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Want to get the conversations about dogging going. Let’s make dogging great again. Many people have shown interest or have had great fun before doing it. But as most people have notice the typical dogging spots have become shit. Mainly full of messers just trying to have a laugh and not serious or people not knowing the rules and how it works. I’m planning two events each month. Sharing the timing and location prior only to those who have expressed and interest and are vetted (ie, have a pic, verified and I know are legit and agree to the ground rules) but so many people have questions about it.
Why not ask them here!
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There's probably people who are interested but wouldn't be familiar with what the current etiquette is. Perhaps some of the people who are experienced might list what would be expected?
I've read lots of different things all over the place some of which seems to be for local areas.
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Good point, for our meet ups I have basic ground rules. Some people have their own version and some countries might also have different rules so I’ve tried to standardize for our meets.
If anyone else has extra pieces to add or share please do.
Signals to Know:**
- Flash your headlights or brake lights to show you’re open to dogging, and see if others are too.
- Interior lights on means you're just looking for people to watch(or you can watch)
- Window halfway down = open to oral
- Fully open window = touching/joining in might be okay.
You can start off in your own car with your lights on, or join in with others who’ve got theirs on. |
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"Good point, for our meet ups I have basic ground rules. Some people have their own version and some countries might also have different rules so I’ve tried to standardize for our meets.
If anyone else has extra pieces to add or share please do.
Signals to Know:**
- Flash your headlights or brake lights to show you’re open to dogging, and see if others are too.
- Interior lights on means you're just looking for people to watch(or you can watch)
- Window halfway down = open to oral
- Fully open window = touching/joining in might be okay.
You can start off in your own car with your lights on, or join in with others who’ve got theirs on. "
Dogging signals in reality are far more subtle than most of the above |
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The prearranging does kill off some the anticipation of finding someone, or a couple open to dogging, but it's the safest way to go.. Plus the traditional locations aren't what they were, rare to find anyone out and about now  |
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I would luv to come across a naughty couple wanting to be watched. The thrill of the spontaneous meet and risky nature of it. I'm told there used to be a few spots in county Antrim but not sure what the chances are now of a naughty meetup. |
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By *oxminxCouple 7 weeks ago
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Agree with what the poster above has said. The signals are far more subtle than light tapping etc.
From our experience, better dogging "outings" happen when people relax and take their time.
Give folk space and try not act like an inpatient freak.
A couple will most often play when they are relaxed and feel safe in their environment.
Most often a woman may begin by giving her partner oral and may even raise her ass to draw attention. Now should you see this, plzzz don't sprint for window position lol
We've often seen couples kick-off with the guy visibly fondling their partners naked boob's. Again, please don't make a 50m dash lol
At some point if you (a guy or even a cpl) stroll closer, it will become apparent if a couple just want to put on a show or prefer some interaction.
Possibilities to keep in mind!
Some couples are purely interested in lads watching and/or playing. Now when this is the case, we often find you won't be waiting for the light flashing stuff to happen... trust us, YOU WILL INSTANTLY KNOW WHAT THAT COUPLE WANT.
Like us, many couples are hoping for other couples.
When lads won't give space and time for this to happen it usually ends in the great escape and frustration for ALL.
We fall into the category above but anytime we have come across couples with whom we've played, we are then happy for lads to gather around and watch with some action for them also involved from time to time.
We've always found it best when you tell doggers what your intentions may or may not be.
Important to note that not all couples sitting in a parked car are there for dogging fun.
Many are just there for their own fun.
Often feel sorry for couples who suddenly realise a bunch of guys with their coks out stuck to their windows.
If getways were an Olympic sport, we have soon many Gold Medalists
Probably best to avoid public naming of dogging locations. It only helps to fuel law enforcement activity and boy racers acting the fool.
Anyway the vast majority of dogging spots are a easily found using a Web search.
Dogging has declined greatly due to the Internet in general.
Before phones etc dogging spots were discovered by covering many miles, days and nights waiting and waiting for nothing to happen but in the end if you persevered, word of mouth helped you succeed.
Unfortunately now, nobody wants to wait and most people expect things to be instant.
