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i know my wife is multi orgasmic.
But is this uncommon?
Id love to know ladies and gents, without giving too much away,have you come across someone that is able to climax multiple times?
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I picked up being Multi-orgasmic at the ripe old age of 49. A combination of knowing my body better than ever, having the right (and amazing) partner, and putting to rest some of my body insecurities because he makes me feel sexy, attractive and accepted.
I've turned from someone who used to say 'don't worry, I find it tricky to get there' to literally last week my partner stimulated me and counted out 80, and I could have done a few more but I was tired. Tonight I've had 6, and every time we have sex I cum in the first minute. I can cum from nipple stimulation alone. I have also cum from bring hit on the bum with Impact Play alone. So I'd say sex gets better the older you get. I just wish I knew how to do this when I was hot and slim.
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By *dfabMan 7 days ago
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80!!
Is this tingles or orgasms?
If the latter, you must have been grinning like the proverbial Cheshire Cat but absolutely knackered
Still, fantastic to hear of someone enjoying playtime so wonderfully.
A previous gf was able to cum within about 3mins and that would continue then about every 5-10mins for an hour or two. Was exceptionally gratifying and mutually enjoyable experience being with her.
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I seem to have found the multiorgasmic button with my guy.. or should I say he has…
And similarly to previous poster it’s due to a combination of him putting in the effort to get to know my body and finding what works, making me feel sexy and adored and complete acceptance of me for me.
It’s wonderful… |
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"I seem to have found the multiorgasmic button with my guy.. or should I say he has…
And similarly to previous poster it’s due to a combination of him putting in the effort to get to know my body and finding what works, making me feel sexy and adored and complete acceptance of me for me.
It’s wonderful…"
This👆 |
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For me, multiples were a neat side effect of being on SSRIs. So long as my partner kept going, so would my orgasms. I've been off antidepressants completely now for about a year but the multiples hung around...not as many, but I'm not complaining |
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By *dfabMan 7 days ago
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"I think most women can cum more than once in a session. Not all though - and occasionally some will struggle to cum even once. There a lot of factors that can effect it."
Yes, agreed, mostly to do with how relaxed the male can ensure and confirm the situation is for the woman I think. So she is comfortable in releasing any inhibitions and enjoy the moment and the release |
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Firstly a big thank you to all contributors for taking the time to comment.
I our case also it's only been in the last few years that my wife has discovered just what I'd been trying to achieve for her for years.
Just like others orgasm is achieved within a minute or so and multiple times thereafter, proper leg tremblers not weak or short lived ones. Most achieved in a two hour session is, for us, seventeen. For a 30 minute quickie is usually 6 to 8.
The biggest change in our sex life that brought this all about was me taking over in the bedroom, and many other places too, and giving orders and demanding orgasm. With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Now we have quite a collection of costumes and some major accessories.
I do believe most women can achieve this level of satisfaction if with the right partner and more importantly the right mindset themselves.
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It's very common in some women, well mostly women over early 30s or after when they've known their body well and understand what gets them excited and aroused. I have a friend who had 54 orgasms in a night( sadly not with me, not that many anyways ) but yeah it happens when the partner or the person knows the body and know what they are doing, you can get multiple orgasms by denying orgasm and teasing as well, building up tension and make them really crave for it helps. |
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"I picked up being Multi-orgasmic at the ripe old age of 49. A combination of knowing my body better than ever, having the right (and amazing) partner, and putting to rest some of my body insecurities because he makes me feel sexy, attractive and accepted.
I've turned from someone who used to say 'don't worry, I find it tricky to get there' to literally last week my partner stimulated me and counted out 80, and I could have done a few more but I was tired. Tonight I've had 6, and every time we have sex I cum in the first minute. I can cum from nipple stimulation alone. I have also cum from bring hit on the bum with Impact Play alone. So I'd say sex gets better the older you get. I just wish I knew how to do this when I was hot and slim.
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Girl u are very hot 😘 |
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"Firstly a big thank you to all contributors for taking the time to comment.
I our case also it's only been in the last few years that my wife has discovered just what I'd been trying to achieve for her for years.
Just like others orgasm is achieved within a minute or so and multiple times thereafter, proper leg tremblers not weak or short lived ones. Most achieved in a two hour session is, for us, seventeen. For a 30 minute quickie is usually 6 to 8.
