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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
It's like you read my mind. I was thinking the same thing today, but just because I'm bored now with it. It's the forums that stop me |
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Yeah have thought about it. Only been to one event and met the most awesome people ever. But haven't had the finances to get out to more. Thought about leaving and coming back when I can attend more, or if I partner up. |
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"I'd say a fair few regulars have deleted and come back! This is my second one over about 7/8 years..."
Same as this. Have had mostly good times on here with one or two unpleasant experiences but still here for the moment anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
We’ve done more times than we can say. If we had kept our original profile we’d have a very high number of veries from over the years. It even back in the good days we used to get fed up with folks nice and again. Over the years it’s got even more hard work and folks are yet more fickle etc. The delete button is always temptation and its appeal is currently high at the moment again. It’s good to have a complete break and reset now and again. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I was here from 2016-2019, only met maybe 5 or 6 over that time a few repeat meets, then got into a relationship for a couple of years and deleted,had no intention of coming back but here I am  |
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"Recently learning people taking shit about me just makes me want to leave the whole scene "
Xxx on my second profile. Deleted - took a break - and glad I deleted rather than paused. Sometimes the refresh button is needed. I haven't hid who I am so anyone who wants to can see all my previous names but I wanted to clear any verifications and connections with people who I no longer want to be associated with. Deleting my account also deleted my verifications from their profiles - so a lot of reasons to delete. I don't regret deleting or returning. |
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By *aughty MilfCouple 6 weeks ago
Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland |
"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
I would just ignore those people and rise above and focus on those that are real friends. Xx |
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"Recently learning people taking shit about me just makes me want to leave the whole scene "
Couldn’t meet nicer people than you and ur man
Remember people that feel the need to chat shit about u behind ur back would never say it to ur face
Cowards
Jealous of what u have
Sending hugs n anal ❤️ |
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This is my 4th profile in 8 years. Deleted the first because of a horrible first meet, the second because I just wasn't feeling it and the last one because I got dragged into someone else's drama.
On that one I hid my profile and didn't log in for over a year and then deleted it and lost 30+ veries.
I've never asked anyone to reverify me when I've come back because I wanted a clean break.
I've seen quite a few comments from women in the forums and status updates in recent months about people being two faced and complete cunts and while I don't know any of the details and don't want to know there is definitely a trend at the minute.
From personal experience it's not the newbies people should be watching out for.
There are very well established and "popular" cunts who struggle on a facepic Friday thread because they aren't sure which face to put up. |
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By *ustBoWoman 6 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I deleted my first profile after a day came back found filters and closed them up as tight as a ducks ass and have been here since. I just take some time away at times.
I certainly wouldn't let others drive me away because sadly that's what some take great pleasure in doing on here. They like to think they are some type of fab elite who get to say who stays here or leaves. They gossip and spread rumours and others join in because they just love the drama and bullshite that happens behind the scenes. It's kind of pathetic grown adults act like this. But it's usually down to some gripe they have or jealously.
Better to just cut those who do it out of your life and carry on and enjoy your fab journey. Ignore the gossip mongers because like I said on here numerous times if they are talking about others all the time they will be talking about you as well. |
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"I deleted my first profile after a day came back found filters and closed them up as tight as a ducks ass and have been here since. I just take some time away at times.
I certainly wouldn't let others drive me away because sadly that's what some take great pleasure in doing on here. They like to think they are some type of fab elite who get to say who stays here or leaves. They gossip and spread rumours and others join in because they just love the drama and bullshite that happens behind the scenes. It's kind of pathetic grown adults act like this. But it's usually down to some gripe they have or jealously.
Better to just cut those who do it out of your life and carry on and enjoy your fab journey. Ignore the gossip mongers because like I said on here numerous times if they are talking about others all the time they will be talking about you as well. "
This |
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By *adylaceWoman 6 weeks ago
Waterford City |
"Recently learning people taking shit about me just makes me want to leave the whole scene "
I went through this not so long ago. Found out that someone I thought I got on well with was talking behind my back. It happens on fab and it happens outside of fab. I chose to not get involved and just pull away from them. I wouldn't let them drive you away if you are enjoying other parts of the scene but only you van decide what's right for you. |
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I'm going to ask a question of everyone posting about their experiences because there have always been accusations made on fab about men acting like dicks but the vibes I'm getting from a few current threads running today and in the last week or so that the two faced cunts aren't male.