This is NOT dogging, have a coffee, bring a good read, listen to your fav tunes or simply just enjoy the stillness of the night.
Happy dogging...
Oh and we like that MDGA cap  |
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Totally agree about the lack of patience these days and it shouldn't need to be said but have a bit of common courtesy. Do not target a car with your headlights and expect it to conducive to getting any action |
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Yeah total agree that’s it’s a lot more subtle but I think it’s that vagueness that puts new people off so I tried to atleast share basics with the added piece of have cop on. Keep your distance and respect Peolpe there. It isn’t a free for all as much as it might seem it.
Any way we have our first planned meet this weekend south Dublin. 
Reach out if you interested in attending already have a lot of interested  |
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"Agree with what the poster above has said. The signals are far more subtle than light tapping etc.
From our experience, better dogging "outings" happen when people relax and take their time.
Give folk space and try not act like an inpatient freak.
A couple will most often play when they are relaxed and feel safe in their environment.
Most often a woman may begin by giving her partner oral and may even raise her ass to draw attention. Now should you see this, plzzz don't sprint for window position lol
We've often seen couples kick-off with the guy visibly fondling their partners naked boob's. Again, please don't make a 50m dash lol
At some point if you (a guy or even a cpl) stroll closer, it will become apparent if a couple just want to put on a show or prefer some interaction.
Possibilities to keep in mind!
Some couples are purely interested in lads watching and/or playing. Now when this is the case, we often find you won't be waiting for the light flashing stuff to happen... trust us, YOU WILL INSTANTLY KNOW WHAT THAT COUPLE WANT.
Like us, many couples are hoping for other couples.
When lads won't give space and time for this to happen it usually ends in the great escape and frustration for ALL.
We fall into the category above but anytime we have come across couples with whom we've played, we are then happy for lads to gather around and watch with some action for them also involved from time to time.
We've always found it best when you tell doggers what your intentions may or may not be.
Important to note that not all couples sitting in a parked car are there for dogging fun.
Many are just there for their own fun.
Often feel sorry for couples who suddenly realise a bunch of guys with their coks out stuck to their windows.
If getways were an Olympic sport, we have soon many Gold Medalists
Probably best to avoid public naming of dogging locations. It only helps to fuel law enforcement activity and boy racers acting the fool.
Anyway the vast majority of dogging spots are a easily found using a Web search.
Dogging has declined greatly due to the Internet in general.
Before phones etc dogging spots were discovered by covering many miles, days and nights waiting and waiting for nothing to happen but in the end if you persevered, word of mouth helped you succeed.
Unfortunately now, nobody wants to wait and most people expect things to be instant.
This is NOT dogging, have a coffee, bring a good read, listen to your fav tunes or simply just enjoy the stillness of the night.
Happy dogging...
Oh and we like that MDGA cap "
All of the above! |
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"Agree with what the poster above has said. The signals are far more subtle than light tapping etc.
From our experience, better dogging "outings" happen when people relax and take their time.
Give folk space and try not act like an inpatient freak.
A couple will most often play when they are relaxed and feel safe in their environment.
Most often a woman may begin by giving her partner oral and may even raise her ass to draw attention. Now should you see this, plzzz don't sprint for window position lol
We've often seen couples kick-off with the guy visibly fondling their partners naked boob's. Again, please don't make a 50m dash lol
At some point if you (a guy or even a cpl) stroll closer, it will become apparent if a couple just want to put on a show or prefer some interaction.
Possibilities to keep in mind!
Some couples are purely interested in lads watching and/or playing. Now when this is the case, we often find you won't be waiting for the light flashing stuff to happen... trust us, YOU WILL INSTANTLY KNOW WHAT THAT COUPLE WANT.
Like us, many couples are hoping for other couples.
When lads won't give space and time for this to happen it usually ends in the great escape and frustration for ALL.
We fall into the category above but anytime we have come across couples with whom we've played, we are then happy for lads to gather around and watch with some action for them also involved from time to time.
We've always found it best when you tell doggers what your intentions may or may not be.
Important to note that not all couples sitting in a parked car are there for dogging fun.
