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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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This is my first post. So be gentle. I've been one of those people that has gotten some great entertainment from reading the posts on here but lately it seems they are all turning into arguments. Can we not smile? Our two weeks of summer is here. Lets make the most of it. Xx |
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"This is my first post. So be gentle. I've been one of those people that has gotten some great entertainment from reading the posts on here but lately it seems they are all turning into arguments. Can we not smile? Our two weeks of summer is here. Lets make the most of it. Xx"
Your post is working so far, no arguments  |
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over a year ago
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Michael everyone can have a debate, when its gets personal that when its uncalled for.
I value people's opinions; but when it turns into more with personal remarks to people that when it's actually draining.
For sn adult site its petty and childish
Rant over
Hey op enjoys the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are ways of arguing without it descending into name calling which a lot of people end up doing on here, it shows a real lack of intelligence if the only comeback people can come up with is to hurl personal insults. Then they fall back on the 'where's your sense of humour' line, yawn yawn. As I always say, everyone's brave behind a computer but in real life they turn into a wee mouse |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Michael everyone can have a debate, when its gets personal that when its uncalled for.
I value people's opinions; but when it turns into more with personal remarks to people that when it's actually draining.
For sn adult site its petty and childish
Rant over
Hey op enjoys the forums. "
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There are ways of arguing without it descending into name calling which a lot of people end up doing on here, it shows a real lack of intelligence if the only comeback people can come up with is to hurl personal insults. Then they fall back on the 'where's your sense of humour' line, yawn yawn. As I always say, everyone's brave behind a computer but in real life they turn into a wee mouse "
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By *o1mMan
over a year ago
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"This is my first post. So be gentle. I've been one of those people that has gotten some great entertainment from reading the posts on here but lately it seems they are all turning into arguments. Can we not smile? Our two weeks of summer is here. Lets make the most of it. Xx"
Them's fighting words |
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"Michael everyone can have a debate, when its gets personal that when its uncalled for.
I value people's opinions; but when it turns into more with personal remarks to people that when it's actually draining.
For sn adult site its petty and childish
Rant over
Hey op enjoys the forums. "
I totally agree with you. Personal insults have no place in any discussion, or any argument. It's still possible to have a robust debate without resorting to personal insults. I'm presuming there are rules to prevent that anyway, so if people flout those rules, I also presume they are dealt with. If the point here is that we should leave out personal insults, then that's fine, although if it's already covered by the rules it's probably pointless saying it. If the point is that we shouldn't disagree with each other at all, then I think we might as well shut up shop now.
I'm sure somebody reading this will think I'm having a go, so I'll point out that I'm not. I love everyone, especially girls! |
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"There are ways of arguing without it descending into name calling which a lot of people end up doing on here, it shows a real lack of intelligence if the only comeback people can come up with is to hurl personal insults. Then they fall back on the 'where's your sense of humour' line, yawn yawn. As I always say, everyone's brave behind a computer but in real life they turn into a wee mouse "
I agree with you for the most part, but there are also those who it seems almost want to be offended and go to great lengths to be so. Offense cannot just be given. It must also be taken as well. I've seen posts that were amusing and obviously light hearted, but people managed to somehow take offence. It's a two way street, and again, I'm not condoning personal jibes. |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Michael everyone can have a debate, when its gets personal that when its uncalled for.
I value people's opinions; but when it turns into more with personal remarks to people that when it's actually draining.
For sn adult site its petty and childish
Rant over
Hey op enjoys the forums.
I totally agree with you. Personal insults have no place in any discussion, or any argument. It's still possible to have a robust debate without resorting to personal insults. I'm presuming there are rules to prevent that anyway, so if people flout those rules, I also presume they are dealt with. If the point here is that we should leave out personal insults, then that's fine, although if it's already covered by the rules it's probably pointless saying it. If the point is that we shouldn't disagree with each other at all, then I think we might as well shut up shop now.
