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Telling it like it is
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By *ustBoWoman 6 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Nope I've nothing to say to anyone. Backs out of thread and apologies for commenting.
Ponders if for once I am the ray of sunshine in a thread 🌞😄
You must have had a good day  "
Nope I actually had the opposite but still have nothing I want to say that's bad to anyone on here. Maybe cos I have a teeny tiny circle on here now that I interact with 🤷😀
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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Like everything in life there's people that enhance your life & there's also that that are total head wreckers, in all walk of life , here & in the real world , so you gotta make up your mind which is which , embrace those that do enhance, avoid those that don't ...if you can.😁 |
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Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots. |
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"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots. "
Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer?? |
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I have to agree with jaffa on this one. It kinda brings out the negative where we should all just try to be more positive. No disrespect to the Op now in any way or anyone else for that matter , but yeah just my thoughts |
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"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.
Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer??"
Have you taken a bang to the head and forgotten how people behave on the internet?  |
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Agree with Jaffa too.
"Telling it like it is".... But actually not telling it, alluding to annoyances in public, rather than sorting them out in private or letting them go.
Sh1tstirring.
(I regret contributing... I ll let it go). |
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"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.
Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer??
Have you taken a bang to the head and forgotten how people behave on the internet? "
You mean like you behaved with that reply? |
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By *asual777 OP Man 6 weeks ago
i travel all over |
"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots. "
Over the years you have not needed a telling it like it is thread to tell it like it is . You have on several occasions , uninvited, giving me a piece of your mind, without retaliation.
Tbh whilst some of these posts have taken me aback , I have reflected on some of them, and maybe acted somewhat less entitled than previously I hope. This is the point of this thread, perhaps it will be used for reflection.
Without being told it like it is, posters posting in a toxic way will carry on unchecked. The responses have not been horrible. None are identifiable. Some intended recipients have no idea. Some posters might have felt a degree of catharsis. I did!!
Also, the thread invites people to identify ones they admire. And this has taken place. It's all good really |
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No it's really not all good. It's sh1tstirring, if it was healthy, there wouldn't be a divide between naming those you admire and critiquing others.
The critics will have their own agendas (as always).
Fab is full to the brim of cliquey pests. There is no need for it. |
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"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.
It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.
Over the years you have not needed a telling it like it is thread to tell it like it is . You have on several occasions , uninvited, giving me a piece of your mind, without retaliation.
Tbh whilst some of these posts have taken me aback , I have reflected on some of them, and maybe acted somewhat less entitled than previously I hope. This is the point of this thread, perhaps it will be used for reflection.
Without being told it like it is, posters posting in a toxic way will carry on unchecked. The responses have not been horrible. None are identifiable. Some intended recipients have no idea. Some posters might have felt a degree of catharsis. I did!!
Also, the thread invites people to identify ones they admire. And this has taken place. It's all good really"
I’ll be the first to admit that I have clashed many a time on here with people. The difference is that if I have an opinion to give or a problem with something that’s been said, I say it directly without hiding behind anonymous posts.
How does an anonymous post change anything with regards to toxic posters? They’re not going to think it’s about them and will carry on regardless.
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You could've asked for things that annoy you from fab rather than people. Inviting people to vent on about others is only ever going to be negative. The option to say who you admire or what you admire about someone seemed a little of a cover for promoting negativity. And anonymous persons that are mean don't reflect. Let's try bring the fun back in fab and share the love. |
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The people who don't get the message after trying to politely say no. So I just told them stay away from us when we all finished up at a play party. Think it worked no annoying messages since
Sometimes you must be blunt. |
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By *panishRebelMan 6 weeks ago
Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland |
8 always find that the final measure of a person is not how they fall out l, get offended, fuck up or even get the wrong end of the stick etc
The final measure is how they make things up and repair any damage! |
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"8 always find that the final measure of a person is not how they fall out l, get offended, fuck up or even get the wrong end of the stick etc
The final measure is how they make things up and repair any damage!"
I genuinely have no clue what's been going on and I don't want to, but I agree with your last line. In my many years on this Earth I have noticed that very, very few are willing to apologise for their shitty behaviour towards others, nevermind do anything to make amends. They just carry on and pretend that nothing happened! I think they erase these things from their memory to avoid suffering any guilt. |
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