Overly d*unk a few drinks completey fine.but way over the top d*unk is a big no.
A good few years ago I got a message from a well verified women asking if I could meet the next day, and if I had experience in fisting. Each to their own but that was also a line I did not want to cross. |
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By *asual777 OP Man 9 weeks ago
i travel all over |
People I have chatted to have stated that their red lines might include things like
Meeting near where they live
Meeting in someone else’s home or theirs
And being too close to someone of the same sex such as DP/DVP |
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Excessive d*unkenness. I'm not going to bed with someone who is shit faced. Unless we know each other well and I am shit faced too.
Had a coffee last month with a woman who had two pints of Guinness at 11am while I had a flat white. I didn't think we were compatible.
People who don't look like their photos. This is common. If you've aged 15 years since you've posted your face pic it's not happening.
Possessiveness and jealousy are a hard no as well. |
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People with fragile masculinity.
People with fragile ego.
People who are racists or don’t think that non-binary gender is a thing.
People who think that feminists hate men.
Bad hygiene.
People who don’t read books. |
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"2 pints of stout in the morning wowwww"
Don't get me wrong, I have plenty of friends that enjoy day drinking or the hair of the dog.
The thing that struck me was the fact that she had two pints at 11am while meeting a guy she didn't know for a coffee social! |
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Bad teeth, bad hygiene. No
D*unk or high. No
I won't meet at anyone's home unless I know them very well as a friend.
I never accommodate. You'd have to be pretty special to be asked to visit mine.
I don't like anyone invading my personal space when meeting for a social. Keep your hands to yourself.
Anyone who talks to me about physically hurting me.
People who persistently ask me personal questions.
Possessiveness or jealousy, although I haven't come across that, thankfully. |
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By *og-ManMan 9 weeks ago
somewhere |
Smokers...kissed someone a few years ago that told me they didn't smoke ...realised they did and my mouth had a reaction to the nicotine and I puked on the way home ...not an experience to be repeated |
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Hard limits are electrics, cutting, needles, blood, any drugs or d*unkenness , any beast or under 18s, breathe play (but enjoy some mild choking), scat, bruising to visible areas, bare backing and humiliation |
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By *dfabMan 9 weeks ago
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"Hard limits are electrics, cutting, needles, blood, any drugs or d*unkenness , any beast or under 18s, breathe play (but enjoy some mild choking), scat, bruising to visible areas, bare backing and humiliation"
Electrics? Do you mean electro-stim stuff? Or something even weirder?
Beast! What's that?
I'm thinking I may need to revisit the Sex Terms thread again as I'm feeling uneducated, which is unusual for me in this arena  |
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"Hard limits are electrics, cutting, needles, blood, any drugs or d*unkenness , any beast or under 18s, breathe play (but enjoy some mild choking), scat, bruising to visible areas, bare backing and humiliation
Electrics? Do you mean electro-stim stuff? Or something even weirder?
Beast! What's that?
I'm thinking I may need to revisit the Sex Terms thread again as I'm feeling uneducated, which is unusual for me in this arena "
It’s anything animal related |
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Drugs mainly
I've no moral high ground as done it all myself in past but on a meet first or many meets with same person I still would say no if they are clearly on something
Few drinks ok
Drugs give me the icke now days but as I said I have no moral high ground with them .
Always meet very public place first is another rule of mine.
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By *ombikerMan 9 weeks ago
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There are a few obvious ones for instance someone trying to involve someone under age or someone without the capacity to consent for example a medical or mental health reason or being intoxicated.
But then there are the personal ones for example if the person or people are just obnoxious.
Or behaviour that I would see as extremely risky for example a bare back greedy girl gang bang.
But every person is different so each to their own. |
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I've more red lines than my bank statement 
Off the top of my head...
Excessive alcohol
Drugs of any kind
Outdoors with risk
Sex in a vehicle
Bareback (or a history of frequent/group bareback)
Excessive pain, bruising, etc
Restraint and/or blindfold
Watersports
Scat
Blind dates
Extreme political and/or world views at odds with my own, poorly expressed
Intolerance of gender and sexual diversity
I'm sure there are lots more though
Some of these are absolute, some I might dabble in with an established partner or someone with whom I've built trust. |
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"There are a few obvious ones for instance someone trying to involve someone under age or someone without the capacity to consent for example a medical or mental health reason or being intoxicated.
But then there are the personal ones for example if the person or people are just obnoxious.
Or behaviour that I would see as extremely risky for example a bare back greedy girl gang bang.
But every person is different so each to their own."
...you've had contact with people like this? |
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