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By *ig_specs OP Woman 10 weeks ago
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Yesterday I was having a chat with a guy I met here and something got me...
Although I have been told several times I am good looking and hot — which I don't much believe — I just consider myself a average normal, at my best days. And I made me face the fact I am never subject of flirting in real life, like when going out to a pub or even the public transport. In fact it has been years since I noticed someone looking differently at me in a "natural life setting". I also must say that I have never had any problems in getting along with men on dating apps, my dates are usually successful ans I always get the looks I expect when I am in a more sexual event, being a Fabswingers social, a munch or a DV8 event. So, I wonder... Is "natural flirting" dead? |
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I flirt an awful lot and there’s no harm in it. I wouldn’t be flirting with anyone on public transport as it could be misconstrued and bring a heap of problems but it’s nice to be a bit flirty in the right way and the right time. I remember being at a wedding and a chap saying to the mother of the bride, “do you know what would look good on you? Me!” She nearly died and told him to fuck himself the dirty fucker. So there’s a fine line of flirting and being an arsehole in social settings. |
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I love flirting. But in a joking way. Some just come across as creepy and make people feel uncomfortable.
I have got a good few meet ups with people in normal settings from being friendly and little flirty at the same time. |
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I'm outrageously flirty, apparently, except for when I'm not. 😅
I enjoy my own company and going to events in RL on my own, so that's lead to some really interesting adventures with interesting people. Flirting is alive and well.
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I've started chatting to and flirting with women in TKMaxx, Tesco, Dunnes, and two local cafes, and gotten dates out of it.
I love flirting. Do it all the time even if I've no intention of asking for a number but just want someone to feel wanted. |
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"Well, I think I might be my own problem "
You need to release all fear, worry, and shyness, and just start talking to people. I talk to them. It's not compliments or sex talk. Just a random comment on something they're looking at. Share an insight. Share a tip. Share an experience. Just be chatty. Flirting is better when you don't launch into getting a number etc.
My thoughts any way. Works for me. |
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I don't flirt with strangers and rarely with people I know.
I spent the best part of 30 years visiting pubs and hotels that were often filled with hen parties or wedding groups.
On an average week I could have been in 60+ different premises and I don't remember a single incident of someone flirting with me.
As far as I was concerned I was invisible to women so whether it never happened or I just wasn't aware of it I'll never know. |
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I don't do flirting...it doesn't come naturally to me at all. I usually just want the ground to open up and swallow me. I've rarely been approached by anyone irl, probably because of the stay away from me death rays I emit 🤣
I'm fairly socially awkward anyway so I'm painfully aware of my unflirtabilty which tends to make things even worse and I get further and further into my own head.
That said, with the right person in the right circumstances I can be an outrageous flirt...but that's a once in a blue moon occurrence |
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"I m a lover of the flirting, can't help myself, it's like a communications game. Flirt every day.
Same. It really cheers me up! And I love being flirted with. I mean who doesn't 
Mrs"
It's always good for the confidence when someone flirts or responds to your flirting |
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Well I believe most men may feel nervous about initiating contact with women they're interested in. It's often tied to fear of rejection, concern about saying the wrong thing, or anxiety about not being perceived positively. But in Fab world people know why everyone is here for. |
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