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- how to read a profile
- how to message a gal and have a higher chance of getting a reply
- Pics - actually have a profile pic (absurd, I know!) and have some friends only ones to make it worth worth the while. Try something more than just 47 different angles of a dick (just a wee suggestion. lol)  |
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"- how to read a profile
- how to message a gal and have a higher chance of getting a reply
- Pics - actually have a profile pic (absurd, I know!) and have some friends only ones to make it worth worth the while. Try something more than just 47 different angles of a dick (just a wee suggestion. lol) "
You’re gas, absolutely gas🤣🤣 |
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By *aughty MilfCouple 6 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"- how to read a profile
- how to message a gal and have a higher chance of getting a reply
- Pics - actually have a profile pic (absurd, I know!) and have some friends only ones to make it worth worth the while. Try something more than just 47 different angles of a dick (just a wee suggestion. lol) "
Be great if some could actually read profile might save them wasting sending a message lol |
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"Be nice to everyone and be patient
I will always try to be - some don’t make that easy though "
they defo don’t it’s saying ok thanks and stop the conversation I have been tested so much been single here not use to it and the messages it is really hard I know that |
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" Try something more than just 47 different angles of a dick (just a wee suggestion. lol)
I don’t think you allowed wee suggestion pictures on this site   "
I’m sure was ment stop showing me all them angles of it |
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"You don't have to tell everyone that you're not bi or gay on every single post you write
We get it you're straight and you dont need to knock a section of the community all the time "
is this you saying I’m bi and letting everyone know 😂😂 I’m joking before u jump down my neck 🧐😂😂 |
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By *og-ManMan 6 weeks ago
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"You don't have to tell everyone that you're not bi or gay on every single post you write
We get it you're straight and you dont need to knock a section of the community all the time is this you saying I’m bi and letting everyone know 😂😂 I’m joking before u jump down my neck 🧐😂😂"
I have it on my profile
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"You don't have to tell everyone that you're not bi or gay on every single post you write
We get it you're straight and you dont need to knock a section of the community all the time is this you saying I’m bi and letting everyone know 😂😂 I’m joking before u jump down my neck 🧐😂😂
I have it on my profile
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I know bud 🤦♀️😂😂😂😂 |
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Create a username name and be vague about your location to an extent but you can still be honest. If you are single, state that. If you attached say you are. If you are Bi, don't hide it. If you can host, say it up front, that will win brownie points. |
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"Be nice to everyone and be patient
I will always try to be - some don’t make that easy though they defo don’t it’s saying ok thanks and stop the conversation I have been tested so much been single here not use to it and the messages it is really hard I know that "
Use of full stops. |
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"Be nice to everyone and be patient
I will always try to be - some don’t make that easy though they defo don’t it’s saying ok thanks and stop the conversation I have been tested so much been single here not use to it and the messages it is really hard I know that
Use of full stops."
ok Simon calm down … ffs 🤦♀️🤦♀️😂😂😂…… |
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Reminds me of that time a couple of here tried to set up a info session for single guys on how to promote themselves better , giving feedback on their profiles and telling them what to say, or not, what couples and single females were looking for... actually said it would be like lessons on how to improve.
And they wanted blokes to pay them for this valuable insight.
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Speak to people like you would in person, some of those first messages are 
Chancing your arm isn’t as “lol” or “haha” as you think it is and not getting a reply isn’t rude or stuck up
Having a non conversation with yourself in someone’s inbox, as you send dozens of messages that haven’t been read or answered isn’t doing you any favours.
The green arrow exists
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"Reminds me of that time a couple of here tried to set up a info session for single guys on how to promote themselves better , giving feedback on their profiles and telling them what to say, or not, what couples and single females were looking for... actually said it would be like lessons on how to improve.
And they wanted blokes to pay them for this valuable insight.
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How much? Asking for a friend.. |
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"Be nice to everyone and be patient
I will always try to be - some don’t make that easy though they defo don’t it’s saying ok thanks and stop the conversation I have been tested so much been single here not use to it and the messages it is really hard I know that
Use of full stops.ok Simon calm down … ffs 🤦♀️🤦♀️😂😂😂……"
See, you can do it!! |
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By *og-ManMan 6 weeks ago
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"Reminds me of that time a couple of here tried to set up a info session for single guys on how to promote themselves better , giving feedback on their profiles and telling them what to say, or not, what couples and single females were looking for... actually said it would be like lessons on how to improve.
And they wanted blokes to pay them for this valuable insight.
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So did you get a certificate at the end of the lesson |
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"Reminds me of that time a couple of here tried to set up a info session for single guys on how to promote themselves better , giving feedback on their profiles and telling them what to say, or not, what couples and single females were looking for... actually said it would be like lessons on how to improve.
And they wanted blokes to pay them for this valuable insight.
So did you get a certificate at the end of the lesson "
I would hope so
Couldn't go unfortunately, I wonder if it ever went ahead, it was the pure altruistic act that fascinated me, and thinking of the poor single fellas with no veries needing help from the fab elite |
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"Create a username name and be vague about your location to an extent but you can still be honest. If you are single, state that. If you attached say you are. If you are Bi, don't hide it. If you can host, say it up front, that will win brownie points. "
...after all...thats what we're here for..brownie points...  |
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I think I'd assign mandatory reading of 'The Ethical Slut'. Great resource on Ethical non-monogamy.
A talk on consent, definitely seen issues arise at parties where certain people had assumptions.
I think the singles guys could benefit from a lesson on understanding what it's like to be a women, or a couple in the scene.
I know a lot of couples who've reported awkwardness with single men who they felt didn't respect their relationship.
Swinging is a couples sport. It has a whole emotional interpersonal dynamic to it that singles often can't relate to.
A whole lesson on what single women look for and like would hopefully lead to an improvement in profile bios and pictures. |
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"Close the toilet lid when taking pics , pic up dirty clothes in the background lol
And take your undergarments and trousers off fully, rather than have them halfway down your legs!"
Definitely 🤣
And take socks off  |
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"The difference between discrete and discreet. Every time I read the former I imagine a person made of building blocks "
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Discrete means “separate” or “distinct.” It's used especially in mathematical and research contexts as the opposite of “continuous.”
Discreet is used to mean “inconspicuous,” “cautious,” or “discerning.” It's used in less technical contexts, usually to describe people, actions, and things.
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"I think I'd assign mandatory reading of 'The Ethical Slut'. Great resource on Ethical non-monogamy.
A talk on consent, definitely seen issues arise at parties where certain people had assumptions.
I think the singles guys could benefit from a lesson on understanding what it's like to be a women, or a couple in the scene.
I know a lot of couples who've reported awkwardness with single men who they felt didn't respect their relationship.
Swinging is a couples sport. It has a whole emotional interpersonal dynamic to it that singles often can't relate to.
A whole lesson on what single women look for and like would hopefully lead to an improvement in profile bios and pictures. "
Very good book, easy enjoyable read
Ella
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