The biggest change in our sex life that brought this all about was me taking over in the bedroom, and many other places too, and giving orders and demanding orgasm. With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Now we have quite a collection of costumes and some major accessories.
I do believe most women can achieve this level of satisfaction if with the right partner and more importantly the right mindset themselves.
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Urgh and then you go and spoil it by inferring that not having multiple orgasms is like some higher achievement to be unlocked, and that having a single orgasm is less satisfying; worse still, that a woman's mindset is to blame if she's not having them |
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"Firstly a big thank you to all contributors for taking the time to comment.
I our case also it's only been in the last few years that my wife has discovered just what I'd been trying to achieve for her for years.
Just like others orgasm is achieved within a minute or so and multiple times thereafter, proper leg tremblers not weak or short lived ones. Most achieved in a two hour session is, for us, seventeen. For a 30 minute quickie is usually 6 to 8.
The biggest change in our sex life that brought this all about was me taking over in the bedroom, and many other places too, and giving orders and demanding orgasm. With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Now we have quite a collection of costumes and some major accessories.
I do believe most women can achieve this level of satisfaction if with the right partner and more importantly the right mindset themselves.
Urgh and then you go and spoil it by inferring that not having multiple orgasms is like some higher achievement to be unlocked, and that having a single orgasm is less satisfying; worse still, that a woman's mindset is to blame if she's not having them "
Or that a woman can't have multiple's because she has the 'wrong' partner. |
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By *iscuits8Man 7 days ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had."
Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them |
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"With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them"
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By *iscuits8Man 7 days ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
In"
And I've a pineapple corer that'll tip you right over the edge, baby! |
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Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
Can't go too far wrong with a corkscrew..... get that wine opened.... Winner |
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"With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
In
And I've a pineapple corer that'll tip you right over the edge, baby!"
Jaysus stop would you! I've had three orgasms just from reading that one sentence! |
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Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
Can't go too far wrong with a corkscrew..... get that wine opened.... Winner"
Had great craic this Xmas broke tye wine opener Xmas eve...super hero daddy to the rescue with a knife..who doesn't like a little Cork in their wine🤪 |
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By *iscuits8Man 7 days ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
In
And I've a pineapple corer that'll tip you right over the edge, baby!
Jaysus stop would you! I've had three orgasms just from reading that one sentence!"
And sure here's me throbbing knowing I got you juices flowing*
(am actually sorry OP for derailing your thread)
*Pineapple juices 🍍 |
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"I cum multiple times from oral/penetration/vibrator/fingering... never count them though, I just enjoy it when it happens. And I bring towels
Saaaame...hope u had a lovely Xmas xxx"
I did darling xx and you too |
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Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
Can't go too far wrong with a corkscrew..... get that wine opened.... Winner
Had great craic this Xmas broke tye wine opener Xmas eve...super hero daddy to the rescue with a knife..who doesn't like a little Cork in their wine🤪"
My solution would be to open the gin instead |
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Picturing myself here turning up to a meet and unpacking a tin opener, a corkscrew and an egg slicer and not having a clue what to do with them
Can't go too far wrong with a corkscrew..... get that wine opened.... Winner
Had great craic this Xmas broke tye wine opener Xmas eve...super hero daddy to the rescue with a knife..who doesn't like a little Cork in their wine🤪"
Look up youtube
How to open a bottle of wine with a shoe
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"Firstly a big thank you to all contributors for taking the time to comment.
I our case also it's only been in the last few years that my wife has discovered just what I'd been trying to achieve for her for years.
Just like others orgasm is achieved within a minute or so and multiple times thereafter, proper leg tremblers not weak or short lived ones. Most achieved in a two hour session is, for us, seventeen. For a 30 minute quickie is usually 6 to 8.
The biggest change in our sex life that brought this all about was me taking over in the bedroom, and many other places too, and giving orders and demanding orgasm. With a little imagination and some kitchen utensils, to begin with, many a great time was had.
Now we have quite a collection of costumes and some major accessories.
I do believe most women can achieve this level of satisfaction if with the right partner and more importantly the right mindset themselves.
