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"Interesting lyrics.
Could be interpreted as being about grooming of children.
GM would probably not get called out on those creepy lyrics today if he was still around.
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Fixing this...
GM would hopefully get called out on those questionable lyrics in this more enlightened era, if he was still around.
Creepy is as creepy does.....
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I have found it quite common and often it only surfaces as the lady is nearing orgasm.
I think, maybe incorrectly, that some women feel too shy to admit beforehand that it does arouse them a lot.
Once out on the open they embrace it all the time. |
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Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about. |
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"I've never actually heard of a mummy fetish, I just thought lots of women have daddy issues lol" it’s nothing to do with having Daddy issues. As many have already mentioned it’s a common role play in D/s, (Daddy Doms (DD) and littles). It’s one of my favourite Kinks TBH. This article explains it well;
https://blog.kinkly.com/definition/daddy-kink/ |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about."
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"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
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Indeed sometimes you do. |
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By *og-ManMan 19 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
"
It's about how being gay was still a crime in parts of the world when he wrote it at the age of 24 and he still wasn't out
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
"
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist. |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
"
Because of course, no one has ever used metaphors in song writing, poetry or literature ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist."
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If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Because of course, no one has ever used metaphors in song writing, poetry or literature "
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As a student of English literature and poetry and a published poet myself I fully appreciate the use of metaphor in song lyrics.
And yes it is often used to describe something which the writer is unwilling to say straight out.
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By *og-ManMan 19 weeks ago
somewhere |
"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
"
Whatever about your opinion of him as a songwriter and I'd definitely disagree with you on that the man was a genius.
I definitely think you associated a gay man and being a pedo in your other post which is wrong |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
"
It's not veiled at all badger. You cherry picked a couple of lines and invited a clear interpretation.
Your intentions, in my opinion, speak for themselves.
Even a cursory Google search would have put the song in context. That's what I did before jumping to conclusions. |
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I will be your father figure (Oh, baby)
Put your tiny hand in mine (I'd love to)
I will be your preacher teacher (Be your daddy)
Anything you have in mind (It would make me)
I will be your father figure (Very happy)
I have had enough of crime (Please let me)
I will be the one who loves you
'Til the end of time (Of time)
That's all I wanted
But sometimes love can be mistaken
For a crime
That's all I wanted
Just to see my baby's
Blue eyes shine
Funny in version I can see those two lines don't appear one after the other 🤔
The whole daddy thing still give me the ick ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
It's not veiled at all badger. You cherry picked a couple of lines and invited a clear interpretation.
Your intentions, in my opinion, speak for themselves.
Even a cursory Google search would have put the song in context. That's what I did before jumping to conclusions."
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Each line in a song has meaning.
Otherwise it wouldn't make sense.
I have always been aware of the song and yes I did do a Google search just to refresh my memory.
I still believe my interpretation of the lyrics is as valid as that of any other person.
If having a different opinion to others makes me a bigot then that reflects more on others than it does on me. |
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Please don't sully such a beautiful song.
Lyrically it's meaning holds true whatever your sexuality IMO. I do wonder about how people's minds work and how they take massive leaps to something I can't see.
As for the dynamic, I'm all for it. I'm very aware people don't understand it, can treat it as a game or find it grotesque. Meh! |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
It's not veiled at all badger. You cherry picked a couple of lines and invited a clear interpretation.
Your intentions, in my opinion, speak for themselves.
Even a cursory Google search would have put the song in context. That's what I did before jumping to conclusions.
......
Each line in a song has meaning.
Otherwise it wouldn't make sense.
I have always been aware of the song and yes I did do a Google search just to refresh my memory.
I still believe my interpretation of the lyrics is as valid as that of any other person.
If having a different opinion to others makes me a bigot then that reflects more on others than it does on me."
I don't think your bigot badger. I just think that your particularly narrow and literal interpretation of those lyrics could be interpreted that way |
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
It's not veiled at all badger. You cherry picked a couple of lines and invited a clear interpretation.
Your intentions, in my opinion, speak for themselves.
Even a cursory Google search would have put the song in context. That's what I did before jumping to conclusions.
......
Each line in a song has meaning.
Otherwise it wouldn't make sense.
I have always been aware of the song and yes I did do a Google search just to refresh my memory.
I still believe my interpretation of the lyrics is as valid as that of any other person.
If having a different opinion to others makes me a bigot then that reflects more on others than it does on me.
I don't think your bigot badger. I just think that your particularly narrow and literal interpretation of those lyrics could be interpreted that way "
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Thank you for that.
As someone who's contributions on the forums I have always enjoyed I felt your use of the "b" word was uncharacteristically petty and totally uncalled for.
As I have stated those that know me know I have a broad-minded and non judgemental view of the world. If I didn't I would not feel comfortable being an active member of this site.
