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How Message Sneaky Are You?👀🙈📩
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By *s Lolly OP Woman 18 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Do you open messages straight away?
Do you open, read them then leave open till you've time to reply?
Do you open, read them then stick them back to unread and maybe reply or not reply at a later time?
How message sneaky are you?👀📩 |
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I'll usually open ones from people I'm already chatting to whenever I see them.
Sometimes I'm not in the mood to deal with messages, or feel much like chatting to new people - I might just want to mooch round the forums - in which case I just ignore my inbox.
If I have a message from someone I like the look of, I do sometimes read then mark unread again because I might prefer to reply when I'm better placed to message back, or if I want to take a better look at their profile etc. |
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By *iscuits8Man 18 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
I'll generally open them and reply straight away. They're a rarity to be fair, sure I only love seeing that little yellow '1 unread' 
If I can't give a proper reply whether it's being busy working or out and about/around company, I'll usually give it a quick read and mark it back unread and return to it.
I talk an awful amount of waffle to be honest so the replies aren't usually something to be waiting on with great anticipation  |
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Like every male on here there is something about that rush you get when you see that little yellow box appear up top, so usually I would open as soon as I see it.
Replying all depends on what was in that message obviously 😏. DM’s are open if anyone wants to give it a go! |
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By *rRiosMan 18 weeks ago
dublin |
I never mark as unread. I feel it’s disrespectful to someone who has taken time and effort to message me. I generally always reply but there have been times I haven’t.
Saying that, I’m not exactly bombarded with messages and I very rarely receive nasty/abusive follow ups and if I did I would maybe change my behavior. |
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"Do you open messages straight away?
Do you open, read them then leave open till you've time to reply?
Do you open, read them then stick them back to unread and maybe reply or not reply at a later time?
How message sneaky are you?👀📩"
I never knew you could read and put back as unread !!!! 😮😮😮 |
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Usually leave them unread for a short while if I can see the full message without opening. Then go through them and maybr mark as unread if we plan to reply.
If you can see the person has been online then they have a reason for leaving it unread. What I don't like is when people can see that and message to ask why you've been online and not replied 🤣
Like maybe we have jobs??  and want to put some thought in. |
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Depends on my form and how busy I am otherwise.
Sometimes I'll open mails straight away from people who I dont really know or am not that interested in because I'm bored and fancy a chat.
Sometimes I leave people I find intriguing on read because I just don't have the head space for chats outside of important stuff (work/family)
I'll only mark something unread after I've read it if I intend to reply when I have more time or mental energy to give a coherent reply |
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"Usually leave them unread for a short while if I can see the full message without opening. Then go through them and maybr mark as unread if we plan to reply.
If you can see the person has been online then they have a reason for leaving it unread. What I don't like is when people can see that and message to ask why you've been online and not replied 🤣
Like maybe we have jobs?? and want to put some thought in."
And this is when I will immediately decide I will no longer be relying 😂 really irritates me, himself doesn’t get as bothered by it.
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I usually open and try and reply straight away if I can. If they’ve bothered to take the time to mail me or reply, the least I can do is reciprocate. To me, I suppose it’s just down to manners however I also can understand people who receive a tonne a mail and they can’t reply to everyone or the mail just gets lost but if you’ve an interest in someone, you will reply. If you’re in a mail thread, you can just go into your mail and see their reply without opening their one. Sneaky I suppose but I’m sure some do it. 🙈 |
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By *ogladyWoman 18 weeks ago
The bog |
"I can normal tell what kind of message it's gonna be before I open them
Told you if you just give my willy a rating out of 10 I'll stop sending them  "
Told ya as soon as I get my Terry's chocolate orange I will.. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I do try to message back the nice sensible men..ignore the dick pictures, and the guys that wanna buy my knickers and tights, also the men that assume I want their cock, the list could go on . |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Im extra sneaky if I'm chatting with someone I'll not open message but I'll go to sent items and I'll be able to see new message without opening it "
That is seriously next level sneaky |
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By *iscuits8Man 18 weeks ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"Im extra sneaky if I'm chatting with someone I'll not open message but I'll go to sent items and I'll be able to see new message without opening it "
Have to admit to using this method too *strokes chin* |
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"Im extra sneaky if I'm chatting with someone I'll not open message but I'll go to sent items and I'll be able to see new message without opening it "
Hehe I do this too. If I'm interested and id rather they think I just didn't read the message yet, than I read it but didn't bother replying.