Obviously nobody should be naming names but am I completely of the mark here?
I'm not privy to any of this drama and I don't want to be but if the issues are being caused by women and/or couples is it not about time that people made this clear and stopped enabling them? |
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By *adylaceWoman 6 weeks ago
Waterford City |
"I'm going to ask a question of everyone posting about their experiences because there have always been accusations made on fab about men acting like dicks but the vibes I'm getting from a few current threads running today and in the last week or so that the two faced cunts aren't male.
Obviously nobody should be naming names but am I completely of the mark here?
I'm not privy to any of this drama and I don't want to be but if the issues are being caused by women and/or couples is it not about time that people made this clear and stopped enabling them?"
It comes from both men and women. I find it just seems to go in cycles here. |
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I had to leave the other kinky platform due to a series of lies spread by one female. As all her new friends weren't 'present' or even in either of our circles at the time; though still believed every word she said without proof or verification. She then went onto the app that isn't Telegram to a 'women only' group and spread the same lies. Again every single one of them believed her without proof or verification because one member said they were also on the kinky platform and there was no way she could be lying.
It nearly followed me here when I encountered the friend. She repeated the lie, and I told her to fuck off and grow some ovaries and to start thinking for herself. Then I blocked her. |
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By *aid backMan 6 weeks ago
by a lake with my rod out |
This has been my profile since I lived in the UK probably 2010/2011 ish. I've had other ones with partners over the years. But I don't think I'd delete this one the only chance I made was dropping the WRX at the end |
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"This has been my profile since I lived in the UK probably 2010/2011 ish. I've had other ones with partners over the years. But I don't think I'd delete this one the only chance I made was dropping the WRX at the end "
Ahem
And changing your tag to Manhoor  😘 |
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By *aid backMan 6 weeks ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"This has been my profile since I lived in the UK probably 2010/2011 ish. I've had other ones with partners over the years. But I don't think I'd delete this one the only chance I made was dropping the WRX at the end
Ahem
And changing your tag to Manhoor 😘"
Ah yes forgot that 😂😂😂😂 |
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
I find it's so very true that people who talk shit about other people to you and are then nice to those people in front of you , are for 100% talking shit about you to others. People are shit. Every now and then someone will prove me wrong,but generally if you want a friend,get a dog.
I'm not here to find a friend, or a dog, maybe a bit of doggie, with a friend or friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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I deleted Fab and then recently rejoined. I just needed a break away. As Samantha said, "I wanted to clear any verifications and connections with people who I no longer wanted to be associated with. Deleting my account also deleted my verifications from their profiles."
it possibly was a bit hasty, but at the time, I felt it was the right decision for me.
Should I have hid my profile instead, maybe....
I also use my original user name, as I do not have anything to hide from or be ashamed of about my previous profile.
There will be those OP that will try and burst your happy bubble and drag you down to their level. Just remove those negative people from your life, As who needs that dark energy surrounding you. When I found myself in that situation, I had no argument or no drama. I just slowly eased away from people like that as their constant negativity was sucking the life from me.
So think hard before what you decide and best of luck. X |
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We think its threads like this that make us nervous about attending more socials and meeting new people. So far the people we have met have all been pretty sound and lovely. But these people in question would give this whole scene a bad name. We can all be a bit loopy at times but not sure what these peoples end game is. |
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Here since god knows when??
Deleted once, came back but tbh have found it a drag. Have always been allergic to drama and ego and it’s possibly just a different perspective on my behalf but the place seems to be overrun with exactly those qualities nowadays.
Definitely don’t try anywhere near hard enough but that’s the answer in itself. Just not into it anymore so will most likely delete again permanently this time.
Then again.. who gives a shit
Actually, as I re-read and think, it’s quite possible the sort of company I always enjoyed most, have gone more ‘underground’ and much more discreet than before. Fair play to them |
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Like a revolving door for me
Biggest lesson I've learnt on here, majority of people are acquaintances abd dome friends are fairweather friends just like in life.
And sorry but women cause a lot of drama on here, guys can just be dicks etc but women are nasty.
Green eyed monster is well and alive on here.
