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By *penman OP Man 12 weeks ago
Dublin |
Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong? |
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By *ACOLCouple 12 weeks ago
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Hi OP, you are in Dublin, plenty of spots there for socials, you should try rather attend them, I guarantee you a better chance in person rather than here...
Also, there isn't a magic word that you can use so a women infact anyone can talk, sometimes peeps don't feel like talking.
But at a social, everyone there is keen to meet.
Good luck OP
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By *s LollyWoman 12 weeks ago
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When im messaging someone ill alway read their bio and take something from that or mabey something about their pics or status update, my messaging are unique to that person not the same cut and paste job and send to half the site in hope of a nibble im not saying yours are cause ive no idea just my opinion 😁 |
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By *og-ManMan 12 weeks ago
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Op you're in Dublin
Get to a social in DV8
You won't find a nicer way to get to chat to other fabbers and get a few verifications to start off
Then look out for socials held in Dublin city centre that are advertised on the forums
Some of them run by people that go to DV8
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Vics F here. I can see through the copy and paste ones, I know the guy is using a scattergun approach and that's not very flattering to me. I want to know what is it about us you like the look of or find interesting. Otherwise you may be an any hole is a a goal guy.
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By *s LollyWoman 12 weeks ago
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"Vics F here. I can see through the copy and paste ones, I know the guy is using a scattergun approach and that's not very flattering to me. I want to know what is it about us you like the look of or find interesting. Otherwise you may be an any hole is a a goal guy.
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I love the Dublin accent, im from Carlow...
Good evening how was your day, it's 11am...
Do blonds have more fun, no idea ive short black...🤷
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As some of the people herein have said — attend some of the organised socials. 🩶
Someone above mentioned not being able to give profile advice unless it's asked for. As a matter of fact it can be given because it's within context of this thread (it's not like you are asking for suggestions on how to bake a cake)...
You really need to add more narrative to your profile. Look around the forum and garner some inspiration and ideas, but keep it relevant to you and keep it unique, describing yourself, your personality and what you're looking for (aside from the obvious).
Good luck OP. ☮️ |
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"Vics F here. I can see through the copy and paste ones, I know the guy is using a scattergun approach and that's not very flattering to me. I want to know what is it about us you like the look of or find interesting. Otherwise you may be an any hole is a a goal guy.
I love the Dublin accent, im from Carlow...
Good evening how was your day, it's 11am...
Do blonds have more fun, no idea ive short black...🤷
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....and curlies..?.. not asking for a friend  |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?"
You are not alone pal. |
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By *og-ManMan 12 weeks ago
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For those that can't make a social the next best way in my opinion to get noticed is to use the forums on a daily basis
Not once a month but often enough to get your name out there and showing your personality
Then women will answer you and might even message you in the first place |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?"
Go and read your own profile, You state that are meet verified by meeting 4 x TVs and then you claim to be straight.
This isnt improving your channces ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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There's currently over 300 guys on here and 52 women. The average message a girl gets ranges from Hi heah nice ass can I bang it. What are you doing to stand out from all the hundreds of guys currently competing to get the interest of the limited girls on Fab. |
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This is such a common ask, largely it’s a numbers thing so need to stand out and that’s different for everyone. Rather than aiming to make women reply, try being someone women want to reply to…a good profile is always a good place to start👍 |
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"This is such a common ask, largely it’s a numbers thing so need to stand out and that’s different for everyone. Rather than aiming to make women reply, try being someone women want to reply to…a good profile is always a good place to start👍"
Good point actually most of my meets over the years I sent men first message as they had such a great profile. |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?"
I have serious issues with the word 'make' in this post. It screams of lack of consent when I read it - anything along that lines is an immediate turn off.
An empty bio the same.
