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By *eckme70 OP Man 18 weeks ago
Strabane |
For anyone who doesn't believe, I used to be one who didn't understand and called it selfish, that was until (we'll just leave it there if you know what I mean).Look up on YouTube James "Traverse " Blanchard- Open Letter to anyone who says its a cowards way out!! 🙏 All is Good Now Thank God 👌🙏 |
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By *ogladyWoman 18 weeks ago
The bog |
Delighted Ur doing good now.. That's how my son passed and I never tought of it as selfish he was young loads of friends always happy go lucky I belive it's a medical Condition that most of us dont understand.
Keep that black dog outside.. Xx |
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By *ogladyWoman 18 weeks ago
The bog |
"Delighted Ur doing good now.. That's how my son passed and I never tought of it as selfish he was young loads of friends always happy go lucky I belive it's a medical Condition that most of us dont understand.
Keep that black dog outside.. Xx"
To add he was an organ donor and thanks to him 5 people got a new chance of life so I could never say he was selfish.. |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 18 weeks ago
Strabane |
"Delighted Ur doing good now.. That's how my son passed and I never tought of it as selfish he was young loads of friends always happy go lucky I belive it's a medical Condition that most of us dont understand.
Keep that black dog outside.. Xx
To add he was an organ donor and thanks to him 5 people got a new chance of life so I could never say he was selfish.. "
I'm sorry for that,I'm also sorry for what I put my own family through 3 times but in the moment not just a split second you don't think r care just think people are better off without you xx |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 18 weeks ago
Strabane |
"Delighted Ur doing good now.. That's how my son passed and I never tought of it as selfish he was young loads of friends always happy go lucky I belive it's a medical Condition that most of us dont understand.
Keep that black dog outside.. Xx
To add he was an organ donor and thanks to him 5 people got a new chance of life so I could never say he was selfish..
I'm sorry for that,I'm also sorry for what I put my own family through 3 times but in the moment not just a split second you don't think r care just think people are better off without you xx"
I have no problem talking about what I tried to do!! I'm not ashamed but I'm certainly glad that they never worked out and I'm in a good place atm xx🤗🤗 |
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It can be easy to forget sometimes that there are people behind these online profiles. I appreciate the reminder OP. Some people travel a very hard road.
Sending positive vibes to all who need them 🙏 |
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By *irdyxWoman 18 weeks ago
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As a sister of someone who did and a mother of someone who has tried many times . It's a really hard spot to be in like and very had to get your head around not selfish or cowardly . It must suck to be in that head space and to think that's the only option you have . Thankfully my young one is still fighting .
I glad your in a better place now. now |
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By *eckme70 OP Man 18 weeks ago
Strabane |
"As a sister of someone who did and a mother of someone who has tried many times . It's a really hard spot to be in like and very had to get your head around not selfish or cowardly . It must suck to be in that head space and to think that's the only option you have . Thankfully my young one is still fighting .
I glad your in a better place now. now "
I'm very sorry and happy to hear your story 🙏🤗 the only reason I put up the post was because I see others saying if you need help they're there to listen, which is a lovely gesture 🥰 but when you're in that space you don't want to talk to anyone (that's just my experience, it can't speak for everyone) And thank you so much for your kind word's 🥰🥰🤗 |
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By *og-ManMan 18 weeks ago
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Op
Sorry I didn't even understand what your thread was about to start off with because I've been lucky that I haven't lost any family members to it
It's one thing I'm scared of if it ever happens to my adult children
In your opinion what is the conversation I should have with one of them if the ever find themselves in that position and they come to me and talk
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By *eckme70 OP Man 18 weeks ago
Strabane |
"Op
Sorry I didn't even understand what your thread was about to start off with because I've been lucky that I haven't lost any family members to it
It's one thing I'm scared of if it ever happens to my adult children
In your opinion what is the conversation I should have with one of them if the ever find themselves in that position and they come to me and talk
If it's not OK to ask you feel free to ignore the question "
I've never lost anyone either mate,but from one of my experiences it was a case where my Da and 2 mate's turned up,they never once mentioned anything about what was going on in that moment, they sat down beside me and spoke away to each other for a couple of hours throwing in the odd joke which in the in worked never making a big issue about anything 🤷♂️ I feel youngsters are under a lot of pressure from society! I'd say just keep an eye for changes and try and be there,But hopefully You or Anyone else will never have to experience anything like that 🙏💚🤍🧡 |
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