Way I see it enjoy fab for what you want or get from it and get the rest of them feck right off |
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
100% agree, really thought about deleting the profile in the last year |
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Yep, have deleted 3 times. Get sick of time wasters on fab. So much goes into organising meets then people let you down.
Deleted all our pics last week as got a tip off that they were being used elsewhere. Now I miss it and having to load them again!! 🤣🤣
The fab struggle is real. |
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By *eijaWoman 6 weeks ago
City Centre |
I left for 5 years and came back...I think everyone leaves at some stage...but always returns 😉
Personally, I think breaks are good for your mental health. The scene can be quite toxic/full of unnecessary drama at times. This can really affect some people. C'est la vie...however if you feel overwhelmed by it...a time out is always good. Just hide your profile and come back when you are ready!
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Yeap I've completely deleted my account a few times now at this stage. It's grand and all that but it can get very monotonous and repetitive and silly too. Also spending to much time looking at the phone distracts me negatively.
The thought of deleting fab comes everyday. Although it does have this power over you to draw you back. Some time away can be good to though. A reset, if you will. |
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"I deleted my first profile after a day came back found filters and closed them up as tight as a ducks ass and have been here since. I just take some time away at times.
I certainly wouldn't let others drive me away because sadly that's what some take great pleasure in doing on here. They like to think they are some type of fab elite who get to say who stays here or leaves. They gossip and spread rumours and others join in because they just love the drama and bullshite that happens behind the scenes. It's kind of pathetic grown adults act like this. But it's usually down to some gripe they have or jealously.
Better to just cut those who do it out of your life and carry on and enjoy your fab journey. Ignore the gossip mongers because like I said on here numerous times if they are talking about others all the time they will be talking about you as well. "
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I get bored sometimes...hardly do the messaging thing so much as I get left on read. I pleasure myself with reading stories when I'm bored now.
Yes, people are strange. What can we do but ignore them...block them...aka wrong vibe.
Keep yourself happy...that's Paramount.
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"Recently learning people taking shit about me just makes me want to leave the whole scene "
Talk is cheap as they say...do what makes you happy...don't dwell on their talking. You're here to enjoy ...do it to your fullest. |
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"I deleted my first profile after a day came back found filters and closed them up as tight as a ducks ass and have been here since. I just take some time away at times.
I certainly wouldn't let others drive me away because sadly that's what some take great pleasure in doing on here. They like to think they are some type of fab elite who get to say who stays here or leaves. They gossip and spread rumours and others join in because they just love the drama and bullshite that happens behind the scenes. It's kind of pathetic grown adults act like this. But it's usually down to some gripe they have or jealously.
Better to just cut those who do it out of your life and carry on and enjoy your fab journey. Ignore the gossip mongers because like I said on here numerous times if they are talking about others all the time they will be talking about you as well.
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Now there's a reason to delete right there. Scrumdiddlyumptious...... imaging having to type that in on every login+ Monday+ possible hangover+++
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"I had to leave the other kinky platform due to a series of lies spread by one female. As all her new friends weren't 'present' or even in either of our circles at the time; though still believed every word she said without proof or verification. She then went onto the app that isn't Telegram to a 'women only' group and spread the same lies. Again every single one of them believed her without proof or verification because one member said they were also on the kinky platform and there was no way she could be lying.
It nearly followed me here when I encountered the friend. She repeated the lie, and I told her to fuck off and grow some ovaries and to start thinking for herself. Then I blocked her."
Some people are mental...jeez.
I've had similar in normal life. It can be traumatizing. |
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!
I find it's so very true that people who talk shit about other people to you and are then nice to those people in front of you , are for 100% talking shit about you to others. People are shit. Every now and then someone will prove me wrong,but generally if you want a friend,get a dog.
I'm not here to find a friend, or a dog, maybe a bit of doggie, with a friend or friends. "
I'm not here to find a friend, or a dog, maybe a bit of doggie, with a friend or friends.
