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The mistakes women make
Everyone makes mistakes, men women.
It's all about communication and women are as quilty of not communicating during sex as men.
Both genders make the same communication mistakes |
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Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂 |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂"
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!! |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!"
Same as me.....never knew this😏 |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!"
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like? |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?"
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️ |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️"
And it depends how far they are hanging |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️
And it depends how far they are hanging "
All I'm hearing is excuses ladies!
Of course, you'll have no bother at all reaching for your clit!! 😂
Turn your shoulder in a little bit, you'll be grand! |
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Not communicating clearly. If it's working then let us know so we don't stop. If it's not working then guide us. No two women are the same and what worked for one may not work for another, so take control of your pleasure if it's not working then communicate and guide. It's not a test. |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️
And it depends how far they are hanging
All I'm hearing is excuses ladies!
Of course, you'll have no bother at all reaching for your clit!! 😂
Turn your shoulder in a little bit, you'll be grand!"
OK so mistake #1 is not stretching and mobilising beforehand |
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"Again, that is down to communication
How do I hold myself up on all 4s if my small arm has to reach the balls too. I clearly need lessons."
Get one of those extendy grabber thing's that are used for picking up litter. Mind you don't accidentally pop a ball though. |
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Sex is very much about the biology of the body and it is a biological fact that the scrotum elongates with age therefore making it easier to get hold of in older men during doggie and lots of other positions.
So perhaps one mistake women are making is going for younger guys whose short fall in the scrotal region makes them a bit more difficult to play with.
As with many things in life it's often a question of "low hanging fruit".....
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By *og-Man OP Man 4 weeks ago
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"Sex is very much about the biology of the body and it is a biological fact that the scrotum elongates with age therefore making it easier to get hold of in older men during doggie and lots of other positions.
So perhaps one mistake women are making is going for younger guys whose short fall in the scrotal region makes them a bit more difficult to play with.
As with many things in life it's often a question of "low hanging fruit".....
🍒 😉 😇
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Was going to say smoothly done Badger
But there's nothing smooth about older balls |
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"Sex is very much about the biology of the body and it is a biological fact that the scrotum elongates with age therefore making it easier to get hold of in older men during doggie and lots of other positions.
So perhaps one mistake women are making is going for younger guys whose short fall in the scrotal region makes them a bit more difficult to play with.
As with many things in life it's often a question of "low hanging fruit".....
🍒 😉 😇
Was going to say smoothly done Badger
But there's nothing smooth about older balls "
.......
I beg to differ....
Some Veet and Nivea For Men can work wonders......
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end."
Yep, women will moan on for days about how to touch them. All the areas to rub and caress, to the rhythms required depending on the stage of the moon at that particular time!
Then, when presented with a penis carry on like it's a can of deodorant!
This double standard and lack of self-awareness really needs to be addressed! |
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end.
Yep, women will moan on for days about how to touch them. All the areas to rub and caress, to the rhythms required depending on the stage of the moon at that particular time!
Then, when presented with a penis carry on like it's a can of deodorant!
This double standard and lack of self-awareness really needs to be addressed!"
Fuck ya |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️
And it depends how far they are hanging
All I'm hearing is excuses ladies!
Of course, you'll have no bother at all reaching for your clit!! 😂
Turn your shoulder in a little bit, you'll be grand!"
You need to be flexible enough for this move.... 😳 Must sign up for some Pilates 😜 |
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"Again, that is down to communication
How do I hold myself up on all 4s if my small arm has to reach the balls too. I clearly need lessons.
Get one of those extendy grabber thing's that are used for picking up litter. Mind you don't accidentally pop a ball though."
Christ 🙈🙈
Luckily I have useful arms 😎 The talent is endless 😜
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?
Yea there’s not a hope I’d be able to reach. Short arms and a belly 🤷🏻♀️
And it depends how far they are hanging
All I'm hearing is excuses ladies!
Of course, you'll have no bother at all reaching for your clit!! 😂
Turn your shoulder in a little bit, you'll be grand!
You need to be flexible enough for this move.... 😳 Must sign up for some Pilates 😜 "
You could get a group class going with some of the short-limbed challenged, above!😛 |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Same as me.....never knew this😏"
Game changer ladies! |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂"
I have to say my hubby loves to have his balls sucked and nibbled and long tongue strokes from his balls up the shaft. I always love playing with his balls.
But I always ask a new play mate if he likes, as I have found not all me like this sort of treatment |
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By *indenMan 3 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
Men ignore their goolies too. How many ball pics do you see on Fab? Ye've made them irrelevant yerselves "
I’ve included mine in some of my pics, although visibility may be dependent on the temperature of the day….
