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By *Awicked OP Couple 8 weeks ago
Dublin |
How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack. |
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Depends on your own situation. We have ours set for a couple of reasons both of us have health problems and sometimes those can leave one of us sidelined for a few days so the other is free to go on meets as long we know the person/people pretty well and also childcare hub has stayed home and I've had meets with both couples and ladies and will do the same for hubby when it's him getting asked out lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I used to joke about it with an ex, she wasn't into it. Mine was if she was out with the girls she could shift somebody. She never did, but if you are testing the waters I think that's the easiest one to come back from. I'd imagine you'd know fairly quick if it was for yous or not. |
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By *Awicked OP Couple 8 weeks ago
Dublin |
For us, it’s about not missing opportunities.
There are some ladies that Anabelle would be interested (not couples), but these ladies might not be interested in having a man around (even one as handsome as me  ). Likewise, there are some hot ladies here that I would like to know a little better, and they are interested in men.
It’s difficult to get a 4-way match sometimes, hence the reason for thinking about a hall pass.
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By *Awicked OP Couple 8 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I always found swinging as a couple to be more fun when both parties were actually present. "
Yes, it’s great. We’ve had some good times as a foursome. It’s just sometimes it feels one or both of us has missed possible fun because there wasn’t a four-way match on the odd occasion. |
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"I always found swinging as a couple to be more fun when both parties were actually present.
This I love  "
....what's the point in being part of a couple if you're you don't get the full benefits...hahaha |
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By *razy-CplCouple 8 weeks ago
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"I ( mrs crazy ) have had a few solo play meets , while himself was at work , sending him pics etc , but i can only meet during the morning / afternoon , but finding some one free is hard at those times, i have only met single guys but wouldnt rule out meeting a cpl 
Mrs crazy "
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We’re recently open to the idea as mrs wont be able to play until the new year. Biggest issue i can see is that people think that the couple have broke up and its just a single guy on the profile when the guy is looking to meet on his own  |
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"I always found swinging as a couple to be more fun when both parties were actually present.
With that theory why would any couples bother meeting singles then "
...im not sure what you're asking?
When I was part of a couple, we always played as a couple...no solo runs |
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"I always found swinging as a couple to be more fun when both parties were actually present.
With that theory why would any couples bother meeting singles then ...im not sure what you're asking?
When I was part of a couple, we always played as a couple...no solo runs "
I'm asking that had you even been in the situation where when you were in a couple if there was a situation where one was unable to do meets due to illness or disability and you had permission would you not take advantage of that permission |
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"I always found swinging as a couple to be more fun when both parties were actually present.
With that theory why would any couples bother meeting singles then ...im not sure what you're asking?
When I was part of a couple, we always played as a couple...no solo runs
I'm asking that had you even been in the situation where when you were in a couple if there was a situation where one was unable to do meets due to illness or disability and you had permission would you not take advantage of that permission "
...no...absolutely not...but that's just me, and anyway..it's so much more fun playing with someone you have feelings for  |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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Both the wife and I are now using single profiles for this reason.
We were on here with a couples profile for about 8 years till I'll health and life got in the way. We found that when we were on before it was hard to find that connection that all parties we happy and someone always compromised! Either by playing when they weren't happy or missing out!
We are giving the solo meeting a try and so far it is working for us although meeting as a couple still is more exciting it is just so hard sometimes
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"I'm going to go out on a limb her..and guess that the women in the couples profile gets far more solo meets than the men..
Ladies, feel free to prove him wrong and set up a solo meet with Jack "
....that would be the exception...not the rule...hahaha |
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"We both do it ,we just make sure other half is involved with naughty updates and photos/videos taken. Then sex after it is great. As long as everyone's on board its hot "
Yes this.
Its really difficult to find couples where everyone gets on especially with distance and family/work commitments its virtually impossible. So no hall passes just discussion and communication. We meet who we like when we like. And we are both happy that we are both having fun.  |
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"How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack."
Hope you're both well! Myself and aoife have a different taste in woman so can be difficult to find w couples where all are attracted to eachother. We've had solo dates where we both met woman solo and it worked really well for all involved so defo wprth a try. We still love to play as a couple but solo meets are lots of fun too!
