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Annoying low effort messages
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I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message. |
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message. "
I think it's very annoying when you get a mail from a single female sending me boob or fanny pic with a message asking " how are you ?" Even some couples do it too  🤣🤣🤣 |
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
I think it's very annoying when you get a mail from a single female sending me boob or fanny pic with a message asking " how are you ?" Even some couples do it too 🤣🤣🤣 "
Let’s be honest, you had never received any of that 😉 |
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
I think it's very annoying when you get a mail from a single female sending me boob or fanny pic with a message asking " how are you ?" Even some couples do it too 🤣🤣🤣
Let’s be honest, you had never received any of that 😉"
Maybe 🤣🤣 |
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"Hows youse
"Block""
Lol.
Just looking back at some of ours
Hey Kinkys (no pics)
Hi (two dick pics and one face pic that looks like he's on the run from prison after jumping over the wall)
Wat you at! (One dick pic)
And the multiple 'I'm in your area' messages.
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Actually one of the worst we get, although not had one in awhile.
It's a bloke below in Clare that keeps regurgitating couples accounts with pics taken from UK Fabers and Insta.
The give away is actually funny: the message is waaay to long. I think he is trying to imitate being all "girly" and completely over does it!  |
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"Actually one of the worst we get, although not had one in awhile.
It's a bloke below in Clare that keeps regurgitating couples accounts with pics taken from UK Fabers and Insta.
The give away is actually funny: the message is waaay to long. I think he is trying to imitate being all "girly" and completely over does it! "
That's worrying. I'll keep an eye out for that. Although outside our area so unlikely. |
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I read ‘annoying low effort massages’ and jumped right in… that is a topic I want to get to grips with I thought… of course have seen I was wrong…
But yeah hate those ‘how are you?’ messages… Everyone needs to be excited on that first point of contact… I’ve noticed that when females make first contact it’s generally very different men. They often imply they’re attracted but won’t always outright say it. On my part that kicks in an instinct to explore the possibilities and I will definitely engage… |
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By *I TwoCouple 8 weeks ago
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And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos  |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos "
I did say sorry at the time |
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos "
100's of dic picks turn me off because of the lack of variety, body shaming is far worse though imo. |
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"Actually one of the worst we get, although not had one in awhile.
It's a bloke below in Clare that keeps regurgitating couples accounts with pics taken from UK Fabers and Insta.
The give away is actually funny: the message is waaay to long. I think he is trying to imitate being all "girly" and completely over does it! "
He has another new one that messaged us a few days ago
For the op, the giveaway for us is multiple 'xxxxxxx' after every line, trying to sound all girly I presume 
Amother trick is to follow the veri trail. |
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos "
That’s a swingers site, not top models. All people are different.
As much as I agree that dick pick shouldn’t be sent without asking it’s against the rules to bodyshame people. |
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos "
...obviously no one on this site does...  |
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos
That’s a swingers site, not top models. All people are different.
As much as I agree that dick pick shouldn’t be sent without asking it’s against the rules to bodyshame people."
I agree on this. I enjoy variety in body types and I'm no model myself. My partner on the other hand, is gorgeous. Don't know why he's with me half the time! |
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"I read ‘annoying low effort massages’ and jumped right in… that is a topic I want to get to grips with I thought… of course have seen I was wrong…
But yeah hate those ‘how are you?’ messages… Everyone needs to be excited on that first point of contact… I’ve noticed that when females make first contact it’s generally very different men. They often imply they’re attracted but won’t always outright say it. On my part that kicks in an instinct to explore the possibilities and I will definitely engage… "
I don't mind the how are you messages, I'll check the profile out and if they tick my boxes I'll reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos "
I think most people would find obnoxious rudness far worse to be fair. |
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"Literally just today
"I'd leave a load in you"
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Yuck.
