Hi all, looking to start my bdsm journey and I don’t know where to start. Going to get my first mask Monday and there is soo many to choose from, but r there clubs I can join to ease into this lifestyle as a girl like myself???? Any advice or lessons I should be getting thanks x Laura. |
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I would highly recommend to come to Nimhneach on Saturday 18th January 2025. Go to the club's website, read the Dress Code and buy a ticket. You won't find a more educational event even if spend a year trying to decide what you like by looking at stuff online.
If you have questions about Nimhneach, don't hesitate to ask. |
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Sign up to fet. Find your people there. Go to a Munch to make friends. Do some classes, rope skills etc- there’s always something coming up. Bermingham fetish weekend was on a few weeks ago so you just missed out on that but there is a monthly bi monthly market for decent toys. thebbb dot co dot uk. Enjoy your journey |
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By *om TangoMan 6 weeks ago
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Get an understanding of bdsm first. Learn the different kinds subs and doms/masters. Getting an understanding with learn you what kinda questions to ask. Listen to podcasts about how it works. Bdsm isn’t always about full sex. Away to many so called masters or doms out there. Remember the only person in control is the sub regardless of what any Dom/Master might tell you. |
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Read. Read about different kinks, safety rules and how to differ dom from a psycho.
Join Fet and go to munches, get to know the community, ask questions, learn.
Find someone with whom you feel safe and seen, build trust and go slowly. Don’t trust guys who start to call you good girl online and give you orders. Real dom will build a rapport first.
Always tell someone where are you going and with whom.
Nimhneach is great event to see some action and mingle with likeminded people. |
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