"
Ah I'm fucked than |
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By *iscuits8Man 7 days ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"My bottle opener on my corkscrew got warped recently and my backup was one I've had in the drawer for about 10 years and is a big wooden cock gifted to me from somewhere in Spain 🍆🍾
👀👀👀"
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Mad for my wood you 🪵💦 |
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"My bottle opener on my corkscrew got warped recently and my backup was one I've had in the drawer for about 10 years and is a big wooden cock gifted to me from somewhere in Spain 🍆🍾
👀👀👀
😆
Mad for my wood you 🪵💦"
🤣 I'm surprised that wasn't the first kitchen utensil you thought of |
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Not to spoil the general positive feedback in this thread, I believe it takes at least two to tango.
I am grateful for the communication, acceptance and trust invested by my lady to share the multiorgasmic experience, and may it last for many more moons!
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"I cum multiple times from oral/penetration/vibrator/fingering... never count them though, I just enjoy it when it happens. And I bring towels "
I only counted them because my partner often says to me to start counting when we get to 4 or 5. He really gets off on me counting. Especially when I sometimes lose count and he has to remind me. |
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"I cum multiple times from oral/penetration/vibrator/fingering... never count them though, I just enjoy it when it happens. And I bring towels
I only counted them because my partner often says to me to start counting when we get to 4 or 5. He really gets off on me counting. Especially when I sometimes lose count and he has to remind me. "
That's hot!! |
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By *iSi74Man 7 days ago
Drogheda, Meath, Dublin |
"i know my wife is multi orgasmic.
But is this uncommon?
Id love to know ladies and gents, without giving too much away,have you come across someone that is able to climax multiple times?
Or are we the exception?"
Not uncommon in my experience. |
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"I cum multiple times from oral/penetration/vibrator/fingering... never count them though, I just enjoy it when it happens. And I bring towels
I only counted them because my partner often says to me to start counting when we get to 4 or 5. He really gets off on me counting. Especially when I sometimes lose count and he has to remind me. "
I wonder if i will be permitted to post a link... Or get banned? Oh well, here goes nothing, I hope it works, give everyone a laugh
https://youtu.be/u8ccGjar4Es?si=gqJZhSOnOB5fS_oC |
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"i know my wife is multi orgasmic.
But is this uncommon?
Id love to know ladies and gents, without giving too much away,have you come across someone that is able to climax multiple times?
Or are we the exception?"
Like with hubby we think it's all about the bond of your relationship and what life has put you through as a couple that the good thing to come from adversities is the ability for us to connect in a very special way where he can make me cum as often as he wants to and my body says yes please and can't argue with him lol |
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By *astelloWoman 6 days ago
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Very interesting thread. Despite the derailing of kitchen utensils 🤣 discussion.
The mind body connection seems to be a key factor. Whether is solo or partners.
Porn has miseducated to think it's instant achievement to reach multi orgasm immediately. Unfortunately for most it's a life long ambition. |
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Two different things here,
A multiple orgasm is where you cum repeatedly over a short period of time. Or
You can cum lots of times over a session or day.
I'm greedy in bed so like to receive lots regardless. |
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Its pie in the sky stuff!!! 😂😂
Joking. For me anyway, multiorgasm is a long way off.
Being confident with my body, finding the right partner and being comfortable with each other is key. Needles in a haystack I'm afraid 😒 |
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Porn has miseducated to think it's instant achievement to reach multi orgasm immediately. Unfortunately for most it's a life long ambition. "
Ah look, if it represented reality it would last a very long time, and end up frustrating a lot of times...
Same like with movies, certain edits happen for the good of the story telling.
There are other fantastic elements I'd rather complain about porn... Where are the good old ones, where it was all about actual selling the action, vs hyperproduction these days? |
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"Two different things here,
A multiple orgasm is where you cum repeatedly over a short period of time. Or
You can cum lots of times over a session or day.
I'm greedy in bed so like to receive lots regardless. "
In my book multiorgasmic is rapid, consequtive wave after wave of orgasms.
Had a GF a long time ago (I know, I know), I was able to get her cumming time after time, almost to the point of fainting where she'd just orgasm very strongly at first, but then as the energy would sap out of her they would get weaker and weaker and weaker and her mind would melt away and would almost loose consciousness?
For me as a man, this felt very powerful and ego feeding, only to turn into a concern as it started having a... Bullying kind of taste? Cause it was like involuntary towards the end stages, she was just reacting, had no chance to communicate, or anything...
