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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈 |
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How long is a piece of string?
Personal preference?
Likelyhood that people in those age ranges are actually single with other commitments?
Quantity over quality for a party?
Who knows, maybe asking the hosts dorectly themselves would clear up the whys...
As for exclusion, I wouldn't be feeling left out. It's their party, their rules. |
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈"
...the latter.. |
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By *ustBoWoman 2 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I agree with a poster above where quite simply it's their party and their rules. So they get to choose who attends.
I don't see how it goes against the essence of fab at all. People will only meet those they want to meet anyhow. |
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By *oo32Man 2 weeks ago
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈"
Because its their party and they want people in that age bracket |
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Is it unfair if someone has an age range of 25 to 45 on their profile?
If there's thirty or forty profiles like that and someone decides to organise an event for them is it still unfair to have the same age range?
It's just curating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈...the latter.."
My bad … it’s totally up to the event hosts , I guess my point is no restriction on couples and single females …. Seems a bit off … but the previous chap says I’m delusional 🤷♂️… lol |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
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I presume you're mixing up club hosts with play party hosts
Clubs generally restrict according to the sex of the person and not the age
Socials are normally open to all ages but again as others have said its down to the organiser
Let's be honest there's women that want younger men only and anyone over 45 is just a preference
Then others(including me )
Who wouldn't like to meet anyone under that age
Swings and roundabouts
Find your tribe ....thats part of the fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"I presume you're mixing up club hosts with play party hosts
Clubs generally restrict according to the sex of the person and not the age
Socials are normally open to all ages but again as others have said its down to the organiser
Let's be honest there's women that want younger men only and anyone over 45 is just a preference
Then others(including me )
Who wouldn't like to meet anyone under that age
Swings and roundabouts
Find your tribe ....thats part of the fun "
Thanks bogman…..
yes , I was referring to play parties at organised club events …. I know I’m not missing out , just questioned the single guys only rule …. I’ll find my tribe
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I get pissed off at restrictions especially ones where you have to be a certain level of prettiness, fitness level and age (young) as a female. There was a Greedy Girl event where I was simply too old and too fat (I'm still pretty though! - well beauty is in the eye of the beholder) and I feel that's very shallow.
But...
It is an event holders perogative. |
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If Disney were remaking it you could just say you feel 25 again, and then you would be allowed. Or that you feel thin and fit and sane thing. If you feel it and believe it,who's to say your not.
Just yesterday I was spiderman, today I think I'll be Batman. |
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"thats me fucked 
I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness 
Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions.
He's also in another country "
But it's not the end of the world. |
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By *aid backMan 2 weeks ago
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A long long time ago on a different site I found it difficult to get invited to parties too. But I came up with a novel idea and I started hosting them myself I set the criteria etc. so I'd suggest if you don't like the age limits set for parties have one yourself with your own criteria |
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A long long time ago on a different site I found it difficult to get invited to parties too. But I came up with a novel idea and I started hosting them myself I set the criteria etc. so I'd suggest if you don't like the age limits set for parties have one yourself with your own criteria.
This.....
Did the same and now Host under the Moresumbisum profile and The Viper Rooms on F3tlife and Fab.
People will always moan.... so do your own...
Hosts have criteria for reasons... usually due to experiences or preferences.
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈"
It's always party o'clock somewhere. I'm sure you would qualify for most parties agewise. Chalk it up as a loss for them and give your attention to people who want to include you. |
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By *avexxMan 2 weeks ago
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"thats me fucked
I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness
He is not 64yrs!!! No way.
Is he Benjamin Button?? "
... i am 64 i wished i wasnt ive always been sporty from a young man still work out every week and kept my shape x |
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By *s LollyWoman 2 weeks ago
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"thats me fucked
I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness
He is not 64yrs!!! No way.
Is he Benjamin Button?? ... i am 64 i wished i wasnt ive always been sporty from a young man still work out every week and kept my shape x"
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Your profile is 3 months old and has no verifications, and your complaining about "the essence of what Fab is about".
A lot of people expect Fab to be something that suits them, and makes all their fantasies come true. It's not.
Swinging isn't a free for all, and works almost exactly like conventional dating. Personal preferences are paramount and should be respected.
As younger swingers, we absolutely looked for parties and events that cater to our age range, as did many of our swinging pals. So there is absolutely a demand for it.
We've seen a lot of men over time ignore our age preferences and assume all women are into older men when we're not. |
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈"
What do you think the essence of fab is all about?
Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"Your profile is 3 months old and has no verifications, and your complaining about "the essence of what Fab is about".
A lot of people expect Fab to be something that suits them, and makes all their fantasies come true. It's not.
Swinging isn't a free for all, and works almost exactly like conventional dating. Personal preferences are paramount and should be respected.
As younger swingers, we absolutely looked for parties and events that cater to our age range, as did many of our swinging pals. So there is absolutely a demand for it.
We've seen a lot of men over time ignore our age preferences and assume all women are into older men when we're not. "
I am verified …. Can’t see your profile …. But thanks for your comments |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈
What do you think the essence of fab is all about?
Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself. "
Of course I have preferences, We all do, My point is lost with you
How can a 60+ couple getting an invite , a single female get an invite no age restriction.. A single male is pigeonholed .. that’s it really … Its more of an observation ….. I know certain club hosts are in it for the money …. So I’ve factored that in too ….. money talks |
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"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls
Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈
What do you think the essence of fab is all about?
Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself.
Of course I have preferences, We all do, My point is lost with you
How can a 60+ couple getting an invite , a single female get an invite no age restriction.. A single male is pigeonholed .. that’s it really … Its more of an observation ….. I know certain club hosts are in it for the money …. So I’ve factored that in too ….. money talks "
...to put it bluntly....tits and ass... |
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Good morning everyone
I believe this post is about a status on my personal page (XXlalaXX) looking for single horny men aged between 25-45 for flame events
. I would just like to clarify a few things before I get anymore abusive messages telling me how crap my club is and I’m ageist etc etc .
Firstly nowhere on my club page or my personal page have I ever mentioned any restrictions of any kind for anybody attending anything I’m hosting . If u took a moment to read the verifications on the page you would see how diverse the attendees are.
Secondly
My status is there for a specific reason . Let me explain the most common question I get asked (specifically by “single men”) what’s the ratio of men to women . I’m sure most event organisers would agree with me . It’s annoying . What they fail to understand there could be 1 guy and 30 women at an event and still not “score” (their terms not mine.
So my most recent event a little under half the “single male” quota were no shows having purchased tickets, no messages saying sorry I can’t make it . Nothing no shows .
From my own personal experience on fab as a single woman , I would say at least 80% of “single male profiles” are not “single male profiles” they are attached and are not going to risk attending any public social gathering at risk if being “caught” but will still purchase tickets join the chat and just no show.
Allll I am simply trying to do is filter this out and find the genuine single guys that will actually turn up. That’s all
No discrimination
Or ageist actions here
I’m simply trying to find a solution to a problem I’ve experienced.
If anybody has anything else they want to know please get in touch .
Thanks for reading
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"So you're saying there's a chance ....by the way the op left the site anyway "
It doesn’t matter that he left I just wanted to explain to anybody else that would presume the same thing .
You are welcome anytime u know that
I actually think I might finally get to meet u on the 30th of November . |
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By *og-ManMan 2 weeks ago
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"So you're saying there's a chance ....by the way the op left the site anyway
It doesn’t matter that he left I just wanted to explain to anybody else that would presume the same thing .
You are welcome anytime u know that
I actually think I might finally get to meet u on the 30th of November . "
I'll save you a donut |
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