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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi |
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"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi"
Is that a wedding ring I spy? 
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey  |
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Don't expect to have people lining up to meet you.
Don't expect for even 1/4 of your messages sent to be read or answered.
Look out for new accounts, unverified accounts and ones with no photos. Alot have been spring up recently. They seem too good to be true and often are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi
Is that a wedding ring I spy?
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey "
Nope no wedding ring and not married |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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"Don't expect to have people lining up to meet you.
Don't expect for even 1/4 of your messages sent to be read or answered.
Look out for new accounts, unverified accounts and ones with no photos. Alot have been spring up recently. They seem too good to be true and often are."
Thank you for the tips I'll keep an eye out for those. I don't have much expectations, just trying to put myself out there a bit |
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"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi
Is that a wedding ring I spy?
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey "
...specsavers for you... |
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By *indenMan 5 weeks ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi
Is that a wedding ring I spy?
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey
Nope no wedding ring and not married"
To be fair, it looks like you’re holding your phone with your left hand and there appears to be a ring on your ring finger.
Although if I had to guess, I’d say the picture is a reflection so probably looks reversed.
If it’s an iphone then the lense is on the right when looking at the screen and is being held with the right hand……. 🕵️♂️ |
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Welcome.
18 to 99..?
You could be more discerning.
Ask a friend to take, edit, and carefully compose a few good profile pics. B and W works well.
Your profile is much the same as 2,000 other guys on here.. rewrite it, honestly, stand out from the norm.
Maybe ask a female friend to write your profile, she'll have a better idea of what women want.
Work on getting a verification, ..so important, a social, a coffee meet.
Be proactive on the forum, it increases your exposure to many 000,s of couples and women quietly lurking, listening and watching.
Best of luck.
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Welcome to the forums OP.
My top tips?
Read the site FAQs
Be yourself and be true to yourself - don't even try to please everyone because that's the road to nowhere.
Don't be afraid to hold out for what you want. No-one is a commodity here or has a monopoly on sexual fulfilment. Enjoyment should be mutual.
Balance optimism with managing your expectations. It can be tough going for guys here. If you find yourself worn down by how things are going, take a break and hide your profile.
If it seems to be too good to be true, it often is.
Whilst group socials aren't for everyone, they can be a great way to meet and get to know people. I'd venture that small group/afternoon coffee socials are easier for a first timer.
Don't lead with your cock...big head before the wee head always
K
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By *aughty MilfCouple 5 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi
Is that a wedding ring I spy?
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey "
definitely a shadow of a ring |
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It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.
The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.
OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️
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By *aughty MilfCouple 5 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"Hey all
Relatively new guy here too! Although I have met and chatted with some really cool people already.
Is there any socials people would recommend as “the best” for a first timer?"
DV8 in Dublin |
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"Hey all
Relatively new guy here too! Although I have met and chatted with some really cool people already.
Is there any socials people would recommend as “the best” for a first timer?DV8 in Dublin "
Thanks, I’ll look into going to one… would be nice to meet some like minded people 😄 |
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OP’s profile has vanished into the ether. Quite peculiar. Perhaps he perceived hostility in the responses, can’t say that I’d blame him. Maybe it was justified, maybe it wasn’t, we’ll never know.
I often wonder about the ephemeral profiles I see on here. I’ve seen plenty of threads posted where the OP disappeared almost immediately. I presume in some instances this is because the user got banned. |
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"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.
The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.
OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️
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Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was. |
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"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi
Is that a wedding ring I spy?
Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.
Good luck with your Fab journey "
Send in the forensics!! |
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"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.
The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.
OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️
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Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was."
"Is that a wedding ring I spy? "
What that necessary? It was a loaded remark.
"Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio."
How did you perceive that he was married without even being cognisant of any facts beforehand?
"It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not."
He didn't need to be lectured with patronising 'suggestions'.
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"I feel like the OP just had the forum version of the eye of sauron hone in on him and wasn't ready for the trial by friendly fire. Hopefully he'll come back tempered rather than traumatised  "
Indeed. Another possibility is that he figured his profile had been tainted by this talk of his marital status and he’s decided to bounce to a new one to eliminate the negative association. Think your explanation is the more likely one though. |
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"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.
The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.
OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️
Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was."
...he asked for tips....not self appointed judges... |
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By *oldByMarCouple 4 weeks ago
playa de ingles / outa da west |
"Poor man I'm actually disgusted the way he was questioned, too many Karen's here, if I wanted to know anyone's personal business I'd ask in private, so fucking sad🤔 "
Totally agree with you 💯 %
Who’s Fuckn business is it if he’s married or not.. he’s not the only one 
The Karen’s & white knights jumping to conclusions are ridiculing the guy .
Some of ye should have a good log look at yourselves in the mirror and see how Fuckn perfect ye are before you comment to others  |
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"Poor man I'm actually disgusted the way he was questioned, too many Karen's here, if I wanted to know anyone's personal business I'd ask in private, so fucking sad🤔
Totally agree with you 💯 %
Who’s Fuckn business is it if he’s married or not.. he’s not the only one
The Karen’s & white knights jumping to conclusions are ridiculing the guy .
Some of ye should have a good log look at yourselves in the mirror and see how Fuckn perfect ye are before you comment to others "
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The question is if you take a look at yourself in the mirror will that be a true reflection of you or will the shoe be on the other foot or the ring on the other finger.....
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One things for sure, if he does comes back, I can't see him asking for 'friendly' advice on the forums again!!
