee, 1:1, group/party or socials.
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"I got a fantastic verification from someone I never met, let alone danced the night away with. We were at the same social event but we never so much as seen each other. I blocked them.
I like reading verifications. I think they can help with the bigger picture about the type they're attracted to or their friend circle or if they're currently meeting/socialising and the type of experience they like ie coffee, 1:1, group/party or socials.
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I got one a few years ago from a woman I said hello to at a fab social and the verification said she really enjoyed all the kisses and she looked forward to taking up my offer of an hotel meet.
No idea who she thought she was verifying.
I also received one on a previous profile from a man claiming he was at an event I attended. He verified 5 or 6 others but nobody had any idea who he was and he definitely wasn't at the event which only had 20 attendees.
That was bad enough but he verified me as a very sexy lady and he looked forward to having more fun together. 😳 |
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"I think they should be taken with a pinch of salt. It's frustrating that a lot of them are similar but having written them I can see how there's only so many things you can write about a coffee meet that went well. It proves that the person has been active in the scene. It's interesting to see if they are into the bigger party scene or not. For single profiles it can indicate who is really single or not. "
It is very important but sometimes very hard to get. If there were more open swinging bars or places to meet people here it’ll be easier.
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Have been let down plenty of times by single men with seemingly good veris. It's just one tool in the arsenal and can be helpful in ing out the more obvious timewasters, but it takes time to develop a good gut instinct that you can trust. I'm evidently not there yet!  |
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"I think they should be taken with a pinch of salt. It's frustrating that a lot of them are similar but having written them I can see how there's only so many things you can write about a coffee meet that went well. It proves that the person has been active in the scene. It's interesting to see if they are into the bigger party scene or not. For single profiles it can indicate who is really single or not.
It is very important but sometimes very hard to get. If there were more open swinging bars or places to meet people here it’ll be easier.
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Plenty of socials happening every weekend. Have you tried those? |
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"I read veris in terms of the writer rather than the person being verified. I think it reflects the well on them if they make the effort to write something unique about the person/couple. If they tend to do this with multiple veris for different people then i take this as a really good sign.
Conversely when I read the same drivel written over and over and with clichés galore, I don't feel it reflects very well in the writer. But I try not to judge when I haven't met them in person. Mrs.
Gotta mention the graveyard right?"
That's exactly what I meant by 'unique'  |
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I used to think that veris were kinda pointless because you'll never read a bad one since nobody will display it.
I suppose though you can dive in a little deeper into veris , so if I'm interested or if someone shows interest, veris can help to paint a more descriptive picture depending on how deep you dive into them. What they've said and what the other party has said, who else they've met , how many socials ,parties and so on.
It's just another tool in the box in the quest for compatability as good knows were not all the same but some of us like the same things. |
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