This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X |
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X"
As far as I know it's actually acceptable with your 1st cousin.... though it might be frowned upon if you were brought up together. ... |
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X
As far as I know it's actually acceptable with your 1st cousin.... though it might be frowned upon if you were brought up together. ... "
Yeah, we had first cousins in our parish who were happily married with kids. No judgement from anyone, not even the church who married them.
If it feels right then go for it. Good luck  |
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By *om TangoMan 8 weeks ago
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There will be people that will judge yous. Let them judge. If yous treat and respect each other so fucking what others say. Be happy together. My view of life is I’ll be dead and gone in 50 years and so will the cunts that judged me |
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X
As far as I know it's actually acceptable with your 1st cousin.... though it might be frowned upon if you were brought up together. ... "
The only legal restrictions are that you cannot marry either of your parents or grandparents. |
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X
As far as I know it's actually acceptable with your 1st cousin.... though it might be frowned upon if you were brought up together. ...
The only legal restrictions are that you cannot marry either of your parents or grandparents."
Or siblings surely🤔
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X
As far as I know it's actually acceptable with your 1st cousin.... though it might be frowned upon if you were brought up together. ...
The only legal restrictions are that you cannot marry either of your parents or grandparents.
Or siblings surely🤔
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And children? 😳 |
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"Jaysus I’ve fucked a cousin in the pass. Actually one of the best nights I had as a young fella. Drive it on lad. "
Was that in Poyntzpass or is it a euphemism for something more intimate.....or perhaps a historical reference.
Or should the "p" be an "a".
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"This is happening. I've been away from here a little bit. This isn't a brag or a fantasy. But some serious advice needed. I've falling in love with my cousin. My actual cousin. My dads brothers daughter. 1st cousin. It started about a year ago. Actually longer than that. She feels the same. It wasn't a d*unken thing. It was discussed long before anything happened. Of course at first it was the whole tabboo of it all. Then feelings started. Tbf i always had what many consider wrong feelings,for her. Now its awful. Nobody would accept this. And tbh i dont think I'll ever want to shout it from the rooftops. So i choose here to get it out of my system. No replies really needed,even though i asked for advice. Maybe just putting it out there will make me see how wrong it is. X"
I know of 1st cousins around my area that are currently living with each other not sure if they have plans to marry but they are very much in love and not one eye brow raised, |
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Some famous cousin marriages include:
Naturalist Charles Darwin and his first cousin, Emma Wedgewood.
Physicist Albert Einstein and Elsa Lowenthal, his first cousin on his mother's side and his second cousin on his father's side.
Bank robber Jessie James and his first cousin, Zerelda Mims.
Author H.G. Wells and his first cousin, Isabel Mary Wells.
Rocket scientist Werner Von Braun and his first cousin, Maria Von Quirstorp. |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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While it's not wrong do you want to take it any further if it causes a huge amount of hassle between families
Do you think you could keep it hidden
Do you want to hide it
Best of luck to you whatever you decide |
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