I had one similar. It was I'm going to drain my heavy cumming balls down your throat(on my singles profile. I was actually upset at that one. Also made me feel sick. |
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"Best one I have got so far is Go Back you Paki Cunt🤣🤣
Half educated fool doesn’t even know the difference between 2 countries
In fairness you're not a cunt either 
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And yet I bet they don't organise events or give back to the community |
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"Best one I have got so far is Go Back you Paki Cunt🤣🤣
Half educated fool doesn’t even know the difference between 2 countries
In fairness you're not a cunt either
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And yet I bet they don't organise events or give back to the community "
For sure. No contribution at all. And being Brown and Bi on this site is not the best mixture to have.
So…. |
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"Best one I have got so far is Go Back you Paki Cunt🤣🤣
Half educated fool doesn’t even know the difference between 2 countries
In fairness you're not a cunt either
🤣🤣
And yet I bet they don't organise events or give back to the community
For sure. No contribution at all. And being Brown and Bi on this site is not the best mixture to have.
So…."
For some yes. And any of those people are racist and biphobic. So not worth worrying about.
I live in hope that there's lots of people on here who embrace diversity and sexualities. It's fair not to share common sexuality. If someone is straight they are straight. But no excuse for racism. |
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"Best one I have got so far is Go Back you Paki Cunt🤣🤣
Half educated fool doesn’t even know the difference between 2 countries
In fairness you're not a cunt either
🤣🤣
And yet I bet they don't organise events or give back to the community
For sure. No contribution at all. And being Brown and Bi on this site is not the best mixture to have.
So….
For some yes. And any of those people are racist and biphobic. So not worth worrying about.
I live in hope that there's lots of people on here who embrace diversity and sexualities. It's fair not to share common sexuality. If someone is straight they are straight. But no excuse for racism. "
Ah sure. Don’t have even a braincell to give to them🤣 |
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‘U near?’ ‘U free now?’
Let me just jump in my car to meet you or invite you to my house, stranger that just happens to be driving around my area.
Filtering out messages from profiles with no verifications or not photo verified has cut out that crap, in fairness |
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"Literally just today
"I'd leave a load in you"
Yuck.
I had one similar. It was I'm going to drain my heavy cumming balls down your throat(on my singles profile. I was actually upset at that one. Also made me feel sick. "
2 minutes ago!
You know what helps with flu? Me unloading my hot sperm in your throat 🤢🤮
Just FYI boys… sperm stings if gets into eyes or ache throat. |
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By *alvin.Man 8 weeks ago
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"And OMG some of the winks, unfortunately we click on them and you just can't unsee that horrible fat belly with a hairy cock below it yuk
Do these people actually look at their own photos
That’s a swingers site, not top models. All people are different.
As much as I agree that dick pick shouldn’t be sent without asking it’s against the rules to bodyshame people."
Well said. Correct👍 |
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I personally don't mind low effort first messages, at least they're easy to ignore.
What irks me is when someone can't be bothered to engage with you even after mutual interest is established. I lose all interest in the conversation if all I get are short replies. |
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I wonder is it the volume of low effort messages rather than the low effort?
Or is it a difference in standards?
I only say this because the majority of messages I get are 'hey there' or 'hi, how are you?' and I really don't mind. But I'm not exactly inundated. |
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"I wonder is it the volume of low effort messages rather than the low effort?
Or is it a difference in standards?
I only say this because the majority of messages I get are 'hey there' or 'hi, how are you?' and I really don't mind. But I'm not exactly inundated."
I think short messages like that can have a friendly tone. And so there's some grey area. |
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"I wonder is it the volume of low effort messages rather than the low effort?
Or is it a difference in standards?
I only say this because the majority of messages I get are 'hey there' or 'hi, how are you?' and I really don't mind. But I'm not exactly inundated.
I think short messages like that can have a friendly tone. And so there's some grey area. "
It is not too bad when there is enough info on their profile to strike up some conversation, but when it's blank and you get a hey then you know it's going to be tedious. |
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"I wonder is it the volume of low effort messages rather than the low effort?
