It’s just not a conversation that I would want to have with a potential partner, as I would feel I would have to lie and minimise the number. I’d say the average Irish person has had inter course with between 5-10. |
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Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion. |
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By *ission4 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion. "
I am not bothering with it, just read something about it and just want to have some public view on it.
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion. "
Some of us have a particular kink for it- it's not an insecurity thing 😉 |
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion.
Some of us have a particular kink for it- it's not an insecurity thing 😉"
Really? Can you say number? How do you keep track? |
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Considering I’ve been on swing sites since 2010 and in that time been to parties and orgies.. how do you count? Is it you cumming with them and them with you or if their body parts enter your body etc etc… idk..
Anyway.. I’ve a terrible memory so.. a few  |
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion.
Some of us have a particular kink for it- it's not an insecurity thing 😉
Really? Can you say number? How do you keep track?"
We keep track by counting 😄
It's not difficult - and like some have commented above, some people choose which metric they wish to track.
For us, we solely count number of men who have fucked Mrs as that's what turns us on in this particular instance.
It's far from the only thing that turns us on and we don't consider our experience "reduced to a number" as we don't focus only on quantity.. we just think the quantity is hot AF 😋 |
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion.
Some of us have a particular kink for it- it's not an insecurity thing 😉
Really? Can you say number? How do you keep track?
We keep track by counting 😄
It's not difficult - and like some have commented above, some people choose which metric they wish to track.
For us, we solely count number of men who have fucked Mrs as that's what turns us on in this particular instance.
It's far from the only thing that turns us on and we don't consider our experience "reduced to a number" as we don't focus only on quantity.. we just think the quantity is hot AF 😋"
When we started swinging aat January I started a spreadsheet. It's partly to see how many as we hope to do this for years. We will be proud of it as hope |
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"Pfff... I am about quality over quantity... So... *ponders*...
7? 8? ish? Oh, forgot about that one time... 10ish..."
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There's often this misconception that quantity and quality are mutually exclusive 😄 |
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"Do people on fab even bother counting? I think it's totally pointless TBH, usually a sign of insecurity if you are over 30 and still counting... That's something you do in your teens and early 20s in my opinion.
Some of us have a particular kink for it- it's not an insecurity thing 😉
Really? Can you say number? How do you keep track?
We keep track by counting 😄
It's not difficult - and like some have commented above, some people choose which metric they wish to track.
For us, we solely count number of men who have fucked Mrs as that's what turns us on in this particular instance.
It's far from the only thing that turns us on and we don't consider our experience "reduced to a number" as we don't focus only on quantity.. we just think the quantity is hot AF 😋
When we started swinging aat January I started a spreadsheet. It's partly to see how many as we hope to do this for years. We will be proud of it as hope "
Omg we thought of doing a spreadsheet at first too! Keeping metrics on specific scenarios/acts/scenes... It appealed to both the deviant and data nerd sides of our personalities but in the end it was just easier to keep track of one thing 😋
Love whispering that number to each other 😈😁 |
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"Pfff... I am about quality over quantity... So... *ponders*...
7? 8? ish? Oh, forgot about that one time... 10ish....
There's often this misconception that quantity and quality are mutually exclusive 😄"
You misunderstand... Once quality is found, quantity is pursued with said quality  |
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"Pfff... I am about quality over quantity... So... *ponders*...
7? 8? ish? Oh, forgot about that one time... 10ish....
There's often this misconception that quantity and quality are mutually exclusive 😄
You misunderstand... Once quality is found, quantity is pursued with said quality "
Oh no misunderstanding - repeat meets are fabulous.. we just like variety too, which increases the chances of meeting more great people 🥰 |
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"Pfff... I am about quality over quantity... So... *ponders*...
7? 8? ish? Oh, forgot about that one time... 10ish....
There's often this misconception that quantity and quality are mutually exclusive 😄
You misunderstand... Once quality is found, quantity is pursued with said quality
Oh no misunderstanding - repeat meets are fabulous.. we just like variety too, which increases the chances of meeting more great people 🥰"
Bareback air b n b? Did it happen? |
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"Pfff... I am about quality over quantity... So... *ponders*...
7? 8? ish? Oh, forgot about that one time... 10ish....
There's often this misconception that quantity and quality are mutually exclusive 😄
You misunderstand... Once quality is found, quantity is pursued with said quality
Oh no misunderstanding - repeat meets are fabulous.. we just like variety too, which increases the chances of meeting more great people 🥰
Bareback air b n b? Did it happen? "
Not yet 🫠 |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Lets see...
1974 2
1975 3
1976 5 quiet year-Leaving Cert
1977 7 First year in College
1978 1 Fell in love
1979 9 Fell out of love
1980 15 or more Discovered smokes
1981.....tbc. Time for my bed bath. Nurse! Nurse!  |
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"Speaking of metrics.
If you added up all the dick thrusts you've had end to end. How much dick would that be.
Would you say you've taken a few miles of dick?
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It's times like these I wish GIFs were allowed 😂 |
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By *rRiosMan 10 weeks ago
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"Speaking of metrics.
If you added up all the dick thrusts you've had end to end. How much dick would that be.
Would you say you've taken a few miles of dick?"
Reminds me of Silicone Valley’s dick jerk algorithm  |
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Personally I keep a record. I don’t think it’s an insecurity issue, I just enjoy being able to refer to it and it actually helps me remember the scenarios, particularly if it was a ONS. I’ve never shared the spreadsheet but one or two FWBs with similar kinks have been interested in reading it, and one or two had their own to share with me which I found incredibly sexy. While quality is the ultimate goal, I do have a kink for quantity, especially for potential partners. Absolutely love a woman who is into it too. |
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Over the 8 years I've joined fab I could say about 15.
Out of that 15 roughly 8 I've been maughty with.
As for telling a fwb, who and what I've done, never again!!
It caused nothing but inferior complexities, paranoia and jealousy!!
But everyone to their own they say!! |
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"It’s just not a conversation that I would want to have with a potential partner, as I would feel I would have to lie and minimise the number. I’d say the average Irish person has had inter course with between 5-10. "
Tbh if you meet your future partner on fab, you won't have to worry about what the real number is....don't think he'd be expecting a saint |
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"Speaking of metrics.
If you added up all the dick thrusts you've had end to end. How much dick would that be.
Would you say you've taken a few miles of dick?
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*smiles* this made me chuckle... Thanks, I needed one...
Let's just say that my sessions back in the hayday would have been... Marathon material, and breaks were taken at the request of the woman I was with at the time.
Long and complicated stories, maybe I'd share them one time over pints, but a few here have been introduced to them. |
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World population review says 11.1 in 2024
Journal says 3 men, 1 female in 2015
There are stats out there, doubt any of us replied.
Personally it's a turn off if people focus too much on number and getting it higher, I'm quality over quantity not another notch in belt. As female repeated meets are better sex than once offs, get to know buttons of other person and them ours.
Wouldn't willing bring up number with anyone because someone going to feel bad or inferior or disgusted |
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Brilliant!