I'm never quite sure if reading it and then marking it as unread will mark it as unread for us or for both parties . |
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By *s Lolly OP Woman 18 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Im extra sneaky if I'm chatting with someone I'll not open message but I'll go to sent items and I'll be able to see new message without opening it "
Totally do this all the time especially if they send pictures.... |
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"Hold on a f**King minute here, are you all trying to tell me people actually reply to messages on here!!! Who knew "
Sometimes, if the profile has some hot pics on display or a fun looking profile pic. |
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"Do you open messages straight away?
Do you open, read them then leave open till you've time to reply?
Do you open, read them then stick them back to unread and maybe reply or not reply at a later time?
How message sneaky are you?👀📩"
1) Yes but not from unverified people
2) Never ever, no need for it
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3) Never ever, no need for it |
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I'm lethal when it comes to my inbox. Filters are tight.
Blank profile with nothing to entice me in - delete
Dick pic - block and delete
If its a 3rd nessage and I haven't replied to the previous 2 messages - block and delete
If I'm interested I'll reply if I can, if I can't ill leave on unread and comeback when I can reply. |
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Tend to read most mesages and will respond if it looks like what were looking for or peaks our interest.
Will regularly read and then put on unread for Mrs to see.
The following are just deleted immediately:
When you know all it says before you have to open it - Delete
No profile pics - delete
All pics on friends only - delete
On here over a year and no veris - delete
Multi previous messages- delete/block |
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"I'll usually open ones from people I'm already chatting to whenever I see them.
Sometimes I'm not in the mood to deal with messages, or feel much like chatting to new people - I might just want to mooch round the forums - in which case I just ignore my inbox.
If I have a message from someone I like the look of, I do sometimes read then mark unread again because I might prefer to reply when I'm better placed to message back, or if I want to take a better look at their profile etc. "
Same( thanks for that,saved me typing that all out)😁 |
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"I'll usually open ones from people I'm already chatting to whenever I see them.
Sometimes I'm not in the mood to deal with messages, or feel much like chatting to new people - I might just want to mooch round the forums - in which case I just ignore my inbox.
If I have a message from someone I like the look of, I do sometimes read then mark unread again because I might prefer to reply when I'm better placed to message back, or if I want to take a better look at their profile etc. "
This is my approach too, depends on how chatty I’m feeling and why I’m on |
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"the rarity of actually receiving a message means that they are like Christmas presents and duely opened like a little schoolboy at 5am on Dec 25th,..
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I used that analogy to a lady yesterday in a mail and chat ended. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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"Do you open messages straight away?
Do you open, read them then leave open till you've time to reply?
Do you open, read them then stick them back to unread and maybe reply or not reply at a later time?
How message sneaky are you?👀📩"
What's a message ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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"The whole message comes through to my email. So I can see it's entirety. I answer when I can. Just because I'm online doesn't mean I'm time to reply at that moment. "
Same. Surprised it took until this far in the thread to mention this method. Fab messages go to my throwaway email address so I usually see them there first.
Before I set up my filters I got a steady stream of shite messages from guys. I’d typically mark these as read as soon as time allowed, but I never delete messages: it just feels unnatural to me in a world where computer storage is abundant. However, perhaps I should though, since I’ve come to realise that leaving people “on read” unintentionally sends a mixed signal. Less of an issue now though after setting my filters.
I still usually mark messages as read as soon as I’m able to, even if I’ve screened the message via my email inbox. The main exception is when I receive a message that I want to reply to: for those I’ll only read it once I’m ready to send a proper reply, which is sometimes not right away.
I do very little messaging on here anyway, so it’s not exactly a lot of work to keep on top of it.
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