To answer the original question, lack of communication, lack of communication and lack of communication. |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂"
Absolute legend for that list 😂 not reaching back for the balls in doggy is a big one and some women even after direction give such a half hearted effort!
Often get asked if I’m into blow jobs and always say no, every woman think she gives the best blow job ever and it’s meh 🫤 There’s very few out there who surprise you and you have to tell to stop or the show will be over too soon.
While some women forget the balls and don’t lick or suck them, others try to suck them clean off 😳 little bit of tenderness is needed |
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"Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
Deal, now will you wash my sheets after you’ve made a mess of them?
Did you ever hear of the fable of Icarus? "
Women don’t mess the sheets, it’s what the man does to her that involuntarily makes the woman “ruin” the sheets. It’s a compliment really to the guy if they need to change the sheets. |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂"
That would take some serious flexibility lol must try it though |
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"Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
Deal, now will you wash my sheets after you’ve made a mess of them?
Did you ever hear of the fable of Icarus?
Women don’t mess the sheets, it’s what the man does to her that involuntarily makes the woman “ruin” the sheets. It’s a compliment really to the guy if they need to change the sheets. "
Its the only time of year some men get to change the sheets. |
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end."
What constitutes a good ‘un?
Also unrelated but since this appears to be a learning space… what works best when a woman is on top? |
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By *og-Man OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end.
What constitutes a good ‘un?
Also unrelated but since this appears to be a learning space… what works best when a woman is on top?"
Jiggle your boobs ...we've funny visual creatures |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Absolute legend for that list 😂 not reaching back for the balls in doggy is a big one and some women even after direction give such a half hearted effort!
Often get asked if I’m into blow jobs and always say no, every woman think she gives the best blow job ever and it’s meh 🫤 There’s very few out there who surprise you and you have to tell to stop or the show will be over too soon.
While some women forget the balls and don’t lick or suck them, others try to suck them clean off 😳 little bit of tenderness is needed "
Only one woman can give the best blowjobs and I happen to know who that is. If you're not into blowjobs you most certainly haven't had one from her! |
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end.
What constitutes a good ‘un?
Also unrelated but since this appears to be a learning space… what works best when a woman is on top?
Jiggle your boobs ...we've funny visual creatures "
The answer to all life’s quandaries! |
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As a female contributor I'll fess up to Gag reflex. I do my best and I can take it for a while but there will be a point where I can't. I know you like the mascara streaming down the face look and I can do that too for a little while, but basically that's your cue you have another 1 minute at most. |
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end.
What constitutes a good ‘un?
Also unrelated but since this appears to be a learning space… what works best when a woman is on top?"
A firm grip but not like it's someone or something ye wanna ch*ke of life out of 😂 sliding the hand up & down or if lube is been used twist your hand around it (but again not trying to kill it)
On top I'd say play with your boobs exactly how you'd like us to play with them so then we get the learning part too 🤪 |
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Bad hand jobs are when it feels like you're trying to get us to cum and that's the only point, take us there slowly, please don't ignore the balls but be very gentle with them, also the area around the ass is very sensual, you have two hands and a tongue that will have a man wriggling if you use them, also if you want rounds two , three and more , it becomes less likely to happen if you've beaten the life out of my meat sausage like you're trying to get the last out of a ketchup bottle. |
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A firm grip but not like it's someone or something ye wanna ch*ke of life out of 😂 sliding the hand up & down or if lube is been used twist your hand around it (but again not trying to kill it)
On top I'd say play with your boobs exactly how you'd like us to play with them so then we get the learning part too 🤪"
What if how you like them played with, is having someone’s face and mouth all up in them… just supposing! |
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A firm grip but not like it's someone or something ye wanna ch*ke of life out of 😂 sliding the hand up & down or if lube is been used twist your hand around it (but again not trying to kill it)
On top I'd say play with your boobs exactly how you'd like us to play with them so then we get the learning part too 🤪
What if how you like them played with, is having someone’s face and mouth all up in them… just supposing!"
Well then lean forward some more & get that face all up in them 😈 |
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A firm grip but not like it's someone or something ye wanna ch*ke of life out of 😂 sliding the hand up & down or if lube is been used twist your hand around it (but again not trying to kill it)
On top I'd say play with your boobs exactly how you'd like us to play with them so then we get the learning part too 🤪
What if how you like them played with, is having someone’s face and mouth all up in them… just supposing!"