I am not suggesting that's your intention but for example if a message came into my inbox with a sentence 'What's it going to take to make you reply?' which is essentially what your post is asking of women on the site - i would block immediately. I will reply if I want to - not because someone has attempted to 'make' me. |
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"This is such a common ask, largely it’s a numbers thing so need to stand out and that’s different for everyone. Rather than aiming to make women reply, try being someone women want to reply to…a good profile is always a good place to start👍
Good point actually most of my meets over the years I sent men first message as they had such a great profile. "
Agreed. Much better to block men and do your own searching. It works for us  |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?
I have serious issues with the word 'make' in this post. It screams of lack of consent when I read it - anything along that lines is an immediate turn off.
An empty bio the same.
I am not suggesting that's your intention but for example if a message came into my inbox with a sentence 'What's it going to take to make you reply?' which is essentially what your post is asking of women on the site - i would block immediately. I will reply if I want to - not because someone has attempted to 'make' me. "
Haha ...rephrasing:
What will it take to get a response from you?
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By *aseylee324Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?
I have serious issues with the word 'make' in this post. It screams of lack of consent when I read it - anything along that lines is an immediate turn off.
An empty bio the same.
I am not suggesting that's your intention but for example if a message came into my inbox with a sentence 'What's it going to take to make you reply?' which is essentially what your post is asking of women on the site - i would block immediately. I will reply if I want to - not because someone has attempted to 'make' me. "
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"This is such a common ask, largely it’s a numbers thing so need to stand out and that’s different for everyone. Rather than aiming to make women reply, try being someone women want to reply to…a good profile is always a good place to start👍
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Good point actually most of my meets over the years I sent men first message as they had such a great profile. "
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Indeed. The odds are stacked against you when the gentlemen outnumber the ladies on here. Making yourself stand out and being unique is key.
I've sent a handful of messages over the years. I rarely message. Nearly all of my engagements, socials, dates/meets have been on the back of the woman sending the first introductory message. |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?
I have serious issues with the word 'make' in this post. It screams of lack of consent when I read it - anything along that lines is an immediate turn off.
An empty bio the same.
I am not suggesting that's your intention but for example if a message came into my inbox with a sentence 'What's it going to take to make you reply?' which is essentially what your post is asking of women on the site - i would block immediately. I will reply if I want to - not because someone has attempted to 'make' me.
Haha ...rephrasing:
What will it take to get a response from you?
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But this rephrasing is actually the same thing? There's no single message will entice anyone- it's the whole package - photos - bio - personality at socials/on the forum- a message might just prompt a look at a profile but not a response. |
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"This is such a common ask, largely it’s a numbers thing so need to stand out and that’s different for everyone. Rather than aiming to make women reply, try being someone women want to reply to…a good profile is always a good place to start👍
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Good point actually most of my meets over the years I sent men first message as they had such a great profile.
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Indeed. The odds are stacked against you when the gentlemen outnumber the ladies on here. Making yourself stand out and being unique is key.
I've sent a handful of messages over the years. I rarely message. Nearly all of my engagements, socials, dates/meets have been on the back of the woman sending the first introductory message."
....same here...I have to beat the bitches off with a big stick... |
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"Hi all, i wanted to start a discussion around what to say to a woman thats gonna make her to reply back. I have been messaging different women from here, think Im being polite enough, giving some description of myself and I have pics in my profile. However, I never have a reply from them.. is there something im doing wrong?
I have serious issues with the word 'make' in this post. It screams of lack of consent when I read it - anything along that lines is an immediate turn off.
An empty bio the same.
I am not suggesting that's your intention but for example if a message came into my inbox with a sentence 'What's it going to take to make you reply?' which is essentially what your post is asking of women on the site - i would block immediately. I will reply if I want to - not because someone has attempted to 'make' me.
Haha ...rephrasing:
What will it take to get a response from you?
But this rephrasing is actually the same thing? There's no single message will entice anyone- it's the whole package - photos - bio - personality at socials/on the forum- a message might just prompt a look at a profile but not a response. "
I was humming The Corrs at that point  |
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