"If you are aware of the case, you must be disgusted.
Never ever trust the word of the husband without talking with the wife. Conscious.
Speak up if something looks strange. "
Absolutely disgusting behaviour and even worse was that his daughter was a victim as well as his wife. |
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By *ustBoWoman 11 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've only just read about it now. It's absolutely vile and disgusting and the men who went along with it are equally as bad. What absolute monsters,and how any of them can try and justify what they did is unbelievable. The absolute scum of the earth. |
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By *affa31Woman 11 weeks ago
Galway |
Horrific case and this is up there with the worst of it:
“ Some of the accused said they did not believe it was r*pe, because her husband was there and they believed he could consent for both of them.”
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I'm always uncomfortable and uneasy with status updates and forum posts from men, especially single men, looking for men to come over and have sex with the wife, partner or gf.
The degree of this betrayal is staggering. I really can't get my head around this case. Men can laugh, but honestly, I'd rather be mauled to death by a bear.
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
somewhere |
Reading more into this online and one thought that comes up a lot
Why didnt one decent man put a stop to it
The police say about 3 in 10 men backed out from the computer logs they read so the figures are higher than the 50 men on trial and is between 80 and 100
Most of the men are using the defence of they thought she was pretending and it was their kink
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By *ustBoWoman 11 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I'm always uncomfortable and uneasy with status updates and forum posts from men, especially single men, looking for men to come over and have sex with the wife, partner or gf.
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Or the ones who start threads trying to set up their wife or partner who know nothing about it and even worse are the men who join into these threads agreeing to do it and can see nothing at all wrong with it either. No one with an ounce of decency would even think it's okay to do this. It is pure predatory behaviour.
And I do not understand how anyone can be that desperate for sex that they think it's okay. |
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By *og-ManMan 11 weeks ago
somewhere |
There's also an account that a lot of people jumped on a while back of a male fabber wanking onto a woman that was asleep and also opening her bum cheeks to show her to the camera
Why could anyone think thats fine |
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By *ig_specs OP Woman 11 weeks ago
Kilbarrack |
"Horrific case and this is up there with the worst of it:
“ Some of the accused said they did not believe it was r*pe, because her husband was there and they believed he could consent for both of them.”
🤯🤯"
This is exactly my point! Many of them thought they were helping a couple to fulfil a sexual fantasy |
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"Horrific case and this is up there with the worst of it:
“ Some of the accused said they did not believe it was r*pe, because her husband was there and they believed he could consent for both of them.”
🤯🤯
This is exactly my point! Many of them thought they were helping a couple to fulfil a sexual fantasy "
I appreciate that, but not one of them though to follow up on her wellbeing? Ask her how she was? Their acceptance smacks of her being her husbands possession and them blindly accepting that rather than seeing her as an autonomous human being. Mysogyny is not r*pe but it's still shitty and we are supposed to have moved on from that. Mysogeny also allowed this to continue for years and years. |
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By *aseylee324Couple 11 weeks ago
Valley of Squinting Windows |
It's absolutely disgusting but I'm afraid nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to the behaviour of some men. I think porn has fuelled a lot of predatory and abusive behaviour and the internet has facilitated these individuals finding others who are "like-minded" |
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By *ustBoWoman 11 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Horrific case and this is up there with the worst of it:
“ Some of the accused said they did not believe it was r*pe, because her husband was there and they believed he could consent for both of them.”
🤯🤯
This is exactly my point! Many of them thought they were helping a couple to fulfil a sexual fantasy "
Any man with an ounce of decency would have wanted to speak to the woman before they fucked her. And there is a massive difference between a kink and someone being tranquilized to the point they have no clue what is happening and anyone with half a brain would know the person was out of it. There is no excuses that can make what they did to be okay,they knew exactly what they were doing as did her husband. They all are sexual predators and I hope they all get what they deserve. |
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By *eijaWoman 11 weeks ago
City Centre |
"Horrific case and this is up there with the worst of it:
“ Some of the accused said they did not believe it was r*pe, because her husband was there and they believed he could consent for both of them.”
🤯🤯
This is exactly my point! Many of them thought they were helping a couple to fulfil a sexual fantasy
Any man with an ounce of decency would have wanted to speak to the woman before they fucked her. And there is a massive difference between a kink and someone being tranquilized to the point they have no clue what is happening and anyone with half a brain would know the person was out of it. There is no excuses that can make what they did to be okay,they knew exactly what they were doing as did her husband. They all are sexual predators and I hope they all get what they deserve. "
Absolutely 💯 disgusting behaviour.
There are two individuals in a relationship...I think some people forget that.
Two humans where consent should and must be obtained.
What a horrific ordeal for that poor woman and her family 💔😫😫😫
I cannot imagine how they feel...
B x
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"Agree with everything said but the men were all members of a website specific to a woman not knowing she was being r*ped and assaulted
Not going to find many decent men there
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Was that the case? (I didnt see that reported). Was it a Reddit or similar or was it F et or even F ab.
In kink there is CNC. It's negotiated and consenting. I have heard a grown assed mature woman with her head absolutely screwed on saying her biggest fantasy is to be dr and taken while under. But she's decided herself that she will leave it as a fantasy only partly because she's on a meds regime and the type of drug starting with Ro would potentially mess with her meds.
But I think it's really clear in this case this woman didn't know and it wasn't her kink. But what gets me is that the men involved didn't ask her prior, or follow up after. Either would have alerted her. |
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By *asual777Man 10 weeks ago
i travel all over |
I have heard about the fantasy of a blind folded woman and strangers coming in and out of the room arranged by a male partner who oversees safety and the use of condoms . This is something that both male and female friends have talked about arranging but I have yet to partake in.
I think the key issue is all participants checking in with the female beforehand that this is her fantasy , wish and something she consents to.
It’s possible that the participants in the pelicot case were a mixture of men . Some had concerns that the woman was sedated but didn’t care , and some whom might have attributed the silence/passivity as some part of a fantasy . However by not checking with her beforehand (and before the event), they are guilty regardless of their intent .
This should be an important lesson for anyone considering participating in anything arranged by a male which impacts on a female . The do x/y/z threads to my wife/female partner threads are laced with danger in my view not just of being a load of hot air , but possibly having even more sinister potential outcomes .
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