Looking forward to catching up with you guys |
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By *Awicked OP Couple 7 weeks ago
Dublin |
"How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack.
Hope you're both well! Myself and aoife have a different taste in woman so can be difficult to find w couples where all are attracted to eachother. We've had solo dates where we both met woman solo and it worked really well for all involved so defo wprth a try. We still love to play as a couple but solo meets are lots of fun too!
Looking forward to catching up with you guys "
Hey guys,
It’s been a while!
Yep, if a 4-way match happened every time it would be great. A hall pass could be fun the odd time. Wondering if I should reach out to the one I have a crush on… |
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"How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack.
Hope you're both well! Myself and aoife have a different taste in woman so can be difficult to find w couples where all are attracted to eachother. We've had solo dates where we both met woman solo and it worked really well for all involved so defo wprth a try. We still love to play as a couple but solo meets are lots of fun too!
Looking forward to catching up with you guys
Hey guys,
It’s been a while!
Yep, if a 4-way match happened every time it would be great. A hall pass could be fun the odd time. Wondering if I should reach out to the one I have a crush on… "
You might as well reach out to your crush nothing ventured nothing gained as they say  |
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"How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack.
Hope you're both well! Myself and aoife have a different taste in woman so can be difficult to find w couples where all are attracted to eachother. We've had solo dates where we both met woman solo and it worked really well for all involved so defo wprth a try. We still love to play as a couple but solo meets are lots of fun too!
Looking forward to catching up with you guys
Hey guys,
It’s been a while!
Yep, if a 4-way match happened every time it would be great. A hall pass could be fun the odd time. Wondering if I should reach out to the one I have a crush on… "
Sure you may as well (hoping it's me, Sean 🤣🤣) |
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By *m158Couple 7 weeks ago
Cork |
We've been swinging on and off over 10 years now....started off as same room swaps with couples and found a great click with some but there was some that all 4 did not click. We now also do the hall pass scenario that works great for us. Being open and able to really enjoy the reclaim fun makes it work out for us  |
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By *Awicked OP Couple 7 weeks ago
Dublin |
"How is that working for you?
Why did you introduce it?
It’s something we have been thinking about.
Not sure if it makes any difference, but
Anabelle would probably be looking to play solo with other ladies. Same for Jack.
Hope you're both well! Myself and aoife have a different taste in woman so can be difficult to find w couples where all are attracted to eachother. We've had solo dates where we both met woman solo and it worked really well for all involved so defo wprth a try. We still love to play as a couple but solo meets are lots of fun too!
Looking forward to catching up with you guys
Hey guys,
It’s been a while!
Yep, if a 4-way match happened every time it would be great. A hall pass could be fun the odd time. Wondering if I should reach out to the one I have a crush on…
Sure you may as well (hoping it's me, Sean 🤣🤣)"
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Jack. |
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We started as a couple but we found it extremely hard to find couples where all parties really clicked AND were attracted to each other.
Moreover finding times where we were both free (between work and kids) was difficult so meeting solo is easier and gives us more opportunities.
We started playing solo at parties and moved on by creating single profiles. We are now mostly meeting solo.
However M_Sensualnfun has not been successful with his single profile 😔so ladies feel free to send him a message 😜 you won’t regret it 😈😈😈
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It all depends on Individual couples situation we started the solo/hall pass situation simply because it was so so difficult to find the time as a couple to get out on the scene with the childminder situation so we found it easier to also incorporate the solo play. Any couple that are doing it have alot of discussion on it would be our advice. |
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"We started as a couple but we found it extremely hard to find couples where all parties really clicked AND were attracted to each other.
Moreover finding times where we were both free (between work and kids) was difficult so meeting solo is easier and gives us more opportunities.
We started playing solo at parties and moved on by creating single profiles. We are now mostly meeting solo.
However M_Sensualnfun has not been successful with his single profile 😔so ladies feel free to send him a message 😜 you won’t regret it 😈😈😈
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...he's now a single male...wouldn't he be better off tagging along with you...taking one for the team.. ? |
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