Many are just there for their own fun.
Often feel sorry for couples who suddenly realise a bunch of guys with their coks out stuck to their windows.
If getways were an Olympic sport, we have soon many Gold Medalists
Probably best to avoid public naming of dogging locations. It only helps to fuel law enforcement activity and boy racers acting the fool.
Anyway the vast majority of dogging spots are a easily found using a Web search.
Dogging has declined greatly due to the Internet in general.
Before phones etc dogging spots were discovered by covering many miles, days and nights waiting and waiting for nothing to happen but in the end if you persevered, word of mouth helped you succeed.
Unfortunately now, nobody wants to wait and most people expect things to be instant.
This is NOT dogging, have a coffee, bring a good read, listen to your fav tunes or simply just enjoy the stillness of the night.
Happy dogging...
Oh and we like that MDGA cap "
Great advice. Thanks for taking the time to write. |
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"Agree with what the poster above has said. The signals are far more subtle than light tapping etc.
From our experience, better dogging "outings" happen when people relax and take their time.
Give folk space and try not act like an inpatient freak.
A couple will most often play when they are relaxed and feel safe in their environment.
Most often a woman may begin by giving her partner oral and may even raise her ass to draw attention. Now should you see this, plzzz don't sprint for window position lol
We've often seen couples kick-off with the guy visibly fondling their partners naked boob's. Again, please don't make a 50m dash lol
At some point if you (a guy or even a cpl) stroll closer, it will become apparent if a couple just want to put on a show or prefer some interaction.
Possibilities to keep in mind!
Some couples are purely interested in lads watching and/or playing. Now when this is the case, we often find you won't be waiting for the light flashing stuff to happen... trust us, YOU WILL INSTANTLY KNOW WHAT THAT COUPLE WANT.
Like us, many couples are hoping for other couples.
When lads won't give space and time for this to happen it usually ends in the great escape and frustration for ALL.
We fall into the category above but anytime we have come across couples with whom we've played, we are then happy for lads to gather around and watch with some action for them also involved from time to time.
We've always found it best when you tell doggers what your intentions may or may not be.
Important to note that not all couples sitting in a parked car are there for dogging fun.
Many are just there for their own fun.
Often feel sorry for couples who suddenly realise a bunch of guys with their coks out stuck to their windows.
If getways were an Olympic sport, we have soon many Gold Medalists
Probably best to avoid public naming of dogging locations. It only helps to fuel law enforcement activity and boy racers acting the fool.
Anyway the vast majority of dogging spots are a easily found using a Web search.
Dogging has declined greatly due to the Internet in general.
Before phones etc dogging spots were discovered by covering many miles, days and nights waiting and waiting for nothing to happen but in the end if you persevered, word of mouth helped you succeed.
Unfortunately now, nobody wants to wait and most people expect things to be instant.
This is NOT dogging, have a coffee, bring a good read, listen to your fav tunes or simply just enjoy the stillness of the night.
Happy dogging...
Oh and we like that MDGA cap "
Really good to hear from a couples point of view. And definitely yes, bring a book, go for a walk and actually enjoy nature, the chillout time is nice too |
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We sure do miss having the free time to sit in a car park in the middle of nowhere for hours of end. Endless chats and the anticipation of knowing we'll be having some good fun before we leave.
**Ends trip down memory lane |
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I’m on the Surrey/hants border and it’s really difficult to find any decent locations nowadays, wisley doesn’t seem what it was with all the roadworks, and even the hogs back is quite, so any new locations would be greatly appreciated, even a private message if anyone knows of anywhere. TIA |
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"Agree with what the poster above has said. The signals are far more subtle than light tapping etc.
From our experience, better dogging "outings" happen when people relax and take their time.
Give folk space and try not act like an inpatient freak.
A couple will most often play when they are relaxed and feel safe in their environment.
Most often a woman may begin by giving her partner oral and may even raise her ass to draw attention. Now should you see this, plzzz don't sprint for window position lol
We've often seen couples kick-off with the guy visibly fondling their partners naked boob's. Again, please don't make a 50m dash lol
At some point if you (a guy or even a cpl) stroll closer, it will become apparent if a couple just want to put on a show or prefer some interaction.
