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By *adylace OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Waterford City |
I used to meet couples for fun years ago and for the most part loved every minute of it but I then had a few pretty horrible experiences with couples including one time that a full blown row broke out in the middle of play and I had to gather my clothes and leave. This has made me extremely wary of meeting couples now.
I guess my question is what do others do to try to avoid drama or disrespect when meeting couples? |
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I used to be open to meeting couples but never have.
The main reason I removed that option from my profile was the complete lack of respect in messages I received from multiple couples.
In many cases it was obvious that both halves of the couple were on very different pages and there was no way I was getting in the middle of any of that.
On the flip side, I also have a couples account here with a friend and we apply the same rules we both use on our single profiles and would never consider treating anyone as a commodity or a toy to be played with.
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Mostly positive for me, but I would say I prefer a swap, just seems more balanced.
On 2 occasions, Mr hasn't been able to maintain his rection to get a condom on, and I just politely left. (clubs, just left the room, no big deal). |
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"I used to meet couples for fun years ago and for the most part loved every minute of it but I then had a few pretty horrible experiences with couples including one time that a full blown row broke out in the middle of play and I had to gather my clothes and leave. This has made me extremely wary of meeting couples now.
I guess my question is what do others do to try to avoid drama or disrespect when meeting couples?"
Some people are simply not meant to engage in this lifestyle. It's super unfortunate when others get roped into drama like that - sorry to hear that happened to you.
Socials and club events are our preferred avenues to get a feel for how people operate with each other and with us. You should be able to get a pretty good sense if someone isn't ok to move forward or not but yeah, you never really know until it comes down to it.
Sometimes it's unavoidable when someone has a bad experience. You just have to try and communicate what went wrong and why and move on ♥️ |
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By *rbubbleMan 3 weeks ago
wild west sligo mayo roscommon |
All positive for me with any of the couples I met
Quality over quantity and it’s you’re both honest and clear communication at the start it helps
But haven’t had any bad experiences with couples thankfully all have been lovely |
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As one of the above posters said its always better meet before hand either a social meet club or organised socials. We have been lucky not to get caught up directly in couples dramas but have heard of a few second hand .
Think if it happens the best thing is like op did just get dressed and leave them at it . You are doing nothing wrong by removing yourself from a situation that makes you uncomfortable. No body has to stay in a situation that makes them uncomfortable.
Same goes for us as a couple if one half isn't comfortable with a situation it stops and we go. Out of respect for each other it will always be that way. |
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Only ever had one experience with a couple, not off here. But he finished early, then got jealous and realized it wasn't for him. Still fun experience, and like most things you don't know until you try it |
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By *adylace OP Woman 3 weeks ago
Waterford City |
Thanks for the comments so far just to clarify that I never meet anyone without a social only meet first and most experiences have been very positive. Just went through a bad run and it has made me extremely cautious since. |
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"I used to meet couples for fun years ago and for the most part loved every minute of it but I then had a few pretty horrible experiences with couples including one time that a full blown row broke out in the middle of play and I had to gather my clothes and leave. This has made me extremely wary of meeting couples now.
I guess my question is what do others do to try to avoid drama or disrespect when meeting couples?"
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Keep the twins hidden until the last minute..
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When my ex lover and I used to meet guys for a straight mfm, thankfully there was no real issues.
No bad exchange of words, all ran quiet smoothly.
Well apart from one guy who helped my cock back in and a panda!!.
Shoots and leaves!!  |
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"Thanks for the comments so far just to clarify that I never meet anyone without a social only meet first and most experiences have been very positive. Just went through a bad run and it has made me extremely cautious since. "
Yeah unfortunately that's the way things go sometimes.. people are weird and especially so when you throw sex into the mix 😅
You should totally be cautious but hopefully it won't stop you from fulfilling your desires ❤️😚 |
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Have been fortunate to meet many simply lovely couples over the years. Usually as a single guy but occasionally as a couple too.
Key has been to make sure they’re on the same page and know what they want.
I’ve had the odd social where it was clear the guy was really into it but she wasn’t and he was pressuring her to join in. Really bad vibe and got out of there pronto.
Hope you get back out there and have fun! |
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That’s so very unfortunate for you.
I’ve had nothing but good experiences with couples, in all kinds of roles. Mainly though in the mutual participation situation with either both guys pleasuring the lady or indeed the coupe being active participants giving pleasure to me. In those meets it was always done after some time chatting, sharing details and maybe a video call or two to make sure we connected.
I’ve had socials too which I’ve always found great but never yielded much afterwards other than being friendly with other folks, and that’s okay too.
Pity your experience wasn’t good. |
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"All positive for me with any of the couples I met
Quality over quantity and it’s you’re both honest and clear communication at the start it helps
But haven’t had any bad experiences with couples thankfully all have been lovely "
Aw thanks, you were (and are) lovely too |
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Thankfully we haven’t had the drama meeting other couples but that’s very seldom we do so maybe we were just lucky. We also take things very slow, just to make sure everyone is on the same page and get on. Now of course we are a couple so it’s slightly different. But hubby met with couples but again only after knowing them awhile and had only positive experiences.
I Mrs, have never met with a couple… yet… I find it intimidating tbh and I am in awe of single ladies who do.
Sorry to hear you had a few bad experiences… hopefully you will get back on the saddle and have a real good meet soon 😘😘😘 |
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By *ogladyWoman 3 weeks ago
The bog |
"I used to meet couples for fun years ago and for the most part loved every minute of it but I then had a few pretty horrible experiences with couples including one time that a full blown row broke out in the middle of play and I had to gather my clothes and leave. This has made me extremely wary of meeting couples now.
I guess my question is what do others do to try to avoid drama or disrespect when meeting couples?"
This is what happened to me as well and is what put me off meeting couples.. |
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Find a Polyamorous, Polysexual couple. No jealousy. No issues. No BS. Just two people on the same wace length who like to fuck and like to invite others to join them.
My Polypartner, SamanthaJones_LetsPlay, and I play with singles and couples. We literally never fight, and don't get upset about anything when we're enjoying some beautiful, filthy, sexy, fun together.
Perhaps we should have a chat? Message if you're interested in a coffee and chat.
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