I'm sure somebody reading this will think I'm having a go, so I'll point out that I'm not. I love everyone, especially girls! "
I agree completely that a good debate is great. Life would be very boring if we all agreed on everything. But it cuts very close to being personal or aggressive at times and this site is meant to be for fun. Is it not?  |
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I agree completely that a good debate is great. Life would be very boring if we all agreed on everything. But it cuts very close to being personal or aggressive at times and this site is meant to be for fun. Is it not? "
It is, and that's why there are rules about posting offensive stuff about others. It's life though. People will always break rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some who have an axe to grind for one reason or another, internet forums are the perfect outlet for their frustrations because they can be as rude as they want to others since there is no real consequences, apart from banning, and then sure they can just wait until they are allowed back or create a new profile and start all over again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen name calling in theses forums
Comments to cause a reaction.
In some cases people being pure ignorant.
If I am wrong I put my hands up
But this is s debate bout arguments and this my opinion. |
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"Sharing some ooohla love lol .. Cheer up mo fos its almost the wknd ..  .
My point exactly hun. xx "
That's lovely, but how often would you come back to read that if it's all that was here?
Mind you, I'd come back for a look at ooohla's buns! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen name calling in theses forums
Comments to cause a reaction.
In some cases people being pure ignorant.
If I am wrong I put my hands up
But this is s debate bout arguments and this my opinion. "
You are 100% right wexie, usually always the same people as well, but sure there are trolls everywhere in life, I find best way to deal with it is just mock it |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have seen name calling in theses forums
Comments to cause a reaction.
In some cases people being pure ignorant.
If I am wrong I put my hands up
But this is s debate bout arguments and this my opinion. "
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Sharing some ooohla love lol .. Cheer up mo fos its almost the wknd .. .
My point exactly hun. xx
That's lovely, but how often would you come back to read that if it's all that was here?
Mind you, I'd come back for a look at ooohla's buns! "
I tend to stop reading a thread as soon as it turns negative. I love the jokey flirty ones best. |
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"I have seen name calling in theses forums
Comments to cause a reaction.
In some cases people being pure ignorant.
If I am wrong I put my hands up
But this is s debate bout arguments and this my opinion.
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Ok, name calling is wrong and mature adults don't do that.
Comments to cause a reaction is possibly childish, but if it's obviously done for that reason, don't react.
People being ignorant is a more tricky one. There are stupid people everywhere, so I'mI'm this place is the same. There's a possibility that some who say stupid things don't realise they're being stupid?
Anyway, I would hate to see the place go totally pc and steri, and I think people would stop using the site. I could be wrong though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wat baffles me this is a swingers site not
Lets score points to get one up on someone.
We all ain't going to all agree on everything....
Let's make the forums interesting and bloody fun..... |
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By *adylace OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wat baffles me this is a swingers site not
Lets score points to get one up on someone.
We all ain't going to all agree on everything....
Let's make the forums interesting and bloody fun..... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sharing some ooohla love lol .. Cheer up mo fos its almost the wknd .. .
My point exactly hun. xx
That's lovely, but how often would you come back to read that if it's all that was here?
Mind you, I'd come back for a look at ooohla's buns!
I tend to stop reading a thread as soon as it turns negative. I love the jokey flirty ones best. "
I agree totally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm looking forward to the forum tomorrow now. It'll be all fun and games "
you not coming on tomorrow Michael mmnnwah . And I ain't being s bitch I sm having s laugh. |
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"I'm looking forward to the forum tomorrow now. It'll be all fun and games you not coming on tomorrow Michael mmnnwah . And I ain't being s bitch I sm having s laugh. "
Don't worry. I'm not that sensitive or that easy to get rid of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I must read a different forum cos tbh I dont see the arguments happening daily
Last one i saw was the one about the women, someone taking offence and then being most personal and insulting to another member
yet only one got a ban on that so perhaps it was only a one sided argument?
But I dont agree there are arguments on here all the time. In fact I thought this forum had actually improved the past three months with the standard of threads and the plethora of posters
The statistics bear me out on that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my first post. So be gentle. I've been one of those people that has gotten some great entertainment from reading the posts on here but lately it seems they are all turning into arguments. Can we not smile? Our two weeks of summer is here. Lets make the most of it. Xx"
forums can be fun sumtimes,sumtimes even the arguments can be funny too,then sumtimes ppl can go too far!whether the person just doesnt like the other person or its a jealousy thing i dont know but in my experience the ppl tht like to name call and abuse others for no reason ,whether it be on the forums or pms are nothing but cowards in real life,when met face to face they wudnt open their mouths! |
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