Pewwww pewwww |
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"I always think of leaving… the thought of the hassle of ever restarting acts as a block. Getting those verifications as a single guy is a journey… wouldn’t want to start from nothing again."
same as that myself
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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The site says that if anyone is gonna delete.." most find themselves returning " .. myself? A bit of a yo yo tbh ..stay , meets , get bored ..gone ..the most difficult thing l find is deciding wether to rejoin or not , the forums are great for reading & giving a tuppence worth , if any , when a person returns one of the biggest issues is getting verified, if they're lucky , people that verified them before are still here to verify them again but if not , it's like snakes and ladders..back to the start 🤣🤣🤣 |
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Personally I'd just hide the profile. Deleting it is a pain as I've found out. You have to start again from scratch. All my verifications were gone and then couldn't message the people who had given them cos I had to be verified haha. Hiding it there is a temptation to have a look in. But a small price to pay. |
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By *HLxWoman 6 weeks ago
Belfast |
I've deleted twice, the first time I wasn't sure if the whole concept was for me and wasn't very confident.
The second time was when I got into a relationship and I was happy to delete at that time. We've since split up so I returned. Id stayed in groups and had made a lot of friends on here ♥️ so was re-verified quite quickly.
If I thought about deleting again I'd probably hide instead until I was sure. |
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I have deleted and back a few times.
It depends on why you want to.
I done it for either a break or I was dating.
If your not sure then hide profile and walk away and take time out.
If someone has upset you
Block and move on .
You don't owe anyone anything
That's just my veiw on in things |
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By *ervy PriestMan 6 weeks ago
The Diocese Of Lesbos And Poppincandy |
I’ve had more accounts than Mohammed Al Fayed has accusations against him!!
I get bored easily or some cunt fucks me off and I lose my cool and delete,
The break is good though. It focuses you on real life issues like fuck, I forgot to buy toilet rolls
It draws you back though with its addictive nature and you’re back to square one |
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So sorry to read about this Lou 🥲 there’s always going to be bitching & people we don’t get along with in every circle of life unfortunately. Those who know you well won’t listen to things like that though. Here anytime you want to chat hun x
I’m thinking about deleting my profile at the minute too. It’s been an amazing 3 years since joining but thinking it may be time to hang up my swinging boots. Scene just isn’t the same anymore. |
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I've never understood the big deal people make out of leaving.
If its not enjoyable anymore just leave.
Its very easy to set back up again.
To be fair though I also never understand why people are surprised that other people are cunts |
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Bullies get a shock when their targets fuck all their nonsense back into their faces.
The old school bullies on here, do their bullying and then stick up a new light hearted chit chatty thread to deflect from their abusiveness. Who would want anything to do with them? |
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!"
Deleted and come back when I get fed up now I just hide profile |
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"Have you ever deleted fab or thought about deleting it?
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!
Deleted and come back when I get fed up now I just hide profile "
Same here.. x |
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I’ve deleted twice before. Sorry I deleted my last profile as I was well verified and had some fantastic photos that were of just me and with a good friend who’s not here anymore. I found it hard to get myself established this time round and still do find it a bit difficult but I just come and go now. I don’t have enough time what with work and trying to be a dad to three children. I steer clear of drama, get enough still from an ex-wife |
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There’s a lot on Fab who have sad little lives (and little dicks) and many that think they are the boss bitch on here , they have nothing better to do than gossip and cause shit , leave them to it and just do your own thing with being wiser now.
"Thanks for the feed back guys and the lovely DM's"
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Been ere and back at least 6 time. I become way too sanctimonious and castigate myself for ever being here. And leave.
But then, when my back is turned, I sneakily join again. Just cannot keep up with myself!  |
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There seems to be alot of drama going on here.My mum use to say ,it's none of your business what people say about you...meaning ignore the the shit stirrers.Easier said then done,unfortunately 🤔 We have met amazing people on Fab, especially at socials.Its a terrible feeling been dragged down by others and very upsetting. I hope it all resolves for you xxxx
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By *astelloWoman 5 weeks ago
Far far away |
Let's be real. There are fab acquaintances and real friends. I know who I'd rely on in a crisis. That's not to say that I genuinely adore those fab friends who have crossed over. I like to keep my circle small cos life has enough drama without adding to it. |
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By *dfabMan 5 weeks ago
Dunboyne |
I absolutely at this:
I've met some amazing people over the past 3 years and recently learnt some people are 2 faced cu*ts!
I presume the and should be a but? As opposed to all the amazing people being C!nts
Sorry, my pedantism is an affliction, as you can see by having to delete first text for a spelling mistake  |
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