I felt I was being unfairly labelled a bigot for my views on what is after all a mere pop song but I am more than happy to accept your withdrawal of any such perceived accusation.
Fab should be fun but we should all be entitled to express our opinions without lowering ourselves to name calling.
I look forward to being able to enjoy delectable frozen dairy products when I am fully recovered from my current health blip.
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"Not 100%.. but I think that song represents quite a common gay daddy / little kink thats really another D/s power exchange and really not a sinister as it sounds to an outsider (as it's adult roleplay). It's a bold choice to write a song about.
.......
"Put your tiny hand in mine".
"Sometimes love can be mistaken for a crime".
The lyrics say it all.
Sometimes you just have to read between the lines.
😈👹
Or you could do the opposite and interpret the lyrics completely literally and cast bigoted aspersions on a great artist.
.......
If the suggestion is a veiled attempt to suggest that my interpretation of the lyrics makes me a bigot I am happy to state that anyone that knows me personally knows I am definitely not in any way bigoted and certainly not homophobic or particularly judgemental for that matter.
But I will admit that in my opinion GM was a mediocre, overly produced, pop singer/writer and that the lyrics of Father Figure are again in my opinion creepy.
It's not veiled at all badger. You cherry picked a couple of lines and invited a clear interpretation.
Your intentions, in my opinion, speak for themselves.
Even a cursory Google search would have put the song in context. That's what I did before jumping to conclusions.
......
Each line in a song has meaning.
Otherwise it wouldn't make sense.
I have always been aware of the song and yes I did do a Google search just to refresh my memory.
I still believe my interpretation of the lyrics is as valid as that of any other person.
If having a different opinion to others makes me a bigot then that reflects more on others than it does on me.
I don't think your bigot badger. I just think that your particularly narrow and literal interpretation of those lyrics could be interpreted that way
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Thank you for that.
As someone who's contributions on the forums I have always enjoyed I felt your use of the "b" word was uncharacteristically petty and totally uncalled for.
As I have stated those that know me know I have a broad-minded and non judgemental view of the world. If I didn't I would not feel comfortable being an active member of this site.
I felt I was being unfairly labelled a bigot for my views on what is after all a mere pop song but I am more than happy to accept your withdrawal of any such perceived accusation.
Fab should be fun but we should all be entitled to express our opinions without lowering ourselves to name calling.
I look forward to being able to enjoy delectable frozen dairy products when I am fully recovered from my current health blip.
🍦🤝🦡
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Her. 'F#ck me daddy'
Me. 'Please don't call me that,young lady'
Her. 'Why? Is it cos you have a daughter? '
Me. ' no it's because I had a father, and I used call him daddy,
When he fkd me'
Her............. |
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By *asual777Man 19 weeks ago
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I properly love George
Apart from apparently being a massively nice bloke , paying off people’s mortgages and stuff , he was hugely talented . Live versions of songs like somebody to love are elite , and i don’t even like that song .
Lyrics to heal the pain are possibly beyond competition
And it wasn’t his song , but in my very darkest time I can’t make you love me is so soothing . The fact that someone else might have felt like that enough to sing about it is enough to feel a bit less shit .
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We do both MommyDom and DD/lg a lot. Not at the same time obviously. We are currently doing mental chastity in locktober so I'm the Dominant and we've got an upcoming kink party in 3 weeks so this will be in place until then. |
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By *dfabMan 18 weeks ago
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"We do both MommyDom and DD/lg a lot. Not at the same time obviously. We are currently doing mental chastity in locktober so I'm the Dominant and we've got an upcoming kink party in 3 weeks so this will be in place until then. "
Mental chastity?
Locktober?
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"We do both MommyDom and DD/lg a lot. Not at the same time obviously. We are currently doing mental chastity in locktober so I'm the Dominant and we've got an upcoming kink party in 3 weeks so this will be in place until then.
Mental chastity?
Locktober?
Not everyone understands these. Please explain "
Locktober is a trend that sees men placing a chastity device on their dick (a cock cage usually) so they can't get hard but they can still pee. Their partner or Dominant might hold the key with them usually having an emergency key. Or if they do this solo they'll just self discipline with the key. The reasons for chastity varies, but denial, with a promise of a release that will blow their head off, is a common motivation. It is a submissive act and that in itself is a common motivation. So for all of October men will stay in Chastity.
My partner is allowed to get hard, but he's not allowed to cum. We have built in a punishment and reward system so if he cums once he gets a small punishment and if he cums a second time he gets a more scaled up version. The more times he breaks it the worse it gets. The third one will be intolerable and I know he won't go there. So our Chastity is about the orgasms not the erections, because I still want them as I am using him for my pleasure.
He can call an end to this any time without any punishment or even my disappointment. It's all discussed and safeworded. |
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