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Ladies thoughts on me wearing lingerie
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I have cross dressed all my life... Very few people in my friends circle know I do but the 2 I have told many years ago had no issue (both ladies) as time has gone on we grew apart life took over... I know the general feeling amoust most ladies is they want their man manly. I understand why but just wondering how many ladies are accepting of this in a man be it in a relationship or just day to day friendship or thoughts on dressing up fully or wearing just female underwear /lingerie....just something I often wondered about and feel this is a good place to ask opinions as people are generally more open minded and comfortable with alternatives to the norm
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By *tovenWoman 8 weeks ago
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I’ve no issues with men wearing lingerie. Each to their own.
However, I would not be interested in engaging in any sexual activity of any kind with one who does. It’s just not for me. It would instantly kill any and all sexual attraction. |
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Hi _toven. That's kinda where I'm coming from with it I can see completely why you or any female wouldn't be interested in it from a sexual side.. But just often wondered how many accept if a male friend opened up how many would be supportive, or see them differently or be disgusted by it possible gossip story ect |
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I feel like you are bound to get a wide spectrum of answers here.
For myself, in terms of friendship, it wouldn't make any difference to me. In fact as a trained make up artist I'd probably offer to help out 😁 |
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I think the people you want in your life are the ones that will accept it. But I think from your tact that you know it isn’t the social norm and that Ireland would have to mature a lot more before it came to been openly accepting of anything outside the social norm.
There are people and places in Ireland that are as much right wing as parts of the US or other areas of the world that would promote restrictions on people.
Fortunately though there are safe places to go and be yourself and clubs and parties that are totally accepting so you should get yourself to a few of those socials and feel free to express yourself.
I unfortunately don’t know enough about it to be able to direct you on it but good luck OP. |
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By *ACOLCouple 8 weeks ago
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Hi,
My one very best friend is a CD and personally I love helping them get dress, I send them links on dresses that might suit them as well as shoes, I encourage them to joined FAB and tbh I love having someone from our vanilla life on FAB so we can "exchange note"
But yeah I personally love CD friends, and I prioritise CD PETs 😜.
I do understand this can be a lonely word for CDs, so can't we just be kind around them. I for one have introduced our CD friend to our kids and I had a long conversation prior to it, to make sure they understood that I was okay with it and fully supported them if they wanted to venture it.
PS: if you ever find yourself on the last Friday of every month in Dublin, DV8 is your place.
Good luck OP.
Lina ❤️ |
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By *tovenWoman 8 weeks ago
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"Hi _toven. That's kinda where I'm coming from with it I can see completely why you or any female wouldn't be interested in it from a sexual side.. But just often wondered how many accept if a male friend opened up how many would be supportive, or see them differently or be disgusted by it possible gossip story ect "
I genuinely have no problem with that. If a man likes wearing lingerie I’ve no problem with that. As long as I don’t have to see it, it doesn’t bother me one bit 😊 |
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