Or is it a difference in standards?
I only say this because the majority of messages I get are 'hey there' or 'hi, how are you?' and I really don't mind. But I'm not exactly inundated."
I think a "hi how are you" isn't the worst if the profile is good and catches your interest.
If it's a fairly blank profile, you're more inclined to roll your eyes.
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By *asual777Man 8 weeks ago
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Hi casual
We are a female couple
These are our face pics
We want to take turns making love to you all day and night
And feed you chocolate
Are you free next Thursday?
That type of message really annoys me . Objectifying me like that and using chocolate to get sex from me |
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"Hi casual
We are a female couple
These are our face pics
We want to take turns making love to you all day and night
And feed you chocolate
Are you free next Thursday?
That type of message really annoys me . Objectifying me like that and using chocolate to get sex from me"
I get it. Everyone knows it's Haribo |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message. "
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?” |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?” "
Sure it was The Castlemartyr Resort
I thought you'd be impressed |
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?”
Sure it was The Castlemartyr Resort
I thought you'd be impressed "
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what a hotel 😍😍😍 |
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any tips on good messages? most profiles don't give a lot to work with in terms of hobbies etc to strike up a conversation lol
Didn't realise saying hi and asking how they are is so annoying, although I do. try and come up with something more personalised if the profile gives me something to talk about |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?”
Sure it was The Castlemartyr Resort
I thought you'd be impressed
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what a hotel 😍😍😍"
Sure you're a classy bird PB |
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"any tips on good messages? most profiles don't give a lot to work with in terms of hobbies etc to strike up a conversation lol
Didn't realise saying hi and asking how they are is so annoying, although I do. try and come up with something more personalised if the profile gives me something to talk about "
I reckon the short version is 'have a better profile'. |
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By *rRiosMan 8 weeks ago
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"any tips on good messages? most profiles don't give a lot to work with in terms of hobbies etc to strike up a conversation lol
Didn't realise saying hi and asking how they are is so annoying, although I do. try and come up with something more personalised if the profile gives me something to talk about "
You’ve answered you own question. Personalize the opener. “Hey, I see you like xyz” or “hi, I love you picture you loaded on abc date because…”
Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?”
Sure it was The Castlemartyr Resort
I thought you'd be impressed
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what a hotel 😍😍😍
Sure you're a classy bird PB "
Aren’t you the charmer Mr Bogman
Hope you’re keeping well 🙂 |
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"I mean for the first paragraph, most profiles that come up in my area say very little "
The slightly longer answer is that the vast majority of people will look at your profile before they open your message. And your profile is basically blank...
If you want feedback and tips it's a good idea to start a separate thread though. |
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By *og-ManMan 8 weeks ago
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"I have just, for the umpteenth time, been asked by someone with a low effort bio and blank pic profile if I want to know anything, ask away.
You messaged me! Why am I having to carry the mental burden of getting to know you! (I just blocked him).
What's your most annoying type of first message.
“I’m in your area, do you want to come to my hotel?”
Sure it was The Castlemartyr Resort
I thought you'd be impressed
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 what a hotel 😍😍😍
Sure you're a classy bird PB
Aren’t you the charmer Mr Bogman
Hope you’re keeping well 🙂"
Absolutely PB ...looking forward to the holidays to PDI in 3 weeks
Hope you're doing ok too |
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"9 day load for emptying
I'd say some people like that? Seems to be a thing on here... heavy cummer. A selling point? 🤔"
🤣 Like do you use a measuring jug or what? Always strikes me as an odd thing to say. |
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"9 day load for emptying
I'd say some people like that? Seems to be a thing on here... heavy cummer. A selling point? 🤔
🤣 Like do you use a measuring jug or what? Always strikes me as an odd thing to say. "
Best junk mail subject that I ever received was ‘Impress her by cumming in copious amounts with this supplement’
It must be a thing…. |
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