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By *og-Man OP Man 5 weeks ago
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Another viewpoint from a different thread.
Do you sent friend requests..why and when
Do you except friend requests .....why or why not
Some people might not realise that if you leave a friend request unanswered then the person can't send another one
Myself .....find it very hard to send friend requests being honest |
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By *og-Man OP Man 5 weeks ago
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"If I've started chatting to someone and we are getting on and I want to see their friends gallery I'll send one.
What do you find hard about it Bog?"
I sometimes think that the person who I'd like to send the request to will just think I want to see their friends photos
The ones they keep for people that they might want to have sex with
I know I'm probably a bit strange to even be on here sometimes  |
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I don't accept any from people I've never spoken to and I've never sent one to anyone I haven't been chatting to for weeks at least.
I used to get them all the time from various women competing on hotpics as they were trying to keep their numbers up.
I'd never spoken to any of them and never even heard of half of them before they sent the requests but I refused them all and when I discovered they couldn't send another if I didn't delete that's what I've done ever since. |
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I would send a friend request if the conversation was moving towards a meet and to show that I was serious about meeting them.
Tbh, it was naiveté on my part to do that before meeting and not something I'll be doing in future.
I was talking to someone far more knowledge on this and someone I trust on it so I'll be following their advice. |
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I'll send one if the chat is going good or if we've met and are likely to meet again
I find it handy to have those status updates at the top of my feed and sure I might also see more bewbs and that's nice too |
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If a friend request is pending, the sender can't send any other one? To anyone? If that's the case we might have to reject a few we have pending. We thought it was safe to hold on to them until we get to meet and decide, and less aggressive than rejecting outright. |
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"If a friend request is pending, the sender can't send any other one? To anyone? If that's the case we might have to reject a few we have pending. We thought it was safe to hold on to them until we get to meet and decide, and less aggressive than rejecting outright."
They can send requests to others. Just can't send you another one |
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Unless you use your friends only pics/vid options, then I really don’t understand what benefit it has. All my pics are public so I accept all friends requests coz I can’t think of a reason not to 🤷🏻♀️ |
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I have never sent a random friend request out before and only do sent a request when:
1. Been chatting to someone for a decent period of time
2. We have discussed it first.
I'll never accept a random unsolicited friend request, no matter how stunning or amazing the profile might seem.
It can result in very limited amount of friends on a friends list, but I'm OK with that 😎 |
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I don't send friend request unless chatting and I'm asked to add them,
Can count on 1 hand my friend list now,
People I've met and or a met is very near,
I've had more on it but conversations have fizzled out or if conversations take 4/5 working days to get a 6 word reply, they got the delete button , I'm sure no big loss for them or me, it's no biggy
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"Another viewpoint from a different thread.
Do you sent friend requests..why and when
Do you except friend requests .....why or why not
Some people might not realise that if you leave a friend request unanswered then the person can't send another one
Myself .....find it very hard to send friend requests being honest "
I wouldn't normally except friend requests unless I have met the person, or have a meet organised but I did break that rule a month or so ago when a well verified female sent a request and she has some amazing pics and videos so I accepted the request. Hopefully we can sort out a meet in the near future  |
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"Unless you use your friends only pics/vid options, then I really don’t understand what benefit it has. All my pics are public so I accept all friends requests coz I can’t think of a reason not to 🤷🏻♀️"
Of course the friends gallery is a huge reason to befriend but it's not the only one.
If you hit the updates button it give "Friends updates" first. For us adding friends is a handy way of keeping up with what our Fab mates are up to .
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"Unless you use your friends only pics/vid options, then I really don’t understand what benefit it has. All my pics are public so I accept all friends requests coz I can’t think of a reason not to 🤷🏻♀️
Of course the friends gallery is a huge reason to befriend but it's not the only one.
If you hit the updates button it give "Friends updates" first. For us adding friends is a handy way of keeping up with what our Fab mates are up to .
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Would the hotlist not do the same thing as that, give you updates from those on your list? (Just asking in case I'm missing something obvious) |
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Only accept them from people I've met and are talking with and plan to meet again. Have maybe only sent one or two. Might have accepted the odd one or 2 if I've been chatting foe a while but when it's clear no meet is on the cards I'll unfriend |
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Can't understand how a complete randomer would think someone would accept a friend request without any precious interactions. Baffles me, and I'm not easily baffled (that may or may not be entirely true.. ). |
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Rarely will send a friend invite. Think we have sent two since we came back and those were to people we previously had met.
Do we accept them? Yes but again only from people we know and have met and will likely meet again. If it's a random invite we block them for one reason. It show they haven't read our profile and in that case we aren't interested 😎 |
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By *astelloWoman 5 weeks ago
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I never really send a friend request usually the other way. I also regularly purge if l haven't been in contact for a while.
Never accept unsolicited ones.
My pics are woefully boring anyway. Better off going to hot pics.
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"Another viewpoint from a different thread.
Do you sent friend requests..why and when
Do you except friend requests .....why or why not
Some people might not realise that if you leave a friend request unanswered then the person can't send another one
Myself .....find it very hard to send friend requests being honest "
Maybe if you know or have met the person ,yes ,other than that ,no. |
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"If I've started chatting to someone and we are getting on and I want to see their friends gallery I'll send one.
What do you find hard about it Bog?"
This..and I usually say it if I’m chatting to someone, will we send friend request… random ones u just bulk delete every now and again without looking and it would never occur to me to send a random one |
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We add people as friends they fall into two categories, we've met them and want to meet again, and we'd like to meet them.
We travel to different clubs and use fab like a swingers Facebook. Adding people means we can keep up to date with friends all over the country.
We only remove them if they haven't been online for months, or they haven't been user verified within a year. |
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