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Hey, so I feel I speak on behalf of most single males on here when I say this, it’s extremely hard to get a reply from females on here, no matter approach is taken. I understand we can’t be everyone’s type, I understand women get hundreds of messages a day..but is there a better way or more successful way to message a female?! I feel like I’m doing something badly wrong here lol. |
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By *og-ManMan 6 weeks ago
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You don't have to speak on behalf of anyone apart from yourself
If you're not having any luck with messages just stop or it'll wreck your head
If you want to get known then take part in the forums and show people your personality and if you can attend a social
That's my advice |
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People will look at your profile first. You could try filling out your bio with stuff that people might want to know before deciding to reply.
A lot of men's profiles say 'been here before'. They, and you, might well have been but it's a bit of a cliche that won't work in your favor. |
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There's no "one size fits all" when it comes to messages. My advice - only message those that truly interest you. If you can't think of anything to say in your message, then ask yourself why are you messaging.
I'd also advise working on your profile. Many people will look at that before deciding if they should read your message. If you were to message me (and we were broadly what we each were looking for) I'd probably not bother reading it because there's so little in your bio to tell me anything about you and whether we might be compatible. You've got decent photos so your halfway there, but lack of effort in the bio especially when you've been here before and should know better, suggests laziness at best and entitlement at worst.
Lastly, don't rely on messages -as has already been said, get yourself along to some socials and get involved in the forums |
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Everyone here is right about profile quality. Don't be a mindless bunch of body parts.
Getting out on the social scene is multitudes more beneficial for your chances.
Might help to stop calling women "females" 🙃 |
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Your profile (and post) has a smell of " I've got a great body so I shouldn't have to try very hard". Women may worry that meeting you would be similar.
Put some effort into your profile and tell potential meets what you have to offer. Show some personality. |
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Ohhh I didn’t think about that at all, and I know this is the expected response but that it not at all who I am, I am actually quite the opposite but thank you I will get a look and try to add more to it.  |
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I'm same but was wondering was it just as Donegal so quite, now I know my profile doesn't say much as had to for few around here telling everyone who in fab ,just beginning to wonder is there better alternative to fab, |
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By *astelloWoman 6 weeks ago
Far far away |
I always always check out profiles. The balance of pics to content ratio. The dick pic profile is an immediately off putting..
The hi message won't even get looked at. Engaging in forums allows people to ascertain your personality.
It's multi factorial and each of those factors can differ from person to person. That's just my perspective. Good luck. |
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"Thank you, I will keep this in mind "
Not a bad profile 🙃 could be maybe the messages? You might think they are OK, but for us girls and couples it might come across rude or offensive. Not saying that is you as we never interacted |
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By *s LollyWoman 6 weeks ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Im outside your age preference but if you did messages me id look at your bio and see absolutely nothing to gain my interest, your pics are very good so like LK said above your halfway there, ive met more people through interaction on here(forum page)than through messaging alone sometimes people just don't come across well in messages.... |
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"Hey, so I feel I speak on behalf of most single males on here when I say this, it’s extremely hard to get a reply from females on here, no matter approach is taken. I understand we can’t be everyone’s type, I understand women get hundreds of messages a day..but is there a better way or more successful way to message a female?! I feel like I’m doing something badly wrong here lol. "
....it all depends on what day of the week you send them messages..
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By *om TangoMan 6 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
I always sent the following message
You have the pussy, I’ve the cock and bedroom. Let’s get together
For some reason it doesn’t work 🤪
Only joking lady’s I definitely don’t send messages like that. |
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"I always sent the following message
You have the pussy, I’ve the cock and bedroom. Let’s get together
For some reason it doesn’t work 🤪
Only joking lady’s I definitely don’t send messages like that. "
Hahaha And I would definitely reply to such a message... Because it made me laugh.
I hope I won't get hundreds of such messages now because I won't reply. |
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By *om TangoMan 6 weeks ago
aughnacloy monaghan area |
"I always sent the following message
You have the pussy, I’ve the cock and bedroom. Let’s get together
For some reason it doesn’t work 🤪
Only joking lady’s I definitely don’t send messages like that.
Hahaha And I would definitely reply to such a message... Because it made me laugh.
I hope I won't get hundreds of such messages now because I won't reply. "
You might reply but would it work. |
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"I always sent the following message
You have the pussy, I’ve the cock and bedroom. Let’s get together
For some reason it doesn’t work 🤪
Only joking lady’s I definitely don’t send messages like that.
Hahaha And I would definitely reply to such a message... Because it made me laugh.
I hope I won't get hundreds of such messages now because I won't reply.
You might reply but would it work. "
It depends on what will be in the next messages |
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"I always sent the following message
You have the pussy, I’ve the cock and bedroom. Let’s get together
For some reason it doesn’t work 🤪
Only joking lady’s I definitely don’t send messages like that.
Hahaha And I would definitely reply to such a message... Because it made me laugh.
I hope I won't get hundreds of such messages now because I won't reply.
You might reply but would it work.
It depends on what will be in the next messages"
You two are hilarious 😆 |
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Trying to understand the workings of the mind of the human female.
Many a ship has perished on those rocks.
The beauty and the mystery of a woman's mind and the unpredictability of it is one of the biggest attractions for me, that and a shapely ass that likes a spanking.
I message, mostly when I'm chilling out at home having a drink, you can get some replies and even make some friends. If you're a genuine person you will meet some people and have a laugh. It's not all about the sex, you need to be able to communicate before and certainty after.
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"Definitely can make friends. But some messages females get is another reason not many reply.😅"
I do agree there as well, i personally just find it hard to stand out I suppose. But oh well, what’s meant for you won’t pass you I guess |
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I think the ratio men to women and the amount of mail women receive is the factor. Cause a good message could get unread, think the past while like last few years it’s nearly all socials parties etc where others recommend each other and the cycle continues in that circle. If you look at some profiles their all veried by same people mostly from socials or parties.
If you can get to a social and become known they you get meets. Otherwise its not easy to even get a reply |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"You’re forgetting to factor in the number of Cunts on here too , cause with them is dosnt matter what’s in ur message.
Does not being interested in someone make you a cunt?  "
A cunt as per Google refers to a woman's genitals. Or in British slang an unpleasant or stupid person.
Google makes no reference to responding to messages on Fab 🤷♂️ |
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"You’re forgetting to factor in the number of Cunts on here too , cause with them is dosnt matter what’s in ur message. "
Suggest you don't follow the advice of mysogynists or repeatedly refer to women as cunts.
Manners go a long way, many single women are weary and wary of any signs of aggression.
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