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By *rRiosMan 4 weeks ago
dublin |
I was chatting to a trans woman last night at a social. I was quite interested in her experience but was walking on eggshells trying not to offend. I enjoyed the conversation though.
Anyway, as she got up to get her coat to leave, another fabber made what I feel was a snide comment to me saying “are you getting you coat too?” as a couple of others cackled.
It wasn’t warranted and I felt the need to purposefully hug her as she left incase she overheard and thought I was in agreement with them.
This is probably not the place for it but this is where I’ll put it. Sorry for hijacking the thread. Rant over. Have at it |
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"I was chatting to a trans woman last night at a social. I was quite interested in her experience but was walking on eggshells trying not to offend. I enjoyed the conversation though.
Anyway, as she got up to get her coat to leave, another fabber made what I feel was a snide comment to me saying “are you getting you coat too?” as a couple of others cackled.
It wasn’t warranted and I felt the need to purposefully hug her as she left incase she overheard and thought I was in agreement with them.
This is probably not the place for it but this is where I’ll put it. Sorry for hijacking the thread. Rant over. Have at it "
Can I ask exactly why you felt it was a snide comment, and not more not a playful suggestive comment? |
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By *rRiosMan 4 weeks ago
dublin |
"I was chatting to a trans woman last night at a social. I was quite interested in her experience but was walking on eggshells trying not to offend. I enjoyed the conversation though.
Anyway, as she got up to get her coat to leave, another fabber made what I feel was a snide comment to me saying “are you getting you coat too?” as a couple of others cackled.
It wasn’t warranted and I felt the need to purposefully hug her as she left incase she overheard and thought I was in agreement with them.
This is probably not the place for it but this is where I’ll put it. Sorry for hijacking the thread. Rant over. Have at it
Can I ask exactly why you felt it was a snide comment, and not more not a playful suggestive comment?"
It was the tone |
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"I was chatting to a trans woman last night at a social. I was quite interested in her experience but was walking on eggshells trying not to offend. I enjoyed the conversation though.
Anyway, as she got up to get her coat to leave, another fabber made what I feel was a snide comment to me saying “are you getting you coat too?” as a couple of others cackled.
It wasn’t warranted and I felt the need to purposefully hug her as she left incase she overheard and thought I was in agreement with them.
This is probably not the place for it but this is where I’ll put it. Sorry for hijacking the thread. Rant over. Have at it "
I’ve had this before! Just having chat with a guy and you see people staring which never bothers me but then k worry he sees it
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By *om TangoMan 4 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"I was chatting to a trans woman last night at a social. I was quite interested in her experience but was walking on eggshells trying not to offend. I enjoyed the conversation though.
Anyway, as she got up to get her coat to leave, another fabber made what I feel was a snide comment to me saying “are you getting you coat too?” as a couple of others cackled.
It wasn’t warranted and I felt the need to purposefully hug her as she left incase she overheard and thought I was in agreement with them.
This is probably not the place for it but this is where I’ll put it. Sorry for hijacking the thread. Rant over. Have at it "
I’ve been in the company of a trans lady at a social and thankfully not one person made any comments or judgment. Then again I was with real lifestyle people that welcome everyone regardless of their sexual preferences. Sounds to me you were with a brunch of judgemental people that truly don’t understand the lifestyle. |
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Unfortunately for the Trans community from what I been told for trans women Ive met, is men she then as a feitsh or kink, and its 'not gay' if she is a woman with a cock. We all have our likes/preference and sometime we can be surprised by a situation. Going by the OP comment, Id say they fall into the thier a kink/festish for them. I could be wrong and I apologise if Im making a error of judgement here |
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