Nom, nom, nom, nom |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂"
Stroking man's balls while being fucked doggy style is physically impossible to me #TRexArms 🙈
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking man's balls while being fucked doggy style is physically impossible to me #TRexArms 🙈
Missus "
Sometimes you could ask someone to lend a helping hand #noballuntouched |
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By *attooYouMan 3 weeks ago
just about northside |
"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking man's balls while being fucked doggy style is physically impossible to me #TRexArms 🙈
Missus "
Not at all! Mine get fondled all the time by her in doggy. Easy peasy |
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"Bad handjobs. Seriously. It's not a can of spray paint that needs to be shaken vigorously before you use it. That bit happens at the end.
What constitutes a good ‘un?
Also unrelated but since this appears to be a learning space… what works best when a woman is on top?"
Gonna use this as an invitation to talk about how I like to be touched down below, as it’s been a long time and I miss it.
Firstly, what people without penises need to know about them is that the distribution of nerve endings and the mechanical characteristics of the tissue are not homogeneous, or to say that again in much more plain terms, the penis has different regions and these respond differently to stimulation. Furthermore, no two are alike, so what might be good for one person may be very underwhelming or even overstimulating for another.
For instance, my penis can enjoy a lot of compression and friction at the base of the shaft, and much less of both towards the tip. What’s ideal for me then is for my partner to vary the intensity of their grip as they stroke me to match with these features. Keeping the amount of grip constant while stroking doesn’t do a lot for me, because it will alternate uncomfortably between being too tight and too loose.
Another factor to consider is rhythm. It’s a well known faux pas for a man to blindly pound away during sex with a woman, but same holds true for a handjob: jerking it too vigorously gets boring for me and in some cases might be painful if I’m not aroused enough to withstand it. However, being too slow and delicate is also problematic, unless it’s supplemented with other things such as dirty talk or additional stimulation. The ideal for me is to vary the rhythm throughout, gradually building up the intensity in a series of waves in tandem with my level of arousal. The closer I am to the edge the more “punishment” I’ll be able to take (and in fact will want).
Then, as others have commented, there are the balls and the perineum: including these is very welcome, but there’s also the frenulum which for me is very sensitive. I love when it’s brushed against delicately by a finger or a tongue. I imagine it’s what a woman feels when their clítoris is teased.
Lastly and most importantly, enthusiasm. We know that your wrist won’t be as adept and endurant as our own and it might feel like a chore, but if you can get yourself excited about the pleasure you’re giving us that adds a whole lot to the experience.
I hope that makes for an interesting read for the ladies here, and it would also be cool to see whether any of the guys can relate. |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!"
Jaffa, you haven’t lived |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!
Some of us only have short arms???
We could use a stick to poke at them if you like?"
This made me howl🤣 |
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By *og-Man OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"You love a G spot orgasm but very few seem to know how to give a P spot orgasm
I see all women have ignored this post, unsurprisingly
In fairness, most men wouldn't know how to give themselves a P spot orgasm either "
Like the other replies...
Our arms are too short |
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"You love a G spot orgasm but very few seem to know how to give a P spot orgasm
I see all women have ignored this post, unsurprisingly
In fairness, most men wouldn't know how to give themselves a P spot orgasm either
Like the other replies...
Our arms are too short "
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Not those of us Neanderthals whose knuckles touch the ground.....🐒 |
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"You love a G spot orgasm but very few seem to know how to give a P spot orgasm
I see all women have ignored this post, unsurprisingly
In fairness, most men wouldn't know how to give themselves a P spot orgasm either
Like the other replies...
Our arms are too short "
As suggested previously, try poking it with a stick, see how it feels |
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By *og-Man OP Man 3 weeks ago
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"You love a G spot orgasm but very few seem to know how to give a P spot orgasm
I see all women have ignored this post, unsurprisingly
In fairness, most men wouldn't know how to give themselves a P spot orgasm either
Like the other replies...
Our arms are too short
As suggested previously, try poking it with a stick, see how it feels "
Definitely not it's nicer with someone else's well lubed finger |
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I think the biggest mistake we can do is not know how the tool we are playing with work. I believe knowledge is power, the more we know about it the better performance and the better joy for everyone involved , this both ways like!
I follow a very interesting lady on insta she is a sex coach and she makes really good informative content, highly recommend to girls and also boys. She is class! Cainthecoach is called x |
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"Fuck it, I'll start it.
The lack of attention women give to a man's balls is staggering!
If your fucking doggy-style and your not stroking his balls, what the fuck are you doing!
Regardless of how good you are at giving handjob/blowjobs if your not stroking his balls it's only, meh!
Come at me!!🤜 😂
Stroking his balls while he’s fucking you doggy style? That’s a new one on me!!!"
I'd better get arm extensions! |
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