Possibilities to keep in mind!
Some couples are purely interested in lads watching and/or playing. Now when this is the case, we often find you won't be waiting for the light flashing stuff to happen... trust us, YOU WILL INSTANTLY KNOW WHAT THAT COUPLE WANT.
Like us, many couples are hoping for other couples.
When lads won't give space and time for this to happen it usually ends in the great escape and frustration for ALL.
We fall into the category above but anytime we have come across couples with whom we've played, we are then happy for lads to gather around and watch with some action for them also involved from time to time.
We've always found it best when you tell doggers what your intentions may or may not be.
Important to note that not all couples sitting in a parked car are there for dogging fun.
Many are just there for their own fun.
Often feel sorry for couples who suddenly realise a bunch of guys with their coks out stuck to their windows.
If getways were an Olympic sport, we have soon many Gold Medalists
Probably best to avoid public naming of dogging locations. It only helps to fuel law enforcement activity and boy racers acting the fool.
Anyway the vast majority of dogging spots are a easily found using a Web search.
Dogging has declined greatly due to the Internet in general.
Before phones etc dogging spots were discovered by covering many miles, days and nights waiting and waiting for nothing to happen but in the end if you persevered, word of mouth helped you succeed.
Unfortunately now, nobody wants to wait and most people expect things to be instant.
This is NOT dogging, have a coffee, bring a good read, listen to your fav tunes or simply just enjoy the stillness of the night.
Happy dogging...
Oh and we like that MDGA cap "
Excellent advice, thanks for taking the time. I was one of those gold medalists you speak of in the past long before i knew what went on there 😂 I go to various well known places around Dublin with a FB mainly looking for couples to watch us and join in. Unfortunately im not sure if thats a thing that randomly happens anymore so planned is probably the way forward if you want to guarantee you get what you want . In our experience we’ve found that its all men, mainly older, quite a few actually and it seems that they are there to watch and play with each other. We weren’t expecting that. We go once or twice a week, for our own fun but to see what happens. Not looking to plan it as its exciting waiting, wondering who will come along out of the blue. We will be out again tonight and again at the weekend. Always interested to hear about new discreet safe spots. Happy Doggin folks. |
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Live near enough the curragh. Always wondered. New to it all but would prob be interested in watching for a start as a beginner. Thing is never understood it. do you flash your lights back of interested, park beside them, stay where you are, stay in car, what if window half down cause it's hot and steamy? If I seen a couple having fun out there I'd keep on my way and leave then alone, I assume everyone out having fun isn't looking for spectators hahaha. Myself and the ex had some fun out on the curragh but weren't looking for anyone to watch, was just us playing. Do you call this dogging aswell? A forum like this one is good to explain it all. Thanks |
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"Live near enough the curragh. Always wondered. New to it all but would prob be interested in watching for a start as a beginner. Thing is never understood it. do you flash your lights back of interested, park beside them, stay where you are, stay in car, what if window half down cause it's hot and steamy? If I seen a couple having fun out there I'd keep on my way and leave then alone, I assume everyone out having fun isn't looking for spectators hahaha. Myself and the ex had some fun out on the curragh but weren't looking for anyone to watch, was just us playing. Do you call this dogging aswell? A forum like this one is good to explain it all. Thanks "
Have a read of the advice from _oxminx above! Will let you know if the new approach works for me tonight. |
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"Live near enough the curragh. Always wondered. New to it all but would prob be interested in watching for a start as a beginner. Thing is never understood it. do you flash your lights back of interested, park beside them, stay where you are, stay in car, what if window half down cause it's hot and steamy? If I seen a couple having fun out there I'd keep on my way and leave then alone, I assume everyone out having fun isn't looking for spectators hahaha. Myself and the ex had some fun out on the curragh but weren't looking for anyone to watch, was just us playing. Do you call this dogging aswell? A forum like this one is good to explain it all. Thanks
Have a read of the advice from _oxminx above! Will let you know if the new approach works for me tonight. "
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