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What should the first message consist of?
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There is no one thing I think "should" be in a first message.
I either get the urge to say something to someone that inspires a message or I don't bother.
I send messages that entertain me I don't worry too much about crafting it in a way that maximises the chance of a response.
The way I see it if they respond to my general nonsense there is a better chance of a match, if not then it's saved us both some time |
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Don't just say 'hi' and leave it there, that'll get the message deleted straight away.
I'm not going to say what should be said, not gonna make it easy for them lol!! Check the profile and ask yourself, what do you like about the profile...... the pics, the profile itself, the verifications.... comment on one of those positively!! |
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I kinda like to think that if someone likes my profile enough to consider they might want to do the sex with me, they'll be inspired enough to string a few coherent sentences together 🤷♀️
Maybe I ask for too much  |
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By *om TangoMan 3 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
Here is one I sent they other night
So sorry about this guys. But I need to give yous the heads up. There will be a fat fella out to get mrs curious and putting her into a big bag. But don’t panic. It’s Santa. See I told him i wanted and
37 years old hot wife, about 5ft 5 inches with some curves that enjoys social drink. And he’s decided that mrs curious would make a great hot wife.really sorry guys but hopefully we will all get on well and laugh about it after it’s done.
Note I added details from their bio and the females details to prove I read their profile in full. Still didn’t work but😂😂. Message seen and no reply ☺️ |
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Avoid sending a dic pic .
Show that you have after reading their profile fully by including something they like . Be respectful and complimentary and don't get annoyed if they don't reply . Some people get hundreds of messages they can't respond to them all. |
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"I kinda like to think that if someone likes my profile enough to consider they might want to do the sex with me, they'll be inspired enough to string a few coherent sentences together 🤷♀️
Maybe I ask for too much "
Speaking from seeing the both sides of the fence here  . When an emotionally immature man sees a woman he wants to have sex with, his brain capacity drops to 10% or so and enters a "me Tarsan, you Jane" mode. Or even worse, the man just shrivels and can only squeak something like "hi" before running away to hide under a duvet.
You could probably still engage in a conversation just to build up their confidence and possibly coax them to profess their desires for you, or delete the message and wait for someone who has a modicum of manners imprinted on them. You might have to wait for a long time  |
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"I kinda like to think that if someone likes my profile enough to consider they might want to do the sex with me, they'll be inspired enough to string a few coherent sentences together 🤷♀️
Maybe I ask for too much
Speaking from seeing the both sides of the fence here . When an emotionally immature man sees a woman he wants to have sex with, his brain capacity drops to 10% or so and enters a "me Tarsan, you Jane" mode. Or even worse, the man just shrivels and can only squeak something like "hi" before running away to hide under a duvet.
You could probably still engage in a conversation just to build up their confidence and possibly coax them to profess their desires for you, or delete the message and wait for someone who has a modicum of manners imprinted on them. You might have to wait for a long time "
I've a Masters in waiting |
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"I kinda like to think that if someone likes my profile enough to consider they might want to do the sex with me, they'll be inspired enough to string a few coherent sentences together 🤷♀️
Maybe I ask for too much
Speaking from seeing the both sides of the fence here . When an emotionally immature man sees a woman he wants to have sex with, his brain capacity drops to 10% or so and enters a "me Tarsan, you Jane" mode. Or even worse, the man just shrivels and can only squeak something like "hi" before running away to hide under a duvet.
You could probably still engage in a conversation just to build up their confidence and possibly coax them to profess their desires for you, or delete the message and wait for someone who has a modicum of manners imprinted on them. You might have to wait for a long time
I've a Masters in waiting "
I'm working on it the 5th paragraph just isn't right yet |
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"I kinda like to think that if someone likes my profile enough to consider they might want to do the sex with me, they'll be inspired enough to string a few coherent sentences together 🤷♀️
Maybe I ask for too much
Speaking from seeing the both sides of the fence here . When an emotionally immature man sees a woman he wants to have sex with, his brain capacity drops to 10% or so and enters a "me Tarsan, you Jane" mode. Or even worse, the man just shrivels and can only squeak something like "hi" before running away to hide under a duvet.
You could probably still engage in a conversation just to build up their confidence and possibly coax them to profess their desires for you, or delete the message and wait for someone who has a modicum of manners imprinted on them. You might have to wait for a long time
I've a Masters in waiting
I'm working on it the 5th paragraph just isn't right yet"
I'm sure it'll be worth the wait |
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You can do all of the above reading bios etc etc trying to play to the said persons tune and unless your a verified single male or have been to a party/social all of the above means squat diddly. That being said send whatever message you think is relevant/appropriate to you and F*ck anyone not willing to reply. Happy Wednesday  |
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For me the following have a quantified success rate:
Hey
Hi
Fancy going half's on a bast£÷d?
I'm free in 20 minutes if your about?
Now that quantified success rate is 0% so use them wisely broskie |
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Pick something out of their profile to ask them about. Show that you read and understood it. Don't message at all if you don't meet their criteria, don't think you are unique and you are 'the one' that will make them change their minds on something they clearly state they DONT want.
Be respectful, have enough pics that they don't have to ask for one. Have a filled out bio that gives your personality a chance to shine. If a person has to drag info out of you they won't bother. And all the ones thinking 'why? Is this not just a site to fuck people on'then realise that most people don't want that kind of interaction, connection is important to alot of people on here. So make an effort! |
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By *alvin.Man 3 weeks ago
Cork/Dublin |
I rarely send messages. But when I do, I start with a polite
"Alright Hun"
And then I attach a drawing I've done of my cat. A pussy picture is an alternative to cock.
Cock is the name of the dog BTW.
Replies are rare  |
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"I rarely send messages. But when I do, I start with a polite
"Alright Hun"
And then I attach a drawing I've done of my cat. A pussy picture is an alternative to cock.
Cock is the name of the dog BTW.
Replies are rare "
I like your style  |
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