The recent experience, well I have decided to define a safe word... So we're still exploring the limits... |
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"Two different things here,
A multiple orgasm is where you cum repeatedly over a short period of time. Or
You can cum lots of times over a session or day.
I'm greedy in bed so like to receive lots regardless. "
For me the when I do a big number is I'm realy primed for orgasm already so it's just a matter of hitching a ride on the others. There is distinct indiviual orgasms, but they happen 30 secs to 1 min apart. They only happen because I'm already 90% there. Sometimes all he has to say is 'Cum for me Baby Girl' and my body convulses once more. He enjoys me counting them out.
Then there's the edging, 'nearly happens but not quite' ones. For me about 20 mins of build up then a one and done orgasm.... no need, no desire and no ability to do any more.
But in group sex I might noto have any. I'm not focused on MY orgasm I'm just enjoying being there, the sexy sights, the sounds, the feeling of being involved. So I'm not orgasm focused all the time.
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"Two different things here,
A multiple orgasm is where you cum repeatedly over a short period of time. Or
You can cum lots of times over a session or day.
I'm greedy in bed so like to receive lots regardless.
For me the when I do a big number is I'm realy primed for orgasm already so it's just a matter of hitching a ride on the others. There is distinct indiviual orgasms, but they happen 30 secs to 1 min apart. They only happen because I'm already 90% there. Sometimes all he has to say is 'Cum for me Baby Girl' and my body convulses once more. He enjoys me counting them out.
Then there's the edging, 'nearly happens but not quite' ones. For me about 20 mins of build up then a one and done orgasm.... no need, no desire and no ability to do any more.
But in group sex I might noto have any. I'm not focused on MY orgasm I'm just enjoying being there, the sexy sights, the sounds, the feeling of being involved. So I'm not orgasm focused all the time.
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This describes it perfectly
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"Its pie in the sky stuff!!! 😂😂
Joking. For me anyway, multiorgasm is a long way off.
Being confident with my body, finding the right partner and being comfortable with each other is key. Needles in a haystack I'm afraid 😒"
To be honest, not to diminish the beauty and pleasure of it shared between people already, for me, it's about giving the play partner pleasure and enjoyment, as that is what gets me personally off.
I will hence play with her, tease, observe, talk, communicate, prove, look, explore...
Again, not to be too arrogant or a dick about it, but I don't think it is science fiction...
It is also about not panicking after the first one, relaxing, letting go, and just enjoying the ride that you are being given... |
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I loved these comments
And yes, it's about the journey, not only the destination.
But I do agree that when I take the lead and am expressive, verbal, that it has a huge effect.
I had the pleasure to meet with an African lady who was very active sexually, but had never orgasmed before. It was SO amazing to get her there and to witness her first ever.
The following Friday evening, she had 20. I was able to make her orgasm at my command. No touch involved.
It's beautiful to share our various experiences. This lady and I wsapp often still. |
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So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
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My wife used to be able to cum multiple times in one session when we were a bit younger. I remember the most she came was 12 or 13. But now she can cum at max twice because it gets too sensitive after the first time lol. |
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Are you being sarcastic ? Cause if not I don’t know what to say :0
"So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
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"So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
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High 5 🖐️ |
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By *dfabMan 5 days ago
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"So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
High 5 🖐️"
Is that 5 fingered orgasms or 5 multiples? |
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Be careful now ? Don’t be bragging about being able to give multiple orgasms
"So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
High 5 🖐️
Is that 5 fingered orgasms or 5 multiples? "
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"So are there men out there who don't feel the need to blow their own trumpet for making a woman cum, once or multiple times?
I have never seen a thread here from a woman boasting about how good she is at making a man cum. Maybe I've just missed them.
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I'm so good at making women cum I don't even need to be there. I call it the immaculate orgasm.
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"I loved these comments
And yes, it's about the journey, not only the destination.
But I do agree that when I take the lead and am expressive, verbal, that it has a huge effect.
I had the pleasure to meet with an African lady who was very active sexually, but had never orgasmed before. It was SO amazing to get her there and to witness her first ever.
The following Friday evening, she had 20. I was able to make her orgasm at my command. No touch involved.
It's beautiful to share our various experiences. This lady and I wsapp often still."
At your command ?
No touch involved ?
Is her name Alexa ?
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